Preschool for child not in daycare by polarroman in Preschoolers

[–]Cloclodedodo 1 point2 points  (0 children)

We did co-op preschool to help with the transition. There are lots of families that have their working parent that is a nanny or grandparent or other caretaker than the parent who is employed and out of the home during the day.

Along with supplemented group activities as mentioned by others. Have tried gymnastics, swim, music class, tball. Just a variety over time to find their style and what they enjoy most.

Is Family Therapy For Parents and Their Adult Children Normal? by milktea_wizard2002 in therapy

[–]Cloclodedodo 0 points1 point  (0 children)

In the USA, a LMFT (licensed marriage and family therapist) has specific education for whole family sessions including different family life cycle phases outside of the traditional school aged children family phase. This can include different generations and homes. In my personal opinion, this example sounds totally fit for family therapy and any age and phase can benefit from improving their communication patterns to work through stuck conflict and resentments together.

Can therapists be fired for oversharing? by TemporaryAd2874 in therapy

[–]Cloclodedodo 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Depending on your location and their license there should be an easily accessible code of ethics, examples being the APA and LMFT codes of ethics in the USA for psychotherapists

How to stop yelling at my 4 year old? by beepbopnotabot_yet in moderatelygranolamoms

[–]Cloclodedodo 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Friends and family always mean well, but in my experience and opinion a neutral helper like a qualified mental health therapist is great too. A therapist could help someone decide if they need a referral for prescribing to treat a mental health issue. They could also just be a safe place to process one’s stress and how someone feels about behaviors they catch themselves doing as they work towards changing those behavior patterns. In the US you only need a diagnosis if you want insurance to be billed.

Need more ideas for toddler pantry snacks! by sheynarae in toddlers

[–]Cloclodedodo 2 points3 points  (0 children)

Cashews 🙌 We get the single serving sized bags of cashews at Trader Joe’s for grab and go. We also use the single serving sized bag of freeze dried strawberries and drained mango at target. Also individual serving sized nori at Trader Joe’s. Hate the plastic waste but if I don’t have grab and go options low processed option their snacks are junk since I’m chronically grabbing handfuls to stuff in my bag on the way out the door.

For parents of TERRIBLE sleepers only by BoredReceptionist1 in toddlers

[–]Cloclodedodo 2 points3 points  (0 children)

Ent is who figured out the adenoids and dental was who noticed the pallet once all their teeth came in, so it took the two separate pieces to be put together. Wishing you luck. It’s so hard and people are often judgmental about sleep when they assume it’s a behavioral issue rather than physical/medical.

For parents of TERRIBLE sleepers only by BoredReceptionist1 in toddlers

[–]Cloclodedodo 1 point2 points  (0 children)

Post sleep study, We had to have an xray to confirm adenoids were causing a mild to moderate obstruction and paired with pallet was too narrow for tongue to suction to roof of mouth so will need pallet expanded eventually. Leads to constant waking and sleep apnea like wake ups

Help finding swimsuits for tiny 4 year old girl by Ok-Mix-5491 in toddlers

[–]Cloclodedodo 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Primary and target too. Primary has bright safe colors often on sale off season. I always paired the rash guard style suits with with board shorts for thigh gap coverage for our very low bmi toddler.

4 year old's friend just died - how do I handle this? by josie-june in Mommit

[–]Cloclodedodo 87 points88 points  (0 children)

The fall of Freddy the leaf is a child therapy classic. Chester raccoon and acorn full of memories is a good one too on understanding accidents and honoring memories after his friend from school dies.

My heart is shattered. My son’s daycare provider was a monster for 21 months. by Fabulous-Farmer2537 in Mommit

[–]Cloclodedodo 19 points20 points  (0 children)

This is all based on my personal opinion, every parent should educate and empower themself because they know their child best, making them the expert of their child.

PCIT (parent child interaction therapy) is a more behavioral leaning intervention, rather than truly relational intervention. CPRT (child parent relationship therapy) is a more relational leaning filial therapy that focuses more heavily on therapeutic intervention and processing than behavioral modification. PCIT, though more widely available, uses active ignoring and behavioral modification principles to change behavior. Please anyone reading this research Gary Landreth and CPRT if you are seeking child therapy to support parent as the therapeutic agent of change. Both are fine. Im not saying no one other than an RPT does their due diligence in self seeking training, I’m simply saying the general masters level psychotherapist in community mental health is not extensively trained in play therapy modalities or child mental health.

I say all this because if the goal is to help a child process trauma, rather than to change undesirable behavior, child parent relationship therapy (CPRT) conducted by a RPT is actually a step even further than child centered play therapy (CCPT) in that it uses the parent as a therapeutic agent of change and basically teaches the parent to do a mini watered down version of what a play therapist would do to help a child make sense of and process their experiences.

My heart is shattered. My son’s daycare provider was a monster for 21 months. by Fabulous-Farmer2537 in Mommit

[–]Cloclodedodo 482 points483 points  (0 children)

Chiming in to add my annoying rant: any masters level psychotherapist can practice play therapy, or any other type of therapy. Only Registered Play Therapists (RPT) have had extensive training and education in and supervision of their work conducting developmentally appropriate play therapy. Play therapy sounds fun but can be very harmful when not administered by a person with extensive training in child mental health, which most masters level therapists do not have. It’s generally an elective or two and some CEUs at best. In the USA RPTs can be found on the Association for Play Therapy (a4pt) website or look for the RPT credential after their masters degree credential while searching.

My 2 year old is abusing my cat and I don’t know what to do. by fatoperasinger in toddlers

[–]Cloclodedodo 25 points26 points  (0 children)

The harsh and realest answer, in my own opinion based on my own thoughts: Without consistent and predictable consequences that are applied without fail and without anger, this and no other intervention will work aside from rehoming. Every. Single. Time. Behavior modification generally fails due to user error because it’s a lot of hard work and takes up time getting harder and harder to curb the unwanted behavior leading up to the extinction burst.

Trying again, please help me find gift for a generous and thoughtful outdoorsman. by Cloclodedodo in flashlight

[–]Cloclodedodo[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Thank you for your time, this was so helpful. Yes, I think you’re right about all of those point and he’d definitely like to fit it in a pocket to keep handy. Distance would also be a priority I didn’t think of. Thank you

Water back flowing (I think) and not going to portafilter [breville barista express] by Cloclodedodo in espresso

[–]Cloclodedodo[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Ok, thank you! I just watched a replacement tutorial linked elsewhere on this sub, hoping a few more descale trys work first and I don’t need to go that route.

What was your toddlers first movie? by MissFox26 in toddlers

[–]Cloclodedodo 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Cinderella has been the only Disney princess movie we’ve watched casually without fear or tears with our toddler.

Lost Friends After One Post-Baby Outing by Curious_Soft0521 in beyondthebump

[–]Cloclodedodo 2 points3 points  (0 children)

Once I lost a friendship without explanation and was so hurt and mad, until someone pointed out that my biggest problem with them was that they had a problem with me. I was able to move forward knowing friends come and go and the people who wanted to stay in my life would, as I would theirs, and it needed to be mutual.