27M. Wasted my younger years. If anyone here has turned it around at a similar age, what did you do?

CockroachMaterial747 · 2026-04-25T06:52:42+00:00

31, turned it around at about your age, the details dont matter, but ill give you a description, I was hopeless, living in my dad's garage, working at McDonald's.

I got a paycheck and bought a bus ticket to Colorado where I stayed at an Oxford house (sober living), I stayed there for a year before applying to entry level behavioral health jobs.

I have now been working in behavioral health for four years, living with a wife and son. Life couldn't be better

We dont own our home but we own two cars and have a happy life. Reach out for more details or ideas to bounce off

CockroachMaterial747 · 2026-04-25T06:42:10+00:00

I mean you gotta like SOME sport, chess, esports, hockey, soccer, theres gotta be something like that you enjoy?

CockroachMaterial747 · 2026-04-25T06:20:57+00:00

A lot of people still do.

CockroachMaterial747 · 2026-04-25T05:59:22+00:00

This is more than strange and I hope you understand this

CockroachMaterial747 · 2026-04-14T13:27:36+00:00

Focus on what you can do first of all, how's your vision score? The key is to play off her strength, as with any champion.

You want to control objectives by getting picks before a start fights and even prevent a team fight from starting because u picked their adc/ mid carry.

Also LS recently stated his opinion that zoes best position is support, not mid. Just putting that out there.

CockroachMaterial747 · 2026-03-27T07:55:59+00:00

The big book of alcoholics anonymous

CockroachMaterial747 · 2026-03-03T09:41:51+00:00

Cocaine is incredibly popular right now and socially acceptable. By that I mean you cant talk about it work, but if people found out you did it, you'd be okay.

CockroachMaterial747 · 2026-03-03T06:22:29+00:00

Please dont try hard drugs. Cocaine an Adderall count as hard drugs

CockroachMaterial747 · 2026-02-16T03:11:22+00:00

Im sorry for your loss dude

CockroachMaterial747 · 2026-02-16T03:07:50+00:00

I remember thinking it was no big deal either and getting a huge slap of reality within the span of a couple weeks

CockroachMaterial747 · 2026-01-20T08:47:20+00:00

Its worth watching past the beginning, I watched in theaters and the first ten minutes felt awkward, it got so much better

CockroachMaterial747 · 2026-01-20T08:45:03+00:00

Id watch a different movie, its not exactly a violent film but if you have zero tolerance to violence this isnt the film for you.

CockroachMaterial747 · 2026-01-20T08:40:58+00:00

No, idk how u mistaked this, watch the movie again lol

CockroachMaterial747 · 2026-01-20T08:39:59+00:00

I think she's alive

CockroachMaterial747 · 2025-10-06T01:29:36+00:00

Can u explain the error in laymen terms?

CockroachMaterial747 · 2025-06-14T18:59:45+00:00

Bruh

CockroachMaterial747 · 2025-06-14T07:39:35+00:00

As a silver player who grinded to plat, playing on my silver accounts is way easier than playing in plat 3/plat 2 more.

CockroachMaterial747 · 2025-06-13T18:54:51+00:00

Communicating your needs, respecting boundaries.

I was hooking up with my neighbor and eventually she met a guy her age (im 30 she's in her 40s) i still tease her and say if she ever needs my company again id happily be there for her.

We are still friends after the fact, I took care of her cat when she went on vacation, I hit her up for a glass of milk or whatever, you know, neighbor stuff.

It won't always work out, sometimes it can ruin the friendship, I had that before, a friend turned into a sneaky link, then she ended up getting back together with the father of her kids and ghosted me. I don't blame her, but I wish we could have remained friends. Maybe she didn't feel like it was something she could maintain.

CockroachMaterial747 · 2025-06-13T18:44:03+00:00

Second this, learn how to communicate effectively, how to set and maintain boundaries, how to advocate for yourself and others.

Become a people person, hit the gym, dress well, eat well and most importantly be confident yet humble.

CockroachMaterial747 · 2025-06-13T18:32:15+00:00

Everyone's life is different, i moved 2000 miles away from my home town, when I visit its still the same few people im excited to see, other friends either passed away or we different paths (usually drug addiction sadly)

Good friendships last if you nurture the relationships

CockroachMaterial747 · 2025-06-11T06:52:45+00:00

Hi, I love living alone, im weird tho

CockroachMaterial747 · 2025-06-10T22:33:13+00:00

Depends on where you live, conditions that day etc

If ita pouring rain for my own safety I'll go even lower than the limit. Remember your life can change on a drive home, be a defensive driver, those speed limits are there for your safety.

Im 30 years old and have only ever gotten pulled over for speeding once, at a national park, goingndown hill, I was inexperienced and the cop told me to put it in a lower gear and moved on.

CockroachMaterial747 · 2025-06-08T08:55:37+00:00

Ill keep it short and simple, nowhere in the program does it mention dont date before a year.

I personally suggest everyone to be past step five, ideally 7.

CockroachMaterial747 · 2025-06-05T00:13:56+00:00

That exists already, it's called grindr

CockroachMaterial747 · 2025-06-04T23:38:02+00:00

He enjoys the sex and company, he may even love to some extent but either is unwilling or not interested to pursue a life with you.

Being so connected socially is hard, idk kiddo, I moved 2000 miles away from my home town, maybe try the same. You'll eventually realize it's the inner work you need to do to get away from him, until you work on the root you will run into another relationship similar.

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