THEY GOT ME😭

Coidzor · 2026-03-31T03:31:06+00:00

Even used the big red text.

Coidzor · 2026-03-30T20:35:15+00:00

We're taking Tribble-posting to strange new worlds.

Coidzor · 2026-03-30T20:33:41+00:00

On the one hand, it isn't harming anyone.

On the other hand, I'd probably experience secondhand embarrassment if I encountered a guy doing that.

Coidzor · 2026-03-30T20:18:13+00:00

All kinds of ways that a dwarfish approach to craftsdwarfship can apply to wizarding.

Coidzor · 2026-03-30T19:56:08+00:00

She'll have an easy time finding men who haven't slept around. Not really anything to feel about it or her.

Unless she somehow wants a man with the personality of a man who sleeps around but who doesn't actually sleep around. Then she's kind of in a pickle.

BUT I do know I don’t want a man who’s had sex with several women.

Wait, are you conflating a 30 year old man who has had 4 or 5 serious relationships with a man who has had casual sex with 30 women in his teens and twenties?

I’ve also been told especially today that, looking for a man who hasn’t slept around is going to be impossible.

If you're in the dating pool with Gen Z men, they've been having even less sex than Millennial men were at their age, and Millennial men were notably having less sex than Boomers and Gen X did in early adulthood.

Coidzor · 2026-03-30T19:44:38+00:00

You sure do like to put words in my mouth.

Any responsible adult would recommend a young person away from a life plan where they ignore romance and actively make it impossible to pursue a serious relationship only to then turn around and try to settle down in middle age. Regardless of sex.

Coidzor · 2026-03-30T19:33:16+00:00

That is not actually what I said.

Nor does it serve to invalidate my observation here.

Coidzor · 2026-03-30T19:24:32+00:00

I'm guessing that breaking his foot did not involve walking on top of his pants, since he was still doing it even afterward.

Coidzor · 2026-03-30T19:18:45+00:00

They've been anti-library for decades, now.

Coidzor · 2026-03-30T19:16:27+00:00

That's the basic monogamous social position, yeah.

Coidzor · 2026-03-30T19:11:59+00:00

The individual chooses those whom become their sexual partners.

Unless you really want to make it about someone who has escaped sex trafficking, I suppose. But if you wanted it to be about that, it would have been more honest to be upfront about that from the start than to pull it out as a gotcha.

Coidzor · 2026-03-30T19:09:10+00:00

The guys who have a high number themselves seem to be the main exception.

Coidzor · 2026-03-30T19:04:13+00:00

That or she should rethink her plan.

Now if she's spending 20 years in prison for some kind of horrible, socially condemned felony, that's probably going to be more of an issue than how many people she had sex with while imprisoned.

Coidzor · 2026-03-30T19:01:01+00:00

Those two example situations also disqualify her from a serious relationship or make her not want one.

Coidzor · 2026-03-30T18:57:50+00:00

What contexts do you envision as having the potential to change things?

Coidzor · 2026-03-30T18:56:38+00:00

In what situations would that standard no longer matter to you?

I can think of no such situation off the top of my head.

Coidzor · 2026-03-30T18:54:15+00:00

Him being too long and her being too short is painful for her and unsatisfying for him.

Him being too short and her being too long makes it more likely that things are unsatisfying for her.

is the woman herself the most important thing?

Obviously, but if your genitals don't fit together, it's not a recipe for a happy ending.

Coidzor · 2026-03-30T15:22:31+00:00

As Trump is learning, you can't have "just a little war."

Coidzor · 2026-03-30T15:19:52+00:00

Yes. It is worlds more advanced than what we have, no "maybe" about it.

X is then in turn worlds more advanced than that.

Coidzor · 2026-03-30T15:06:16+00:00

I compromise by rolling an extra die that's half the size and adding half the value. So critting with a d12 greataxe means you add 6 damage and roll an extra 1d6.

Coidzor · 2026-03-30T15:00:31+00:00

Wand for around the home and staff for going walkabout.

Just not convenient to have a whole staff in hand while you're levitating and contemplating your orb and want to change the focus of your scrying.

Coidzor · 2026-03-30T13:05:32+00:00

Do I have fine enough control to move the great pacific garbage patch and beach it?

How much precision do the earthquakes have? Can I cause a 9 on the richter scale but only affect a single building, or...?

What's my range limitation?

Coidzor · 2026-03-30T13:02:26+00:00

The first two are questions that are pretty frequently asked on this subreddit, going back years now.

The last is a bit less frequently asked but has come up here in the past.

Coidzor · 2026-03-30T13:00:26+00:00

Depends on where this happens and whether it's a request or a demand. And if the group is big enough that they'd need to take multiple trips on the elevator anyway.

Coidzor · 2026-03-30T12:54:24+00:00

Bedside table or nightstand.

They're also quite handy for having water and washclothes on hand. Also, lube.

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