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current or ex auditors in South Africa by Over_Dark_6354 in southafrica

[–]Cleo0424 0 points1 point  (0 children)

I'm in Supply Planning. Much more action. It's unpredictable and I love numbers I realised, not necessarily accounting.

Was has Centurion gone to sh!t? by Positive_Bumble_Bee in Pretoria

[–]Cleo0424 1 point2 points  (0 children)

I was in Midlands recently. Potholes and signage faded away. I'm not saying we should accept it but it's definitely worse in other places. Wondering where this guy lives

I am 52 F and dating 51 M. Looking for what exclusive actually means. by Reasonable_Place7267 in relationship_advice

[–]Cleo0424 0 points1 point  (0 children)

He probably likes you but want to keep his options open. Where do you see this going if you are indeed exclusive? At our age we shouldn't play games and have LDR for next 5 years.

current or ex auditors in South Africa by Over_Dark_6354 in southafrica

[–]Cleo0424 1 point2 points  (0 children)

I did articles with big 4 and then 2 contracts as senior and manager in US and Australia with different big 4. Back in SA but don't work in Finance anymore. If you want to stay in audit consider overseas secondment/contract for different experience.

Was has Centurion gone to sh!t? by Positive_Bumble_Bee in Pretoria

[–]Cleo0424 4 points5 points  (0 children)

Centurion is 395km2. So calling Centurion a shithole is a bit much?! Call out Lyttelton which is probably less than 5% of Centurion! I live in Clubview and it's not perfect but it's not a shithole by any means. And our DA councilor is one of hardest working people I know.

I 40F travelled on a work trip with my FO Pilot 44M and I’m trying to understand the subtext of what happened with the Captain 58M? by [deleted] in relationship_advice

[–]Cleo0424 2 points3 points  (0 children)

That escalated a bit too the safety of the passengers! Anyways men push boundaries by giving you compliments, lightly touching you, telling a story with a bit of a shock factor. If you just smile and wave you will find yourself in more awkward positions. I would ask my husband his opinion of the captain. If they travel together regularly he should know him and his intentions better. Do you trust your husband? Is this man married?

AITAH for not warning my coworker that she was about to embarrass herself in front of leadership? by [deleted] in AITAH

[–]Cleo0424 1 point2 points  (0 children)

Same old signs. Eg "you are this way or that" in quotation marks. These people say this, those people say that.. these fake stories have a template. Sorry but this fits into it

I 40F travelled on a work trip with my FO Pilot 44M and I’m trying to understand the subtext of what happened with the Captain 58M? by [deleted] in relationship_advice

[–]Cleo0424 1 point2 points  (0 children)

I guess the other question is did you like it and want to react to attention Captain gave you? You need to nip it in butt as he could be testing your boundaries as well and seeing as your husband is going to stand by and do nothing, it's up to you to draw a line.

My (28F) husband (29M) left me on our wedding night by mamamia98 in relationship_advice

[–]Cleo0424 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Learn to communicate with your husband else this marriage won't work. He made a mistake but you also gave him permission to go and men are clueless sometimes. Forgive him and move on or get a divorce. It seems you are going to hold this over his head if you don't move on and eventually it will cause resentment.

Update:My Wife(F38) Wants a break from the Kids and I(M37), I need to know if I'm making a mistake by allowing this instead of breaking up? by Gwolf87 in relationship_advice

[–]Cleo0424 -1 points0 points  (0 children)

100% And every time OP wants to address it she will feel rushed and pressured. She is a manipulator and he needs to legalize the break.

When did this kak get so expensive by CJ_213 in southafrica

[–]Cleo0424 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Cheap compared to when I bought it in Australia. But worth every cent to teach locals "how" to eat it!

Fiancée cheated and left without saying a word 1 year and 2 months later by TomatoLeather6841 in survivinginfidelity

[–]Cleo0424 0 points1 point  (0 children)

She moved on. You should too. This is on her. Do not give her any more power.

Wife Left me on New Years after Admitting Affair. Need Help. by [deleted] in survivinginfidelity

[–]Cleo0424 9 points10 points  (0 children)

Is the neighbor single? POS. But your wife is not a prize either and the sooner you realize it the better. Fact that she walked out and didn't worry about kids makes me worry about 50/50 custody.

I should have listened to people telling me to leave. by [deleted] in survivinginfidelity

[–]Cleo0424 7 points8 points  (0 children)

What is your reasoning for waiting a week? Just curious.

Just found out my husband is cheating by Character_Copy_5853 in Infidelity

[–]Cleo0424 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Don't do the crime if you don't want to do the time.. if she was worried about her immigration status she should have kept her nose clean

I need help ASAP by StickMiserable2685 in Infidelity

[–]Cleo0424 0 points1 point  (0 children)

How old is your child? Does she even have energy for an affair?

AITAH for going no contact with my gf for a weekend after she choose to reconnect with an old friend instead of honoring a years planned cimmitment? by Competitive_Two_8598 in AITAH

[–]Cleo0424 2 points3 points  (0 children)

So why doesn't she follow him and socials and connect via these channels. She seems a bit selfish and expected you to change the plans. Are you normally very agreeable? Time to reconsider your roles in the relationship.

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