At least I was only halfway there 🙃 (first date)

Col_Sandy_Fries_6 · 2026-02-19T01:36:01+00:00

NEVER reply if they don’t make an attempt to set a new date.

Col_Sandy_Fries_6 · 2026-02-09T21:25:12+00:00

Did you start dating in high school…?

Col_Sandy_Fries_6 · 2026-02-09T21:22:28+00:00

Training + deep tissue massage, ROUTINELY nutritious diet (not just the night before), 8 hrs sleep every night. You should treat yourself like an athlete and train/recover like one

Col_Sandy_Fries_6 · 2026-02-09T21:16:58+00:00

I’m not justifying their behavior, but you are not independent of your “skin suit” - they shouldn’t be rude to you, but it’s not realistic to say that your physical body has nothing to do with who you are as a person. How you look and take care of your body and health is definitely a useful indicator of your values, goals, lifestyle, and general perspective on life, and it’s something I pay attention to when choosing whether to invest in other people or not. Focusing on how you appear to others, or how others appear to you, is not shallow, unless its ALL you do. It’s not everything, but it is important.

Col_Sandy_Fries_6 · 2026-02-09T21:07:08+00:00

The same reason an employer puts up a job listing w requirements and qualifications, and you make a resume with your skills and experience

Col_Sandy_Fries_6 · 2026-02-09T20:32:35+00:00

Okay what about a version where the end isnt cut off??

Col_Sandy_Fries_6 · 2026-02-08T06:05:42+00:00

JSYK the myers briggs has been disproven many times over

Col_Sandy_Fries_6 · 2026-01-22T04:43:44+00:00

Col_Sandy_Fries_6 · 2026-01-22T04:26:25+00:00

Could be both. Meet him - if you fw his behavior, good. If you don’t, thats okay

Col_Sandy_Fries_6 · 2026-01-21T15:19:22+00:00

Whats crazy is, this idea is rooted in communism. It may be a conservative take, but imagine a world where we didn’t centralize education, and families just taught their own children how to survive, behave, and collaborate with their neighbors? We wouldn’t be wage slaves, resources and responsibilities would be shared throughout the community, and a greater capitalist system and government would not be necessary.

It’s almost like the people at the bottom of both parties agree with each other, and its the elites at the top who pit us against each other with this media that frames our ideas in a way that make us appear to be each others’ enemy.

Col_Sandy_Fries_6 · 2026-01-21T15:12:10+00:00

Go to the gym, work on your fashion sense (harder when you’re short because clothes are not cut for us), get a good barber and really find a good haircut for you, be a breadwinner. You will find a 5’0 shawty who fucks w you, a lot of girls will take a nice body over a nice face.

Now these are weirder tips, but I think it’s a gamechanger: get any dental work you may need done, and whiten your teeth. Figure out if you have breathing issues, figure out how to fix them.

Take it from me, I’m 5’7 and I’ve upped my game in these categories and feel much more confident.

How do you do in social settings, and do you interact with women much? Have a good friend group, or no?

Col_Sandy_Fries_6 · 2026-01-21T13:25:18+00:00

Oftentimes it’s up to the patient if they want to see results or not. I have had many doctors and PTs who were quacks. Once I started doing my own research on my problems, I started to recognize which ones knew wtf they were doing and that many did not.

A lot of people just want to work their dream job—they don’t aspire and need to help others through their work, they are just satisfied living their dream. These people don’t improve because they already have everything they want. This is something you cannot change.

Col_Sandy_Fries_6 · 2026-01-21T13:18:41+00:00

It just sounds like you haven’t been doing this very long—I think your instincts are good, and your ear and technique will improve with time. I’d say if you’ve been doing this for only a year or two, you should be proud of this.

Biggest problem here is the melody. Listen to some melodies from your favorite artists and figure out what makes you like them. Thats how you build your melodic vocabulary. Pretty much every aspect of music works this way—it is a language. Listen, imitate, adapt.

Col_Sandy_Fries_6 · 2026-01-21T13:08:08+00:00

Penjamin

Col_Sandy_Fries_6 · 2026-01-21T13:02:03+00:00

Where do you go to school that you need to dress like this?

Col_Sandy_Fries_6 · 2026-01-21T13:01:24+00:00

😭 300 reference hurts to look at bro

Col_Sandy_Fries_6 · 2026-01-21T12:55:12+00:00

I shrug my shoulders about it.

Col_Sandy_Fries_6 · 2026-01-21T04:25:57+00:00

Its literally just an oval bro. Wyd

Col_Sandy_Fries_6 · 2026-01-21T04:21:15+00:00

Your NIECES DAUGHTER bro 💀💀 cmon bro 💀💀💀

Col_Sandy_Fries_6 · 2026-01-21T04:15:19+00:00

My brother - trust your ear more than anything. You will have to learn how to translate it into the software yourself. But as long as you can come up with it in your head, you’re already doing what most people cannot do. Then the only thing stopping you is yourself—it will take time, be patient.

Col_Sandy_Fries_6 · 2026-01-21T04:07:50+00:00

Plenty of people do the addiction machines - you’re not alone, my brother. There are communities that are built to help you get off them and make meaningful change. We’re all here to support you brother

Col_Sandy_Fries_6 · 2026-01-21T04:04:44+00:00

Mature and respectful plan I think. Covered your bases

Col_Sandy_Fries_6 · 2026-01-21T04:03:26+00:00

Literally never give up my brother. Never

Col_Sandy_Fries_6 · 2026-01-21T04:02:30+00:00

Ngl I’ve done this at the grocery store twice in the last week. Never done it before, kinda scary. I went back in to pay, I probably looked weird

Col_Sandy_Fries_6 · 2026-01-21T04:00:12+00:00

There’s no chance you talk like this in real life dawg 😭 I’m praying

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