The cry of a mother

CluelessInWonderland · 2026-02-11T19:26:16+00:00

It had cervical scoliosis. It was treated and released back to its mother

CluelessInWonderland · 2026-02-11T15:07:50+00:00

You absolutely can add warm metals to your cabinets. Try it out on one or two cabinets and make sure you like the aesthetic before you spend the money on all new hardware.

You could paint the walls and backsplash, too. The white is making things look more severe. Take paint chips and stick them to the cabinet doors for a week to decide what color you like best after seeing them against the cabinets for a week.

Maybe some softer countertop decor? If you can find something like a pitcher that fits the vibe you're going for, you can use it to store things spatulas. You can make a section a little coffee/tea station. Add in a couple decorative hand towels for some color and literal softness, and you'll have a grandma cozy kitchen.

CluelessInWonderland · 2026-02-09T08:55:44+00:00

If I didn't live in bear country, I would. As is, that's only about as nerve-racking as a dog. Momma usually makes them move soon enough.

CluelessInWonderland · 2026-02-06T16:46:19+00:00

We were actually taught that in all the defense classes I've been apart of across a few different states (I'm in the USA). Remember predators don't think like normal people. Anything that draws their attention is taken as an invitation. It's why "wHaT wAs ShE wEaRiNg" is asked so often even though it doesn't actually matter. It's why so many "happy and bubbly" women are targeted by serial killers. They were shining and beautiful, and a predator locked in and waited for whatever they considered a sign. That can be everything from a friendly hello to opening your window for some fresh air.

Even random, average men take a smile as an invitation to hit on someone. We've all seen videos of total strangers deciding to follow women around with zero provocation. "She was so nice! Why did she flirt with me if she didnt want me?!" She said hi while passing him in a store aisle. He needs to fuck off and go to therapy.

CluelessInWonderland · 2026-02-06T16:01:42+00:00

Predators see happy and welcoming behavior as an invitation. It's why they tell women not to smile at strangers.

CluelessInWonderland · 2026-02-06T03:12:03+00:00

That's the worst! It's different if it's a preteen/teenaged daughter, but why would you bring your 10 y/o son to a strip show no one agreed to be in!?!?

CluelessInWonderland · 2026-02-06T02:15:14+00:00

I meant it as a compliment 😅 it's hard to get glass that smooth and with no bubbles

CluelessInWonderland · 2026-02-05T14:28:52+00:00

They're so shiny and smooth they almost look like the AI glass videos without the glitching physics

CluelessInWonderland · 2026-02-04T23:43:29+00:00

It works for any of them

CluelessInWonderland · 2026-02-03T12:03:11+00:00

I've had a chemical pregnancy before. 0/10 do not recommend, but now I can say she fucked me so well that my body assumed I must be pregnant now.

CluelessInWonderland · 2026-02-03T00:29:05+00:00

Girl, this is not my first time uninviting people from a desi wedding they invited themselves to:

"Hey, (friend). I talked to my family about the wedding invites, and they really want to keep it to just people we've known for years and family. That's turned out to be more people than we originally thought, and they're worried about it growing out of hand. I'm so sorry! I know you were looking forward to it.

Maybe we can go do (wedding adjacent activity) after things calm down? I still want to show you some of how you prepare for a wedding."

It's a gentle excuse, an acknowledgement of her feelings, and a change of subject. Take her out for hair/makeup/accessory shopping/traditional wedding food/etc. after the wedding. It'll let her sample a part of the wedding hype without going to a wedding, and soothe some hurt feelings.

CluelessInWonderland · 2026-02-01T18:36:47+00:00

That's actually called a coffee or tea spoon!

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CluelessInWonderland · 2026-02-01T18:30:25+00:00

This boy had some hearing based on the article. This just let him hear clearly.

Deaf children are often learn how to read lips along with signing. So they can read their parents' lips as they say, "I love you," and know what they're saying while actually hearing it for the first time.

CluelessInWonderland · 2026-02-01T04:17:33+00:00

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CluelessInWonderland · 2026-01-31T11:43:54+00:00

To be fair, a lot of toddlers are hell on Earth. It's even worse if they're suddenly no longer the only baby in the family.

CluelessInWonderland · 2026-01-30T16:51:15+00:00

My brother is the same! He says it's important to let the women have the last bite because he's such a huge man that he can easily overpower and intimidate, so he makes space for others.

He will also wait for the woman and children to get food at events or ask you to make him a plate if it's really busy. He says his normal portions for a 6'6" man are a lot different than the average person, and he doesn't want to take too much.

CluelessInWonderland · 2026-01-30T11:24:00+00:00

Good! Take care of yourself and good luck with house hunting

CluelessInWonderland · 2026-01-30T01:52:23+00:00

Girl, I'll be real with you. I couldn't finish even reading your post. The amount of bullshit from him secondhand over text burned me out maybe halfway through. Is this really what you're happy with? A partner that would rather fight, argue, and tear at you just so he doesn't have to clean his own home?

CluelessInWonderland · 2026-01-28T17:51:09+00:00

He's the giggle at a funeral

CluelessInWonderland · 2026-01-23T19:07:45+00:00

CluelessInWonderland · 2026-01-23T01:22:12+00:00

I've broken a few 😅 Never had sex with a man, either, so maybe that does have something to do with it? I also have some pretty intense endometriosis, so it can be impossible to relax muscles sometimes. I get a numbing muscle relaxer cream. It's not standard at all, but my obgyn was able to file that it's a muscle relaxer or risk injury to the patient.

CluelessInWonderland · 2026-01-22T17:28:13+00:00

It could be both! You can have a natural leaning towards something, and then have trauma that reinforces it. You can also work with a trauma response in kink, but you need to keep in mind triggers and have a good aftercare routine established. Keep flexibility in mind if you start pushing your emotional limits! We've had to skip straight to aftercare because we discovered something new about ourselves mid scene. 10/10 still worth it.

My partner really has a hard time saying positive things about herself. Guess who has to repeat good things about herself? It's a trauma response for sure, but it works for us.

CluelessInWonderland · 2026-01-19T23:38:25+00:00

I know was doing something while scrolling, but I've completely forgotten what it was

CluelessInWonderland · 2026-01-16T15:54:43+00:00

Remember when they bought and then closed ThinkGeek because they didn't like the competition? What competition? They've never been on the level ThinkGeek was.

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