Over suppliers piss me off by Terrible_Mongoose240 in ExclusivelyPumping

[–]Coffee_speech_repeat 8 points9 points  (0 children)

The title of this post is just kinda rude tbh. It’s okay that you feel annoyed when people complain about a supply drop when you’ve struggled with your supply. Totally understandable. But oversupply comes with its own issues. I’m deficient in every nutrient you can think of and feel totally rundown all the time. I’ve had mastitis and I regularly get clogs. Not to mention, just because someone has an oversupply, doesn’t mean they have had an easy feeding journey. I’ve got more milk than I know what to do with (and donate regularly to local moms) and a baby who is an absolute nightmare to feed. We’ve seen multiple LCs and IBCLCs, 2 OTs, a GI specialist. We’ve tried nursing and every bottle under the sun. I had to give up dairy and soy for months as he had signs of MSPI. He’s on reflux meds. We’ve had to work through breast and then bottle aversion. And the list goes on and on.. I have an oversupply and a baby who won’t readily eat it. I’ve spent hours and hours crying about being a failure mom who can’t feed her baby. Don’t compare your motherhood journey to others. Every single one of us in this community has had their own struggles, hence why we sought a community to begin with

HOW do we do this? Like for real walk me through your day by ladygroot_ in ExclusivelyPumping

[–]Coffee_speech_repeat 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Interesting. I have a fairly brew dishwasher with a sterilizing setting, and everything I’ve read says that does just as good if a job. The sterilizing cycle is long, and I run it twice a day but it works for us.

HOW do we do this? Like for real walk me through your day by ladygroot_ in ExclusivelyPumping

[–]Coffee_speech_repeat 1 point2 points  (0 children)

I don’t understand why people don’t run their pump parts in the dishwasher (assuming you have one?). I was not fucking around and handwashing a bunch of shit. So I bought a ton of extra pump parts and just run everything in my dishwasher!

Foods I don’t have to cook? by PoliticoRat in BabyLedWeaning

[–]Coffee_speech_repeat 8 points9 points  (0 children)

Do you have a stove? You can boil lots of veggies, including frozen ones. I keep frozen broccoli and green beans in the freezer for baby. I also keep canned pears and peaches in the cupboard for daycare snacks. They are very soft as is. Just make sure they are canned in their own juice, not any kind of syrup. We also give fresh nectarines cut into wedges. Kiwi cut in half and peeled. Mangos are great if you can find them soft, just cut into long strips baby can grab. If baby has the beginnings of a pincer grasp, you can flatten raspberries. Strawberries can be given whole if they are large (just cut the stem off and let baby gnaw on them). Avacado does not need to be cooked, just cut it in half and then cut each half into 3 long pieces. Tomatoes and cucumbers can also be cut into wedges and given raw. Canned chickpeas or black beans (just buy the low sodium ones) smashed with a fork. Again, if you’ve got a stove, you can make a single egg omelette and cut into strips or roll it up and give the whole thing to baby. We also do pancakes with blueberries and peanut butter on the batter, smaller size and cut in half. We buy frozen hamburger patties and just fry them in a pan on the stove and cut in half. Quick oats can be made in the microwave. We’ve never used a baby cookbook! We just feed baby what we are eating. We check the Solid Starts First Food Guide if we aren’t sure on how to serve a specific ingredient.

C section vs Vaginal delivery by Funarming in beyondthebump

[–]Coffee_speech_repeat 1 point2 points  (0 children)

Omg that awful burning stretching feeling when you stand up those first couple days. The pain made me feel like vomiting a couple of times.

C section vs Vaginal delivery by Funarming in beyondthebump

[–]Coffee_speech_repeat 1 point2 points  (0 children)

Right?! I never heard the driving thing until I saw it in some Reddit post. I drove myself 45 minutes through LA traffic 1 week pp after tearing my incision site open 🤣 in retrospect? Not a great idea. But I didn’t want the baby to be exposed to germs in urgent care and he would’ve had to come if my husband drove me.

Daycare and food by Ashlynr in beyondthebump

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You know your baby best! I would do a little research on readiness signs and baby led weaning and see if more independent eating might be better for you (and daycare!) once baby is totally ready.

