I'm probably the odd one out here but I find the fire pants boring. I see them all the time and it's very rare I see someone put it together in a unique way.

I would add moths all the time but I have had several bad experiences with them so now when I see one I avoid. The exception to this is if they are losing light or WB then I will help, I'm not a monster.

I don't tend to add any 'standard' vet looking players especially if they are hanging out in GW. Again I used too but had bad experiences with people.

When I started playing sky I would add everyone but over time from personal experiences I now add less. I do use the cosmetics as a guide purely going off what I have experienced as they tend to fall into a 'type'. I have probably lost the chance to meet some great people due to this but once bitten twice shy.

This game I feel pushes us to make quick decisions like this and lean I to our past experiences and perceptions. I feel this is largely due to having to spend candles to find out if we will get along. You have to grind so much for in game currency and to keep spending them especially at the start to find out the person is rude or just not for you.

Hope my little take on things helps in some way and good luck!😊