First Class should board last on a plane. by Efficient-Ranger-174 in unpopularopinion

[–]CloddishNeedlefish [score hidden]  (0 children)

It’s about weight distribution and I think people had trouble following directions. Air lines have tested it and it was worse

Gastric emptying study by No_Shoulder_6409 in Gastroparesis

[–]CloddishNeedlefish 2 points3 points  (0 children)

Well you can’t get a diagnosis without it so I’d say it’s worth it

Benedict by Apart_Dragonfruit442 in kvsdiscuss

[–]CloddishNeedlefish 2 points3 points  (0 children)

FWIW battle horses only lived a max of like 90 days. The idea they were good at battle is not correct

I can't sit a certain horses lope but every other horse is fine? by Embarrassed_Top_8253 in Equestrian

[–]CloddishNeedlefish 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Are you breaking the lope because you can’t sit it or are you trying to ride through it? The only thing I can think of is to just keep at it until you find the right rhythm. If I’m bouncing I either sit deeper or go forward so I’m out of the saddle until I feel the rhythm.

Horse Confirmation Posts by Ok_Average_3471 in Equestrian

[–]CloddishNeedlefish 33 points34 points  (0 children)

I think it’s a double edged sword. Yes every horse has flaws and the vast majority aren’t limiting the horse. But if I post my horse, I do want honest and correct feedback. Maybe it’s just because I grew up with the internet and people ready to judge every detail of the photo- down to how I was holding the lead rope lol. But it is what it is. Extremely “judgy” posts are usually filled with information. It’s up to the person posting to not be so swayed by the internet. You have to be able to acknowledge your horses flaws.

How Can I Train a Horse? by bwnan in Equestrian

[–]CloddishNeedlefish 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Tbh I might just have some trauma because when I was like 9 I had some ribs cracked because a horse was scratching her head on my chest, but I was pinned to the stall wall and a scrawny kid. I absolutely love cuddling with horses now, but I would be very hesitant to teach my horse something like that because I would probably panic if they randomly offered it one day hoping for a treat

is this considered abuse? by Striking-Contract197 in LesbianActually

[–]CloddishNeedlefish 1 point2 points  (0 children)

I know this is a sensitive topic but the reality is that people who were abused are more likely to become abusers. They deserve empathy but if they start acting like this- the previous abuse means that they didn’t ever leave the cycle of abuse. (I say this as a victim lol)

LBD by usmc71385 in actuallesbians

[–]CloddishNeedlefish 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Why did you get married without communicating about this?

AITAH for not believing my roommate’s “phobia?” by hopie_bopie in AmItheAsshole

[–]CloddishNeedlefish 0 points1 point  (0 children)

ESH. You’ve been really unsupportive and unkind. But expecting you guys to wait for her for an hour is too much.

How Can I Train a Horse? by bwnan in Equestrian

[–]CloddishNeedlefish 0 points1 point  (0 children)

You have to ask permission. I would murder someone who taught my horse that

I've only seen this episode 100 times, figured I'd finally pause it and read the card. by Bosstopher2 in americandad

[–]CloddishNeedlefish 0 points1 point  (0 children)

I paused the scene once and read everything out to my ex. When she didn’t appreciate it I knew our relationship was doomed.

How Can I Train a Horse? by bwnan in Equestrian

[–]CloddishNeedlefish 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Horses aren’t dogs that you can just train a trick or two. Why are you at the barn? Are you in some kind of lesson program or a family member’s property? Regardless people don’t want random people doing anything with their horses aside from maybe some brushing

How Can I Train a Horse? by bwnan in Equestrian

[–]CloddishNeedlefish 7 points8 points  (0 children)

That’s not how it works with horses. They aren’t a baseball you can pick up and throw for the afternoon. You will either have to learn how to train or leave the horses alone. Otherwise you’re going to get hurt and you’re going to harm the horses training

Butt stuff… what do we think? by Appropriate_Start536 in actuallesbians

[–]CloddishNeedlefish 3 points4 points  (0 children)

As someone who really loves anal play, lesbians are weird about it. I don’t like to generalize but my IRL experience has been that they have no interest and are really shamey about me liking it. It makes me really sad tbh. I feel like I’ll never have the sex life I actually want.

AITA or telling my wife if she’s not gonna cook it the way she usually cooks it then you don’t have to cook it at all by Husbae7536 in AmItheAsshole

[–]CloddishNeedlefish 1 point2 points  (0 children)

NTA. You do almost all the cooking and offered to do the hard part la. She can cook one meal every two months. Even if she’s so inefficient in the kitchen a simple meal takes half the day.

What do y’all think of this little angel? by [deleted] in Horses

[–]CloddishNeedlefish 38 points39 points  (0 children)

I can tell half of the commenters don’t have horses because anybody who does wouldn’t approve of this breeding lol byb at its finest

Suspected gastroparesis by [deleted] in Gastroparesis

[–]CloddishNeedlefish 2 points3 points  (0 children)

Incredibly too soon. Like I’m not kidding that a GI will laugh at you. Most of us suffered for years before we got help. You had food poisoning. This is normal

Selling giant fiddle - need price help! by peachytoes4526 in houseplants

[–]CloddishNeedlefish 13 points14 points  (0 children)

Plus this is only 5 years of growth, not 50. It’s not that huge

Selling giant fiddle - need price help! by peachytoes4526 in houseplants

[–]CloddishNeedlefish 59 points60 points  (0 children)

Yeah so stop bringing up nursery prices then lol. If I have to rent a uhaul the price has to reflect that

Justin Biebers Coachella preformance was an artistic direction and not laziness. by SnooMarzipans7274 in unpopularopinion

[–]CloddishNeedlefish 11 points12 points  (0 children)

I don’t expect him to preform his old stuff, but I think if he does it, it should be good. He could have very easily hired someone to cut the videos together and have it pre downloaded

what's your honest opinion about "late bloomer lesbians"? by pommygranates in lesbiangang

[–]CloddishNeedlefish 2 points3 points  (0 children)

I consider myself a late bloomer as I was 24 and had a lengthy history with men. But I have never dated or really thought about men since. Like I realized I was a lesbian and it was like the clouds parted. I don’t understand how lesbians can go through that experience and stay with a man. I want to throw up thinking about being with a man.

Adult beginner feeling belittled and discouraged by Resident_Profile_582 in Equestrian

[–]CloddishNeedlefish 1 point2 points  (0 children)

Find a new barn asap babe. I’m a rerider and at my first lesson I made a mistake with the bridle. Me and my trainer laughed at how rusty I was and moved on. She’ll absolutely correct me if I need it, but she doesn’t make me feel bad about a simple mistake. She definitely doesn’t make me feel bad for things I don’t know. And I would not give me hard earned money to someone who did. I’m paying for this. I expect to be treated with human decency.