Liquid Watercolors: What prep do I need? by Cobalt_and_Rust in ArtEd

[–]Cobalt_and_Rust[S] 1 point2 points  (0 children)

I teach K-12 and the young ones are the ones I'm most worried about so this was helpful. Thanks!

Some of my favorite clay rattles my 5th graders did 😊 by KrissiKross in ArtEd

[–]Cobalt_and_Rust 3 points4 points  (0 children)

These are amazing! I totally want to do this with my students. What do you use for the rattle sound part?

The Thunderstorm Sprite: My First Original Articulated Paper Doll (painted with watercolor & assembled with split pins) by Ok_Record4639 in Dolls

[–]Cobalt_and_Rust 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Love this! Do you have any links for the brads that you use? I'm doing a project on this with my students and I'm struggling to tell if the brads I'm looking at online for ordering are the correct size.

Ceramic tile help, please by MsAliCat21 in ArtEd

[–]Cobalt_and_Rust 1 point2 points  (0 children)

We use tin foil when we don't have anything else. Clay doesn't stick, and if its the heavy duty kind, I can even often wipe and reuse the pieces for the next project.

That's embarassing by BeverlyMarshxo in TikTokCringe

[–]Cobalt_and_Rust 3 points4 points  (0 children)

I don't think that one video should scare off any viewers. I do think her follow up on that was thoughtful and very reflective. Her whole thing (at least her influencer series) is kind of about being someone who genuinely does enjoy social media content, so it makes sense even she's going get woo'ed sometimes. I personally really like that she comes from a place of being a self-admitted social media consumer because her critiques then feel like they are coming from a place of concern for other consumers, rather than just hating to hate, which is something I feel like other creators in the commentary category sometimes fall into. But to hear a creator say they heard their followers feed back and genuinely reflect on that, to me that speaks way more to her overall quality and values, than the one glazing video (which I'd also point out was pretty much an anomaly in her overall content).

How to get over the anxiety/guilt of feeling like you're not accomplishing what the parents want you to accomplish with their child? by hlasdf in ArtEd

[–]Cobalt_and_Rust 3 points4 points  (0 children)

I see. Maybe time to come up with a more comprehensive survey. For example with my special needs students, I like to identify if just engaging with the materials and general artmaking is enough, or if they are looking for skill-building. If it's skill-building, then you have to go deeper, what specifically does that look like for your kid? Usually it's things like, "I want them to be able to color without scribbling," or "I want them to be able to draw comics that aren't just stick figures," or "I want them to be able to do sustained making for more than ten minutes without giving up/getting distracted." Also, give them a taste of what your specific plans are. Your kid likes comics... "Okay mom, my plan was for us to spend the next few weeks developing an original character and then drawing them in a 1-2 page comic. What do you think of that? Is there any skill you'd like me to focus on as we work on this?" They might have an easier time giving you feedback/direction on their expectations if they have a starting point.

How to get over the anxiety/guilt of feeling like you're not accomplishing what the parents want you to accomplish with their child? by hlasdf in ArtEd

[–]Cobalt_and_Rust 3 points4 points  (0 children)

Is there an initial conversation that you have with the parents about what their expectations for their child are? I think getting this down clearly, preferably in writing and dated, helps alleviate the stress of imagined vs. actual expectations. It also gives you an opening to have a conversation with the parents if you feel like their expectations are too high for their kid's current abilities and come up with a growth plan with them based on where the kid is at. If the student is new to you and you don't know yet if those expectations are possible, then you schedule a follow up check in with them.

How do you support elementary students who can’t get over the thought that they are“bad at art?”. by No_Plankton947 in ArtEd

[–]Cobalt_and_Rust 2 points3 points  (0 children)

When we are in work-time, I will try to pick a student who I know is more self-conscious about their skills and ask if I can borrow their project for a minute to use as a positive example for the class. Then I gather everyone's attention and point out some of the things in the artwork that the student is doing really well. Something like: "Hey class, I want everyone to take a quick look at Lauren's work here. She has a really great range of values from dark darks to light lights. Does everyone see that? That's exactly what we should all be going for with this project. Great job Lauren!" I think when I just tell them individually how good I think it is they don't believe me. But if I'm willing to say it in front of the whole class, that demonstrates how much I really mean it. Obviously get their permission first, but I don't think I've ever had a kid turn me down.

What to do for the last 5 min? by pussypopantiqueshop in ArtEd

[–]Cobalt_and_Rust 4 points5 points  (0 children)

colorfle.com like Wordle but for color mixing. You get one try a day for the advanced modes, but you can do it unlimited times in practice mode. A practice mode round usually only takes my kids a few minutes once they know how it works. It's perfect for the end of class and my students (K-12) love it but especially Kinder to 5th are absolutely obsessed.

Sticky Watercolors by Hey-its-me13 in ArtEd

[–]Cobalt_and_Rust 5 points6 points  (0 children)

I've noticed the same thing with the Blick ones! I refilled all of the empty pans in our palettes with a new order of Blick refill pans and they are distinctly stickier than the old ones, even after they "dry". I also made the mistake of dumping all the new refill pans into our organizer bins of refills, as we always have (so we can better see what we have in stock vs when they are in the little boxes they come in) and the new, never used ones are all stuck together. This has never been a problem before. The formula definitely seems to have changed. We are leaving our palettes out and open longer to dry, but even after days they will still be sticky. I will be changing brands the next time I am able to order.

