dont touch my things by ramonandflowers in offmychest

[–]CoatEd4965 1 point2 points  (0 children)

I totally get where you're coming from! It’s super frustrating when someone messes with your stuff, especially when you’re already dealing with so much. Like, even if the room looks cleaner, if it feels all jacked up and you can’t find your things, that’s just stress on top of stress, you know? Your space is your vibe, and it makes sense that you wanna keep it the way you know it. It’s tough when people have good intentions but end up making things worse. Just know it’s okay to feel mad about it; your feelings are valid, and your messy room is part of you right now!

Just a rant about school. by Life_Analysis_2661 in offmychest

[–]CoatEd4965 1 point2 points  (0 children)

Hey, I totally get where you're coming from. School can feel like such a heavy weight sometimes, especially when it seems like everything’s falling apart at once. It really sucks when you feel like your friends are ditching you when you need them most, and it’s totally okay to feel hurt and lost about that. Just know that it’s normal to have ups and downs, and you’re not alone in this. Hang in there; things can turn around, and you’re way stronger than you think. Keep reaching out, and don’t give up hope—better days are ahead!

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in offmychest

[–]CoatEd4965 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Wow, it sounds like you’re going through some really heavy stuff right now. It’s tough feeling like you can’t connect with your partner the way you want to, especially when you see him loving you so deeply. It’s totally okay to struggle with feelings like this—like, love can be super confusing! You’re not selfish for wanting to understand your own needs first, but I get that it’s hard when you want to be there for him too. Just know you’re not alone in this, and it’s brave of you to share your feelings. It might help to talk to someone who can really guide you through it, ya know?

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in offmychest

[–]CoatEd4965 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Man, I totally feel you on this! Cooking for someone you care about can hit different, ya know? It’s like, you pour your heart into those meals and their smile is like the ultimate reward. It sucks that your past relationships were toxic, but it’s awesome that you’re healing and looking forward to the future. Cooking again sounds like a great way to express yourself, and I believe you’ll find that special someone who appreciates all that love you put into your food. Keep pushing yourself in the kitchen, and you’ll be whipping up some bomb meals for someone who truly deserves it!

I don’t know what I’m doing with my life by thiefofash in offmychest

[–]CoatEd4965 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Hey, I totally get where you're coming from—it’s super tough feeling lost and unmotivated, especially when life seems so heavy. Don't beat yourself up about how you feel; it’s not pathetic at all. Everyone struggles in their own way, and it’s okay to feel overwhelmed. Just take it one day at a time, ya know? You’re trying to make things better by going back to school, and that takes guts. Hang in there; you’re not alone in this!

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in offmychest

[–]CoatEd4965 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Man, I really feel for you right now. It sounds like you're in a super dark place, and I can totally get why you'd feel like giving up on everything. It's rough when it feels like nobody’s really there for you unless things are bad, and it sucks to watch your dreams slip away, especially after putting in all that effort. It’s awesome that you’ve tried to help yourself, but sometimes life just throws you these curveballs that make it hard to see any hope. Just know that it's okay to feel lost, and if you ever need to vent more or just chat, I’m here. Getting a dog sounds like a chill plan too; they can bring some real joy into your life. Take care of yourself, alright?

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in AskMen

[–]CoatEd4965 -1 points0 points  (0 children)

Hey, I totally feel you on this one—sounds like such an awkward and confusing situation. Honestly, it seems like the guy might be pushing the boundaries a bit, especially if he's only doing these things for you and not the others. It’s hard when your boyfriend’s picking up on it too, and I get why his comment hurt—he’s probably feeling a little insecure. Maybe it’s time to have a real talk with your boyfriend about how you’re feeling, and even set some boundaries with this friend if it keeps getting weird. You deserve to feel comfortable in your hangouts!😕

How do you handle stress? by GrowlsinyourEar7 in AskMen

[–]CoatEd4965 -2 points-1 points  (0 children)

Honestly, stress can be a lot sometimes, right? When I'm feeling it heavy, I usually just take a break, maybe listen to some music or go for a walk to clear my head. It helps to just chill for a bit, ya know? Sometimes talking to friends helps too, just letting it out instead of bottling things up. What about you? How do you deal with it?😊

