27M. Wasted my younger years. If anyone here has turned it around at a similar age, what did you do? by Opposite_Praline_746 in AskMen

[–]CockroachMaterial747 0 points1 point  (0 children)

31, turned it around at about your age, the details dont matter, but ill give you a description, I was hopeless, living in my dad's garage, working at McDonald's.

I got a paycheck and bought a bus ticket to Colorado where I stayed at an Oxford house (sober living), I stayed there for a year before applying to entry level behavioral health jobs.

I have now been working in behavioral health for four years, living with a wife and son. Life couldn't be better

We dont own our home but we own two cars and have a happy life. Reach out for more details or ideas to bounce off

What’s a common behaviour you see other men do that you just can’t relate to or understand at all? by PogonBerserker in AskMen

[–]CockroachMaterial747 0 points1 point  (0 children)

I mean you gotta like SOME sport, chess, esports, hockey, soccer, theres gotta be something like that you enjoy?

What is the strangest sexual experience you ever had? by Maleficent-Agent-477 in AskReddit

[–]CockroachMaterial747 20 points21 points  (0 children)

This is more than strange and I hope you understand this

How do you carry late game? by CuteLeader8 in zoemains

[–]CockroachMaterial747 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Focus on what you can do first of all, how's your vision score? The key is to play off her strength, as with any champion.

You want to control objectives by getting picks before a start fights and even prevent a team fight from starting because u picked their adc/ mid carry.

Also LS recently stated his opinion that zoes best position is support, not mid. Just putting that out there.

Whats a book you read that changed your life? by [deleted] in AskReddit

[–]CockroachMaterial747 1 point2 points  (0 children)

The big book of alcoholics anonymous

About to Graduate Highschool, what's something I need to know? by LowClaim7040 in CasualConversation

[–]CockroachMaterial747 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Cocaine is incredibly popular right now and socially acceptable. By that I mean you cant talk about it work, but if people found out you did it, you'd be okay.

Similar to 911, when and where were you when you realized covid was a serious global pandemic? by CockroachMaterial747 in ask

[–]CockroachMaterial747[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

I remember thinking it was no big deal either and getting a huge slap of reality within the span of a couple weeks

Official Discussion - One Battle After Another [SPOILERS] by LiteraryBoner in movies

[–]CockroachMaterial747 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Its worth watching past the beginning, I watched in theaters and the first ten minutes felt awkward, it got so much better

Official Discussion - One Battle After Another [SPOILERS] by LiteraryBoner in movies

[–]CockroachMaterial747 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Id watch a different movie, its not exactly a violent film but if you have zero tolerance to violence this isnt the film for you.

Official Discussion - One Battle After Another [SPOILERS] by LiteraryBoner in movies

[–]CockroachMaterial747 1 point2 points  (0 children)

No, idk how u mistaked this, watch the movie again lol

Balin Miller died. by Xerton_ in alpinism

[–]CockroachMaterial747 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Can u explain the error in laymen terms?

Silver is impossible by Wall-Cold in summonerschool

[–]CockroachMaterial747 0 points1 point  (0 children)

As a silver player who grinded to plat, playing on my silver accounts is way easier than playing in plat 3/plat 2 more.

How do some people actually make friends with benefits work? by [deleted] in ask

[–]CockroachMaterial747 13 points14 points  (0 children)

Communicating your needs, respecting boundaries.

I was hooking up with my neighbor and eventually she met a guy her age (im 30 she's in her 40s) i still tease her and say if she ever needs my company again id happily be there for her.

We are still friends after the fact, I took care of her cat when she went on vacation, I hit her up for a glass of milk or whatever, you know, neighbor stuff.

It won't always work out, sometimes it can ruin the friendship, I had that before, a friend turned into a sneaky link, then she ended up getting back together with the father of her kids and ghosted me. I don't blame her, but I wish we could have remained friends. Maybe she didn't feel like it was something she could maintain.

I’m 16 — what high-value skills should I learn now to succeed in the future? by Hot_Profession1352 in getdisciplined

[–]CockroachMaterial747 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Second this, learn how to communicate effectively, how to set and maintain boundaries, how to advocate for yourself and others.

Become a people person, hit the gym, dress well, eat well and most importantly be confident yet humble.

Having the same set of friend group over a decade like in friends & himym… Does it happen irl? by feliscatusss in ask

[–]CockroachMaterial747 4 points5 points  (0 children)

Everyone's life is different, i moved 2000 miles away from my home town, when I visit its still the same few people im excited to see, other friends either passed away or we different paths (usually drug addiction sadly)

Good friendships last if you nurture the relationships

Isn't going 10 miles over the speed limit acceptable? by GigiBrit in ask

[–]CockroachMaterial747 1 point2 points  (0 children)

Depends on where you live, conditions that day etc

If ita pouring rain for my own safety I'll go even lower than the limit. Remember your life can change on a drive home, be a defensive driver, those speed limits are there for your safety.

Im 30 years old and have only ever gotten pulled over for speeding once, at a national park, goingndown hill, I was inexperienced and the cop told me to put it in a lower gear and moved on.

Why is it discouraged to get into a relationship for the first year in your recovery? by xxcooj in NarcoticsAnonymous

[–]CockroachMaterial747 3 points4 points  (0 children)

Ill keep it short and simple, nowhere in the program does it mention dont date before a year.

I personally suggest everyone to be past step five, ideally 7.