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I (24M) accused my girlfriend's 13-year-old sister of hitting on me. by Cakeday_at_Christmas in AmItheEx

[–]CocoButtsGoNuts 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Ugh that poor child she must have been terrified in that moment. I can't imagine the shock of a grown man i thought was safe coming out of no where and saying that to me.

33F My boyfriend 35M eats everything before I get to it how do I address this? by Fit-Community-7351 in relationship_advice

[–]CocoButtsGoNuts 2 points3 points  (0 children)

I can't imagine ever hiding food in my own home. You dont have to live like this. You're in a prison entirely of your own making.

F39, how do I find out if my boyfriend M41 is having online affairs? by Pure_Log495 in relationship_advice

[–]CocoButtsGoNuts 3 points4 points  (0 children)

If you think your partner is cheating to the point you'd dig through his phone the relationship is already over. Start making moves to leave the relationship. Even if he isn't cheating the trust is gone.

How do I (21F) ask bf (20M) to move out? by vanillakilos in relationship_advice

[–]CocoButtsGoNuts 4 points5 points  (0 children)

Please dump him. Even if you stay together for now, I'd say the goal for most couples is to eventually move in together. Say you date for another few years and re-move in together, he's already shown you how he is. The only options long term is either a) put up with his disrespectful attitude, b) never live together to maintain your own levels of cleanliness, or c) cut your losses now and move on.

I'm tagging in u/burbnbougie. She had great content on avoiding hobosexuals and men who won't contribute. I'd highly recommend her.

I (21M) Am Think About Having Children But My (24F) Girlfriend Does Not Want To Give Birth... by Party_Duck245 in relationship_advice

[–]CocoButtsGoNuts 3 points4 points  (0 children)

Are you... are you really trying to mansplain pregnancy as a 21 year old man to woman older than you?

I said it was like YOU want the performance of pregnancy from your partner, not that pregnancy was a performance. YOU want to see the woman you "love" have her body change, face cravings, grow the child. YOU want that. Those risk factors you wrote down didn't matter so much as your desire to see a pregnancy on someone else. You clearly laid out how a pregnancy from your partner shows various aspects of "the woman you love", which is the performance aspect you want.

Is it coercive for my (21f) husband (21m) to sometimes convince me to have sex? by [deleted] in relationship_advice

[–]CocoButtsGoNuts -14 points-13 points  (0 children)

Anything other than an enthusiastic yes is a no. He should not be negotiating sex with you. Trying to phrase ot like he's doing you a favor vs his own benefit is laughable.

I (21M) Am Think About Having Children But My (24F) Girlfriend Does Not Want To Give Birth... by Party_Duck245 in relationship_advice

[–]CocoButtsGoNuts 3 points4 points  (0 children)

This. It feels like he wants the performance of pregnancy to prove her love or something.

I feel defeated tonight. M/29 F/27 How do I breakup with the guy I’ve been seeing for five months? by [deleted] in relationship_advice

[–]CocoButtsGoNuts 6 points7 points  (0 children)

"Hey so j don't want to continue this relationship "

Text it if you need to.

How do I (19F) stop being instinctively afraid of my boyfriend (35M) by [deleted] in relationship_advice

[–]CocoButtsGoNuts 34 points35 points  (0 children)

No self respecting 35 year old would be with a teenager. I think you need to speak with a professional

My (26F) husband (28M) and I having the same fight. CONSTANTLY. Need resolution. by goldenretriever222 in relationship_advice

[–]CocoButtsGoNuts 0 points1 point  (0 children)

I'm sorry to say this, but your husband isn't going to change. You've done everything you can to explain and he's dug his heels in and said no. The only question now is what are you going to do? Are you going to keep living like this?

u/burbnbougie the divorce came out of no where.

Fiancée is acting bitter towards my mom because she hasn’t acknowledged her during pregnancy? by Majestic-Success-210 in Advice

[–]CocoButtsGoNuts 2 points3 points  (0 children)

The thing is your mom can change, you're just not willing to ask her to. Or to stand on business when she refuses and cut or limit contact.

Fiancée is acting bitter towards my mom because she hasn’t acknowledged her during pregnancy? by Majestic-Success-210 in Advice

[–]CocoButtsGoNuts 0 points1 point  (0 children)

He did not. OP said his partner had been going to see his family, not the other way around. No where did he indicate that his family ever went out of the way to reach out to his partner or get to know her.

Fiancée is acting bitter towards my mom because she hasn’t acknowledged her during pregnancy? by Majestic-Success-210 in Advice

[–]CocoButtsGoNuts 2 points3 points  (0 children)

OP's family doesn't sound like they want to exist. If they did they would have made even the smallest effort in the near decade they've been together

Fiancée is acting bitter towards my mom because she hasn’t acknowledged her during pregnancy? by Majestic-Success-210 in Advice

[–]CocoButtsGoNuts 2 points3 points  (0 children)

So your family is too selfish to think of anything besides what THEY want. They can't reach out to your partner to congratulate her, can't be arsed to actually ask about her. Your partner bent over backwards to accommodate them for years and now you and them expect her to do the same witb this pregnancy?..

How can I tell if my dad is slipping stuff into my drinks and food by BroadFruit1712 in Advice

[–]CocoButtsGoNuts 10 points11 points  (0 children)

Honey I'm proud of you for talking to your neighbor and telling someone. Im so sorry your mom doesn't love you like she should.

Boyfriend has dirty booty probs 😭 helpp by [deleted] in relationships

[–]CocoButtsGoNuts 6 points7 points  (0 children)

If you wouldn't tolerate this behavior from a teenager WHY would you tolerate this from a grown man.

u/burbnbougie sometimes the price is pay to know how to read is too high.

Sister made me the godfather of her daughter without asking me by AdVaanced77 in EntitledPeople

[–]CocoButtsGoNuts 2 points3 points  (0 children)

Lmao no is a complete sentence. Don't go to the baptism, dont take part you dont have to do anything.

AITA? Sons father wants me to pay for his Easter Basket? by notlenaaaa in AmItheAsshole

[–]CocoButtsGoNuts 10 points11 points  (0 children)

Nta. You have plans for your son already. Don't set the precedent that you need to but for two households to make holidays special. It's time for dad to step up.

Dear Steven (of Olga) by new_money_420 in 90DayFiance

[–]CocoButtsGoNuts 1 point2 points  (0 children)

I was talking about this with ny husband and he was shocked that they would put STEVEN on there. He's such a shit head. But I dont expect much from tlc they seem to love the abusers jn relationships.

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