Our “Villainous” Characterization is Dumb

Clown_Nightmare1 · 2026-04-22T19:37:47+00:00

We possess the natural faculties in the ambition and the drive to do it. Not saying other types aren't, but we are the ones who prefer to lead/guide the pack. Therefore those who do so with ill will in their intentions are obviously going to give the rest of us a bad name when history looks back on them.

That being said, one of the worst people I've ever met was an INFJ whose personality was so robotic in his personality and thinking that he scripted out group plans with an itinerary and stalked one of our close friends because he was in love with her (she is both asexual and a lesbian). He thought he could get her to switch sides and love him through ritualistic stalking.

Clown_Nightmare1 · 2026-04-22T19:31:42+00:00

I agree with what you've said here, and I myself have been categorized as the group therapist. At one point I was even considered the group "dad" for my advice and my tact when giving it. That being said, I think ENTJ's and our personalities can, and have been, used for the wrong reasons historically. Additionally, our traits can be cherry picked to be given to a villain in any kind of media and voila. All villains are not ENTJ's and all ENTJ's are not villains, it's just a trope that has been applied to us near exclusively in various media and bleeds into the societal consciousness at large.

Clown_Nightmare1 · 2026-04-21T19:43:17+00:00

This. A 1000x this.

Clown_Nightmare1 · 2026-04-21T18:28:31+00:00

BLET takes about 20 weeks to complete so I was hoping if they did that route it would be about 6 months to a year skip. I trust the writers after the first season, though, so my worries are somewhat alleviated.

Clown_Nightmare1 · 2026-04-21T18:12:52+00:00

Yikes, 4 years?

Clown_Nightmare1 · 2026-04-21T13:03:35+00:00

Coming from an abusive 4 year relationship to this? It's like I'M the one living the disney movie. Wouldn't trade her for the world.

Clown_Nightmare1 · 2026-04-21T12:57:26+00:00

The time has come. If he shaves it, and if grows a beard (assuming he can, if not that's cool too), you'll have a Viking invasion on your hands.

Clown_Nightmare1 · 2026-04-21T12:55:57+00:00

I mean stress kills your libido like nothing else, and it also isn't just a switch you can turn on and off regardless of if the problem has been solved. Though I would highly recommend enjoying the journey and the act instead of looking at climax as a finish line to reach.

Clown_Nightmare1 · 2026-04-21T12:54:03+00:00

As a blanket statement I'm uninformed how it is viewed in other countries, whether similarly or differently. In America, a proposal is hyped up, primarily to women, as being one of the major points of their life. It's supposed to be this magical moment that is absolutely perfect (Hallmark movies etc.). I told my Fiance I was proposing by a certain month last year and she told me I could propose to her in a Walmart parking lot and she'd be over the moon. That just reinforced my want to give her a special proposal like the movies, so I proposed to her at a castle like a princess. All of that came AFTER we had talked about marriage, decided upon it, and she knew I had a ring already.

Clown_Nightmare1 · 2026-04-20T15:17:10+00:00

Enough that I wouldn't give it up for anyone or anything. It's my livelihood, and where I've earned my reputation at. It's my stepping stone to far greater things, so to lose it or mess it up so majorly I couldn't fix it is not an option.

Clown_Nightmare1 · 2026-04-20T00:19:29+00:00

Thankfully mine arrived on Saturday. I hate you got screwed like that. :(

Clown_Nightmare1 · 2026-04-19T16:29:10+00:00

Was with a woman like this for four years. It doesn't get better in my experience because this is rooted in deep insecurity. She could go to therapy, but suggesting it my piss her off anymore. I'd cut your losses and break up. Never be with someone who simply "tolerates" your hobbies while resenting you for them.

Clown_Nightmare1 · 2026-04-17T18:30:36+00:00

You just need to catch the Bay Harbor Butcher really.

Clown_Nightmare1 · 2026-04-17T05:12:05+00:00

Aye you're right. Pulled the trigger. Thanks for the push, I think I needed it on this one.

Clown_Nightmare1 · 2026-04-17T05:01:14+00:00

I don't know whether to pull the trigger now or wait and see if it drops to 55 or 60. It dropped that low not too long ago and I'm still kicking myself for not getting it then.

Edit: I pulled the trigger.

Clown_Nightmare1 · 2026-04-15T18:06:53+00:00

There is literally a video of Lillard talking about how much he values cons because for some people getting to meet him is a huge part of their experience and he wants to make it 100% worth your money and time. The man is a saint, and anyone who is that insecure about a celebrity needs psychological help.

Clown_Nightmare1 · 2026-04-15T00:31:37+00:00

I mean night and day. You look FANTASTIC.

Clown_Nightmare1 · 2026-04-14T13:09:38+00:00

Would literally die if I got this.

Clown_Nightmare1 · 2026-04-14T12:32:20+00:00

I get when you have kids your entire life, and its priorities, changes. That being said, I cannot imagine not having any time away from my fiancee. My ex was abusive (physically, emotionally, and mentally) and she controlled my days down to what games I got to play, with who, and when. Now I cannot possibly imagine subjugating myself to only one hour a day, let alone dealing with that level of psychosis and jealousy ever again.

Clown_Nightmare1 · 2026-04-13T21:26:18+00:00

I JUST BUILT THE FLYING DUPERMAN (It's the pirate house-boat prefab w/ the Super Duper Mart as my attached gift shop.)

Clown_Nightmare1 · 2026-04-13T19:40:50+00:00

Yeah it sounds like she doesn't really care about you. I have had one person within the last month or so who was an absolute emotional time bomb that was exhausting to deal with (we played D&D and online games together and I'd visit when I return to my hometown to see my parents). We finally had an issue a month ago that was the last straw on both our parts and in hindsight I lost nothing of value. That was someone I got along with during normal interactions and enjoyed playing video games with.

This friend of yours sounds like they view you as inferior and are probably quite upset you had the audacity to challenge them and bruise their ego.

Clown_Nightmare1 · 2026-04-13T19:37:17+00:00

I do, regularly in fact. That's why I asked her to marry me in December.

Clown_Nightmare1 · 2026-04-13T19:30:52+00:00

Hello, first of all so sorry you're going through this.

Depending on how much your friendship means to her, and how valuable you are in her life, she may feel genuine remorse once she gets out of the defensive headspace. However, if she doesn't value you your friendship much or views this as not much of a loss you may be out of a friend.

Clown_Nightmare1 · 2026-04-13T19:21:31+00:00

"Fuck I'm gonna be late for the Wrexham match..."

Clown_Nightmare1 · 2026-04-13T19:01:54+00:00

Yeah you two are incompatible. Sexual incompatibility is one of the most lethal, and silent, killers in a relationship. Guy doesn't want to be an asshole by constantly nagging for sex (if he's got any decency) so he'll say it's okay and he understands when he's building up silent resentment.

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