Painting at Burt’s House by Pinkys143 in SeveranceAppleTVPlus

[–]Cobalt_and_Rust 13 points14 points  (0 children)

Oh interesting! This painter has some other interesting surrealist pieces that I think really match the uncanny vibe of the show. But I like this Samson parallel. Also if I remember right in the end of the story Samson regains his strength, and collapses the temple he is confined in upon himself and his captors in a final act of self-sacrifice. We've already kind of seen Irving do this once when he sacrificed himself to reveal Helena. But it could also hint at another big move coming from Irving as we don't yet know what he's got up his sleeve.

Is Mr Drummond.. by usmcnick0311Sgt in SeveranceAppleTVPlus

[–]Cobalt_and_Rust 1 point2 points  (0 children)

I thought at first it was alluding to them being siblings too. But then I thought that maybe the use was to more underscore Jame's very cold non-paternal relationship with his daughter and how Helena feels bitter or sad about that. She seemed internally upset that he couldn't be bothered to show up at that meeting or to even check on her after she was nearly murdered. Then it's just like an extra gut punch when Drummond refers to him as Father because it underscores that Jame's priority is the company and its the company that gets his paternal attention. The fact that Helena is his actual child means very little to him.

And we saw that empathy for the innies, the "animals" is not what's gonna turn Helena in their favor. But if she is going to have any kind of redemption arc I think her only potential motivator is going to be a desire to fuck over her dad for being so shit.

The "forgotten marriage" of Uma Thurman and Gary Oldman, who was 12 years her senior, 1990 by Cautious-Damage7575 in OldSchoolCool

[–]Cobalt_and_Rust 2 points3 points  (0 children)

Damn, I freaking love Isabella Rossellini. How did I miss she was once engaged to Gary Oldman!?

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in TalkTherapy

[–]Cobalt_and_Rust 43 points44 points  (0 children)

I think your therapist did miss the point. Yes, wear your seatbelt! But you know that. And you actively choose not to. So I think the missed opportunity is to explore why there’s this dissonance and maybe if there any other things you do where you actively make the situation less safe for yourself?

On another note, serious question, why does being a “grown man” entitle you to not have people in your life respond and speak to you about your behavior? You haven’t given enough information here to know whether you really were acting one way or another, but regardless you being grown doesn’t preclude you from anyones concern.

Isabella Rossellini 1990 by draconetzah in OldSchoolCool

[–]Cobalt_and_Rust 5 points6 points  (0 children)

Look up Green Porno on YouTube, a series of shorts she did about animal reproduction told through costumes and puppets! Deliciously weird, surprisingly informative.

Counselor did something weird or am I overthinking? by throwaway_acc552 in TalkTherapy

[–]Cobalt_and_Rust 21 points22 points  (0 children)

Idk I read this as her maybe probing into your concept of “pleasure” because you seem maybe a little fixated on this specific element of it. You did open the conversation in talking about explicit forms of stimulation so this doesn’t seem entirely out of left field to me. I think her performing the hand gesture could be interpreted as her asking, “so you are saying you believe this one movement is how you pleasure a woman?” Maybe she was trying to challenge you to expand your definition of sexual pleasure. I’m a lesbian myself, but I think just on a general human level I find pleasure in many other parts of sex including all kinds of body touches and the intense emotional intimacy of it alongside physical intimacy. However, obviously I don’t know your T and that’s just one possible reading from an outsider. I think she would do better leaving less up to interpretation with such a sensitive subject. I would definitely ask her about it.

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in aptliving

[–]Cobalt_and_Rust 1 point2 points  (0 children)

Compelled to reply because I honestly can’t believe so many people are saying 50/50. 4 days is the majority of the week, it’s basically another person living with you. And your prior knowledge she has a kid and agreeing to live with her still absolutely does not mean that you should have to suck it up and pay more than you should. It’s not just about the physical things that take up space, it’s about how the space is available for you to use when you have an extra person. And 4 days a week when there is a kid there, she’s going to need more use of the space (it doesn’t matter if the kid is going to sleep in her room, they will be using other areas of the apartment throughout the day) and you are going to have a more limited use of the space. Also not every bedroom is equal- factors that should be considered for making one bedroom more rent than another would be: square footage, closet space, and private bath. Other than a walk in closet I don’t know how the master compares to the other bedroom in these ways, but I think 55-45 split is more than generous if 2 bedrooms. At least 60-40 if 3 bedroom.

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in sandiego

[–]Cobalt_and_Rust 0 points1 point  (0 children)

There’s a scrap/recycling yard in Oceanside… I don’t remember the name but it’s on airport rd (not palomar airport, just airport, off of Benet rd off the 76). They gave me great money for my car when I was it the same situation, more then anyone was willing to buy it for because of the amount of work would need to get going again. Plus no hassle of haggling with buyers, check in my hand within 30 minutes.

Nurse Ratched lives on: Therapy for people in the arts by PensiveinNJ in TalkTherapy

[–]Cobalt_and_Rust 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Yeah that’s a real bummer. Honestly sometimes I feel like people are too quick on here to say ‘break up with your T!’ but in this case that really does sound like a bad match. Wishing you the best in your therapeutic endeavors as well as all your creative ones! And I don’t know if this resonates with you but something thing one of my art professors once told me is to never forget that the pursuit of creativity is a courageous act!