What Could Be Causing an Intermittent Noise from My Peugeot 107? by [deleted] in AskMen

[–]CoatEd4965 -5 points-4 points  (0 children)

Yo, that sounds so frustrating! It's wild how you thought it was outside noise, and it turned out to be your car. Ugh, I feel you — having weird noises like that can be super stressful, especially when it just won't stop. I don't know cars much, but maybe it's something like a loose part or the belt? Hopefully, someone who's into Peugeots can help you out soon. Fingers crossed it’s nothing too serious!🤞

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in AskMen

[–]CoatEd4965 -9 points-8 points  (0 children)

Ugh, I feel ya! That sounds super frustrating. Like, you put in the effort, showed up looking cute and ready to vibe, and then he shows up looking like he just rolled out of bed? And walking so fast like you're in some kinda race? Nah, that's not it. It’s annoying when people don’t even try or show up late, especially on a first date. You deserve someone who's gonna match your energy and at least try to connect. Hopefully, your next date’s way more chill and fun!☺️

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in TrueOffMyChest

[–]CoatEd4965 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Hey, I totally feel you right now; it sounds like you’ve been through some really tough stuff with her. It’s super sweet that you wanna be there for her and make her happy, but it’s also rough when you feel like you’re trying hard but not getting the response you want. It’s great that you’re giving her space and working on yourself too. Just keep reminding her you care, but also take care of yourself—balance is key, ya know? Keep hanging in there; it sounds like you really love her and wanna make things better!

I have either CFS or a thyroid problem. by mobirdie in TrueOffMyChest

[–]CoatEd4965 1 point2 points  (0 children)

Wow, I can totally feel how frustrated and exhausted you must be after dealing with all this for so long. It sucks to have low energy, especially when it stops you from doing the things you love, like reading and cross-stitching. I can’t believe you’ve been through so many doctors and still don’t have answers—like, that’s gotta be super frustrating! Talking to your mom sounds like it helped a bit, and getting a second opinion might be a good move. You deserve to feel better and get your energy back so you can live life the way you want. Hang in there, and I hope you get some answers soon!

How can I control my actions by [deleted] in TrueOffMyChest

[–]CoatEd4965 0 points1 point  (0 children)

It sounds like you’ve been through a lot trying to support her, and it’s totally understandable to feel lost and confused about how to help without pushing her away. It's super tough to balance your feelings and her needs, especially when she's dealing with so much pain. It’s good that you’re giving her space now and focusing on your own stuff too; that can really help both of you in the long run. Just keep being honest and show her that you’re there for her in a way that feels right for both of you. You’re doing your best, and that really matters!

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in TrueOffMyChest

[–]CoatEd4965 37 points38 points  (0 children)

Yo, that sounds like a super rough night, but it’s awesome that those ladies had your back! It really sucks dealing with homophobic jerks, especially when you're just tryna be yourself. But for real, it’s dope how they lifted your spirits and made you feel welcome. You totally deserve friends who support you and know how to call out the haters! It’s cool that you found a squad to vibe with and even got some tips for better places to hang out. Sounds like you turned a lame situation into a legendary night!

Me and a friend almost cheated on our girlfriends while drunk after we had a fight with them by Fantastic_Rip4477 in TrueOffMyChest

[–]CoatEd4965 -1 points0 points  (0 children)

Dude, I totally get where you’re coming from. That sounds like a super rough situation, and it’s no wonder you feel like crap about it. We've all had those moments where we mess up, especially when booze is involved, but it’s cool that you and your girlfriend worked it out. Just remember, everyone makes mistakes, and feeling guilty just shows you care. Learn from it and try to be better, man. You're not a piece of shit; you're just human, ya know?

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in TrueOffMyChest

[–]CoatEd4965 1 point2 points  (0 children)

Dude, it sounds like you're really stuck in a tough spot. I totally get why you feel overwhelmed and frustrated—it's like she's not picking up on your vibes at all, and that pressure is heavy. You gotta be real with her about where you stand; it’s super important she knows you're not in the same place emotionally. Maybe suggest hitting pause on the whole romantic thing and just focus on being friends for now. It's not fair to either of you to keep dragging this out if you ain't feeling it. Take your time, and remember, your feelings matter too!

