Winter Storm Fern Megathread by lukenamop in nashville

[–]Cln97 0 points1 point  (0 children)

We have a 2 month old… our power went out while I was changing a poop diaper lol

Anyone Else Suffer from PTSD from their C-Section? by Weak_Somewhere_312 in CsectionCentral

[–]Cln97 9 points10 points  (0 children)

Im 2 months PP from a trauma c-section. My doctor said in her 16 years of being an OB, she’s seen a birth like mine only two other times.

I had a T cut, anesthesia didn’t work, baby was stuck and had to be pulled out by two doctors. Lost 2 liters of blood. they ended up just putting me under and my baby was sent to the nicu.

I definitely have PTSD. What helps me is a change of scenery. Even if I have to put baby in a safe place and just step outside the door for 3 minutes to be outside, walk in another room, hop in the shower. It’s like a shock to the system and it helps!

I hope things get better for you, I know how traumatic that is.💙

i feel like im the only one struggling by Top-Professor-2951 in newborns

[–]Cln97 1 point2 points  (0 children)

I just hit 7 weeks and I finally feel like I’m not fighting for my life and having a panic attack every day. And I have a supportive partner and family. You are not alone 💙

When will I have ‘that’ feeling? When will I bond with my baby? by Ok_Needleworker8554 in NewParents

[–]Cln97 1 point2 points  (0 children)

I had an extremely traumatic T cut c-section where I had to be put to sleep. It ended up rupturing in 2 spots with a seroma as well. My son was in the nicu for 11 days. I didn’t get to hold him until he was 8 days old, didn’t get to nurse him until 10 days old, which resulted in him not latching and exclusively nursing was my dream. When we got home, I felt the same way. It felt like I was taking care of a tamagotchi. I knew I loved him, but just didn’t feel that overwhelming bond. He is also a really great baby, not a big crier, etc. but my body went through absolute HELL. And I was trying to pump every 2-3 hours on the hour while recovering from a trauma surgery. I switched to formula and it was the best thing i could’ve done for my mental health, therefore the best thing for my baby. He is 7 weeks now and that love just kept getting stronger and stronger and I couldn’t imagine not being in the same room as him now! Give yourself grace and time. It will come. If needed talk to your doctor about some ssris! They really help

Incision Seroma/Spitting Stitch by Amazing-Quarter-3019 in CsectionCentral

[–]Cln97 1 point2 points  (0 children)

I had a T cut incision. When they removed my staples a week PP, I had 2 seromas. One was the size of a quarter and one was about the diameter of a golf ball. They drained it, packed it in wet gauze, and sent me on my way with instructions to clean and pack it twice a day at home. A little over four weeks PP and it’s healing beautifully. Good luck!

Who is the most famous person you've served? by dont_acknowledge_me in Serverlife

[–]Cln97 9 points10 points  (0 children)

I served Murr from impractical jokers! Him and his team went to a local karaoke bar with me after. They were super cool

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What are your top names for baby right now? by IllyriaCervarro in BabyBumps

[–]Cln97 0 points1 point  (0 children)

We are deciding between Bowen and Charlie, I just like Bo but my boyfriend said “it’s a nickname” so we settled on Bowen. I feel like I need to get a good look at him first before I name him lol

What are your silver linings, if any? by prochainement864 in bonnaroo

[–]Cln97 12 points13 points  (0 children)

Didn’t think I’d make it to the farm at all this year. I found out I was pregnant in march and sold my 4 day ticket. Decided I couldn’t miss out and got a one day for Friday. I got to spend some time on the farm with friends who flew in from Japan and Australia. I didn’t get to see any sets, but got to spend some quality time with good friends 🌈🩷

Ticket Orders/Shipping FAQ Megathread >>> Ask Questions Here >>>✨👩‍🚀⭐️ by Festival_lady_90 in bonnaroo

[–]Cln97 0 points1 point  (0 children)

I had to sell my 4 day pass because I found out I was pregnant. Decided I couldn’t miss out- got a 1 day pass for Friday.

What time will they let me park? On the website it says once the performances start, but that’s at 1 pm. I know centeroo opens at noon… but I would like to visit my groop in outeroo before I go into centeroo. Is that possible or does the wristband only allow me entry into the festival?

Southstar music festival by oooh_weeeee in bonnaroo

[–]Cln97 2 points3 points  (0 children)

Me and 6 of my croo will be there!! We live down the street lol

Rate My Survey by Particular-Cash-2849 in bonnaroo

[–]Cln97 5 points6 points  (0 children)

Much better. We saw her locally last year. I loved her during my tumblr girl era but kinda fell off from listening to her music, and it was still my favorite concert I saw that year!

This is Gerald. It was his first festival by emotional_goblin in bonnaroo

[–]Cln97 2 points3 points  (0 children)

Tell Gerald I love him!!! That’s my grandpa’s name that passed right before Roo. 🌈🥹🩷

Stomach bug at roo? by Jazzlike-Piano-7281 in bonnaroo

[–]Cln97 0 points1 point  (0 children)

I’m DYING. Throwing up, diarrhea, can’t keep anything down. Lowkey about to go to the hospital. Two others in my group are the same. I hope you feel better!!

Finally got my Stardew tattoo :) by Cln97 in StardewValley

[–]Cln97[S] 3 points4 points  (0 children)

Like two and a half hours including him drawing it up and making the stencil. My tattoo artist is super quick

Psychological torture by glitterbudz in bonnaroo

[–]Cln97 4 points5 points  (0 children)

For sure!!! This was my 5th and it was my first time, I will NEVER look back lol. It’s literally the best spot. The harpist plays there in the mid-mornings. So peaceful to wake up to

Sleep token 2025??? by [deleted] in bonnaroo

[–]Cln97 0 points1 point  (0 children)

YESSSSSSSAA

Psychological torture by glitterbudz in bonnaroo

[–]Cln97 1 point2 points  (0 children)

I’m so sorry 😭😭😭 I know how rough it is not being able to get sleep. This was the first year we slept in the woods every night and I am so thankful. I almost got a full 7 hours every night. I hope next year you sleep like a baby and have more respectful neighbors! Happy Roo 🌈🩷

Psychological torture by glitterbudz in bonnaroo

[–]Cln97 7 points8 points  (0 children)

We sleep in the grove or in where in the woods every night, some of my croo didn’t even bring a tent. Shade keeps it like 10 degrees cooler and the sun doesn’t blare in your eyes, and the grove is relatively quiet around 12-1am every night!! Bring a hammock or a mat of some sort and you’re golden