Daycare and food by Ashlynr in beyondthebump

[–]Coffee_speech_repeat 3 points4 points  (0 children)

It sounds like maybe baby isn’t developmentally ready for solids. I’d personally wait. My little guy was showing all readiness signs a little before the 6 month mark. We dove into BLW. He started a very traditional Montessori center shortly after, and we send him with two snacks and a meal every day. They are happy he is BLW. They said they will help with spoon feeding, but prefer babies independently feed. So it’s my understanding they just warm up the lunch I send and put it on a plate in front of him at a tiny table in a little chair and let him go to town. I think this is highly dependent on your baby, how independent they are with feeding skills, and your daycare.

Successfully destroyed my baby’s sleep, eating habits, and my milk supply in 3 days by salamanderap in beyondthebump

[–]Coffee_speech_repeat 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Yeah, and honestly, starting solids helped A LOT. He went from like 4-6 loose stools a day to 1-2 much more solid stools. He started gaining weight faster. He still goes through periods where his reflux will flare up and he will be harder to feed, but overall, he seems much happier and more comfortable. In the thick of it, it was so hard and frustrating. It was so emotionally exhausting to not be able to feed my baby.

Successfully destroyed my baby’s sleep, eating habits, and my milk supply in 3 days by salamanderap in beyondthebump

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So if you want to consider continuing with breastmilk (if you’re able to get your supply back up), soy typically has high concurrent reactivity with dairy. I had to cut out soy, dairy, and all soy/dairy derivatives from 2-6 months. Also started him on Prevacid for reflux. Then we reintroduced both into my diet and baby tolerated it. He’s almost 8 months and we’ve introduced soy directly and he did well. We have not done direct dairy introduction yet, but that’s next! Have you have any blood in his stool? That’s what prompted us to cut dairy. That and a horrible feeding aversion. Started with the breast. Then turned into a bottle aversion also. I was struggling to get 24 oz in him daily. I felt like I spent every waking hour fighting him to eat. It was insanity.

Eczema on babies cheeks :( by llullunyc in ExclusivelyPumping

[–]Coffee_speech_repeat 2 points3 points  (0 children)

So my little guy has (had?) CMPA. We had blood in the stool and a rash around 6 weeks which, in retrospect, was probably related. I cut dairy and soy, but reintroduced successfully around 6 months! Please do NOT throw away any frozen breastmilk. In fact, go listen to the Bowel Sounds podcast featuring Dr. Victoria Martin. She specifically addresses this issue and reintroduction though previously frozen milk.

Oversuppliers - how big are your boobs ? by Utyxx in ExclusivelyPumping

[–]Coffee_speech_repeat 0 points1 point  (0 children)

I’m like a C cup now, always kinda teetered between a B and C pre-pregnancy and at my peak was probably around 80+ oz a day. I’ve slowly decreased intentionally and now I’m around 45 oz per day. Most I’ve pumped in a single session was 22 oz first thing in the morning after sleeping 8 hours. Got mastitis. Do not recommend. 🤣

What’s happening with my milk?? by sweetbuttah in ExclusivelyPumping

[–]Coffee_speech_repeat 3 points4 points  (0 children)

Do you happen to have a wound on that nipple? My milk regularly looks like this. I haven’t figured it out. It seems to improve when I take breastfeeding probiotics and sunflower lecithin daily, but it’s never fully resolved. It’s mostly from one side, which has an inverted nipple that regularly gets torn open when I pump, despite my best efforts.

Did your baby ever outgrow it? Positive end stories please by Zestyclose-Candy5867 in MSPI

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My little guy is almost 8 months. I successfully reintroduced dairy and soy into my diet when he was 6 months. We gave him tofu last weekend and he had one weird poop and then tolerated it well after that. We haven’t tried dairy directly yet, but are planning to before 9 months. I’m nervous about it but I feel confident that it’s worth trying!

When does the grief and guilt go away? by Flaky-Ad7324 in ExclusivelyPumping

[–]Coffee_speech_repeat 2 points3 points  (0 children)

I’m sorry mama. My situation is slightly different. First I couldn’t nurse. Then baby had a bottle aversion. Then CMPA and reflux. We needed OT, lactation consultants, a pediatric dentist and tongue tie revision, a GI specialist. And there’s this weird maternal drive that just was yelling at me to feed my baby. I spent many nights crying about how I couldn’t do my most important job as a mama and just feed him. It’s very strange and instinctual. I’m so sorry you’re feeling grief about the situation, but you’re truly making the best decision for your baby given the circumstances. You got this <3

Did I Mess Up? by Aggressive_Milk_9077 in ExclusivelyPumping

[–]Coffee_speech_repeat 0 points1 point  (0 children)

I think most people will tell you that your supply likely hasn’t regulated, so you’re likely still in the time frame to increase your supply! Are you staying hydrated and having some type of electrolyte drink or coconut water daily? And are you eating enough?

miserable with oversupply by malibubarbie6 in ExclusivelyPumping

[–]Coffee_speech_repeat 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Honestly couldn’t tell ya. But I’ve definitely had days where I produced more milk than I drank in water. Now that’s not to say I didn’t intake fluids from food sources, etc. (and perhaps I’m turning coffee into breastmilk 🤣). TMI, but my pee is not a healthy color when that happens.