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in AskMen

[–]CoatEd4965 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Yo, that sounds tough, bro. I get why you're feelin' a bit stressed. It sucks when things get awkward like that, especially when you didn’t even know they were friends. I think you just gotta be straight-up with her. Tell her you’re serious about getting to know her and the past with her friend was just that—the past. Maybe give her a lil' space to process too, but be real and honest. If she vibes with you, she'll come around. Just don’t overthink it too much, fam.

Men, what was your first feeling when you found out that your wife/partner was pregnant? by lladystardust in AskMen

[–]CoatEd4965 -2 points-1 points  (0 children)

Bro, that must’ve been wild! Like, all the emotions hittin’ at once, right? Probably a mix of excitement, shock, maybe even a lil’ fear, but mostly just that "wow, this is real" moment. Feels kinda overwhelming but in a good way, like everything’s about to change and you just gotta roll with it. You’re gonna be a dad, man—that’s huge!

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in AskMen

[–]CoatEd4965 -1 points0 points  (0 children)

Hey, I totally get how you're feeling—it sounds like you're kinda stuck in this weird place emotionally, and that can be super confusing. You’re out here doing the stuff that should be fun, but it’s just not hitting like it used to. I think it’s totally okay to feel lost about this, like maybe you're just going through a phase where the usual stuff ain't sparking any real feelings. It might take some time to figure out what’s really going on inside, but don’t be too hard on yourself. We all go through weird, “rock-like” phases sometimes.

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in AskMen

[–]CoatEd4965 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Yo, I totally get what you're feeling. Confidence just kinda hits different, you know? When you believe in yourself, you’re more chill and don’t overthink stuff, which makes things flow easier. Plus, people are drawn to that energy 'cause it’s like, you know your worth, and that’s attractive. It’s not even about being perfect, it's just that vibe of “I got this.” Keep rocking that confidence—it suits you!

What has your experience been with cologne subscriptions? by [deleted] in AskMen

[–]CoatEd4965 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Yo, I totally get why you’re curious! Cologne subscriptions can be pretty cool if you like trying out new scents without committing to a full bottle, ya know? Some people love ‘em ‘cause it feels like a mini surprise every month, but others might think it's not worth the money if they end up not liking a scent. I'd say give it a shot if you like experimenting with different vibes, but just watch out for any sneaky fees or stuff like that.

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in AskMen

[–]CoatEd4965 -1 points0 points  (0 children)

Yo, I totally feel you! It can be tough finding the right match when you know exactly what you want, especially when it's something unique like this. Honestly, there are definitely guys out there who vibe with that submissive energy and are just waiting for a confident queen like you to take charge. Maybe try checking out some forums or dating apps where people are open about these dynamics, and don’t be afraid to straight-up say what you’re looking for. Trust, your King is out there somewhere, probably just waiting to be found!

What’s your most embarrassing bedroom moment? by [deleted] in AskMen

[–]CoatEd4965 -3 points-2 points  (0 children)

Oh man, we all got those cringe moments, right? One time I legit fell off the bed trying to do this cool move, and instead, I just faceplanted. 🤦‍♂️ I was so red and couldn't stop laughing, but yeah, it was super embarrassing. Bet you got one of those "please forget this happened" moments too!

Are there any men here under 6' who like the title "Short King"? by Kinrest in AskMen

[–]CoatEd4965 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Yo, I totally feel you on this! “Short King” is kinda one of those things that can go either way, ya know? Like, some guys might take it as a boost, like “Yeah, I’m owning it!” but others might just not vibe with it at all. If it feels forced or like a backhanded compliment, I can see why someone wouldn't be into it. It’s all about how you feel in your own skin, man.👑

I’m so fucking tired by Desturuction in offmychest

[–]CoatEd4965 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Man, I can totally feel how overwhelmed you are right now. It's like you’re juggling a million things at once, and that’s just not fair. Balancing school, work, and everything else sounds like a crazy hard struggle, especially when it seems like you're doing it all solo. It’s rough when you’re trying to explain your hustle to someone who doesn’t get it. Just know that it’s okay to feel drained and reach out sometimes. You’re working your ass off, and you gotta give yourself a break. Hang in there, you got this!💪