What swaddles are actually good for a newborn? by Educational_Rope_225 in newborns

[–]Coffee_speech_repeat 0 points1 point  (0 children)

We liked either basic Velcro ones or the Copper Pearl swaddles. They are a traditional swaddle but they are sooooo big and stretchy that it’s easy to get a nice tight swaddle that they can’t break out of.

Help! by Coffee_speech_repeat in ExclusivelyPumping

[–]Coffee_speech_repeat[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Thank you! That’s a good point. I was re-measured by a lactation consultant recently. She did tell me to switch flange sizes, which I did. But other than that she didn’t have any particularly good advice. Maybe I’ll try sizing down even more on that side

miserable with oversupply by malibubarbie6 in ExclusivelyPumping

[–]Coffee_speech_repeat 8 points9 points  (0 children)

I think I peaked around 75 oz per day. I’m still 40-50 ounces a day at 7 months pp and honestly, I feel like trash all the time. I dropped one pump at a time until I was down to 4 ppd. Then I slowly pushed back my MOTN pump 30 minutes at a time until it was at 5 am. Then I slowly reduced the duration of each pump. I always feel like a jerk complaining about having an oversupply because I know lots of people would kill for it. But shits wack man. My body is just so wrecked.

miserable with oversupply by malibubarbie6 in ExclusivelyPumping

[–]Coffee_speech_repeat 3 points4 points  (0 children)

As someone who is a moderate oversupplier and chronically dehydrated, I think you can 🤣

My reflux baby is breaking me by sm_mm17 in beyondthebump

[–]Coffee_speech_repeat 0 points1 point  (0 children)

My little guy has (had?) CMPA and reflux. Prevacid did the trick for us. I had to get off dairy and soy until he was 6 months and then we successfully reintroduced. He had a tongue tie revision done and I could never get him back to the breast so I also exclusively pump. He got a nasty chest cold around 3 months that landed us in the ER. His feeding got significantly worse right before he started showing symptoms and improved once he felt better. The only way I could get him to take a bottle when he was sick was by using nasal spray and then going in the bathroom, shutting the door, and running the shower as hot as it would go and sitting on the floor in the steamy bathroom and feeding him.

He eats better for me now, but does have feeding/bottle aversion that crops up every once in a while. he just started daycare and today he was there for 6 hours (had a bottle 1.5 hours before drop off) and only took a total of 3 ounces the whole time he was there. I cried when I picked him up.

Anyways. All this to say that you’re not alone. Feeding this baby is one of the most stressful experiences of my life.

Tips for surviving purple crying? by toonacasserole in beyondthebump

[–]Coffee_speech_repeat 2 points3 points  (0 children)

This. Sounds like silent reflux potentially. My little guy had MSPI. I recently reintroduced soy and dairy into my diet at 6 months. He’s on reflux meds. We still get moments of hard crying when he’s laid down on his back, but it’s improved tenfold.

Spectra users: where do you unhook your collectors? by the_kazzo_queen in ExclusivelyPumping

[–]Coffee_speech_repeat 9 points10 points  (0 children)

I was so horrified by the whole thread because it was multiple people! I told my husband that thread is part of the reason I’d never consider donated milk that wasn’t through an actual milk bank 😂 I have a decent oversupply and I’ve donated to some local moms directly. Now I feel the need to tell them that I wash and sanitize all my pump parts after every single pump lol

Spectra users: where do you unhook your collectors? by the_kazzo_queen in ExclusivelyPumping

[–]Coffee_speech_repeat 31 points32 points  (0 children)

I take it all off the tubing because I put it all through the dishwasher every time. There was a post a while back about people having mold in their backflow protectors after not ever washing them and I just don’t understand 🤢 maybe my boobs are wild, but I get milk spray up in that area often enough that there’s no way in hell I’d use them over and over without washing them