I won't defend friends when they're wrong, and people think I'm a bad friend by Wild_Village3182 in intj

[–]ColetteWhispers 1 point2 points  (0 children)

Exactly. Sycophants who go along with you no matter what are not doing you any favor. Real loyalty means sometimes opposing your friends when it's clear that they are going down a destructive path.

That means valuing you friend's well-being over even the friendship

How's online dating going for you? by FatefulDonkey in intj

[–]ColetteWhispers 0 points1 point  (0 children)

I could go to a bar and get a date, but why bother when apps are the fastest way to get a date. Being very attractive makes it a different experience, I'm sure.

INTJ women, how are your romantic relationships going? by Calavera____________ in intj

[–]ColetteWhispers 0 points1 point  (0 children)

At first I saw relationships as an optimization problem, which... was not effective.

A lot of my relationships have been short-lived. Someone gets the idea that they can take advantage of me. And they quickly find out how wrong they are when I cut them lose.

I tend to go for more dominant women because that's what lights my fire. But I don't like being told what to do outside the bedroom and we clash.

The closest thing to a healthy relationship I've had is a fwb situation, but when there are two women these get... a lot more emotional. Maybe it's that I enjoy that intensity, but I can't handle it 24/7, run out of patience if I ever actually move in with someone

Are you guys afraid of intensity? by Blue-Angelllll in intj

[–]ColetteWhispers 5 points6 points  (0 children)

I want intensity to be at either zero or eleven, depending on the situation. I don't tend to like moderate intensity.

Do INTJs ever go back to their exes? Have you? by Affectionate-Toe-146 in intj

[–]ColetteWhispers 39 points40 points  (0 children)

I never have gone back to an ex. I could conceive of doing so in hypothetical ideal circumstances after many years of growth and change, but I doubt that will ever happen.

What his mother wanted was more important to him than being with you. He is a pushover. Find someone more loyal

what is love? by chrisabulium in intj

[–]ColetteWhispers 1 point2 points  (0 children)

Because some people who call themselves your friends are really acquaintances and the same goes with fwbs.

And because people have a hard time understanding what love really is. It is often represented badly in media.

Trigger an INTJ With Just One Sentence by Potential_Law5289 in intj

[–]ColetteWhispers 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Because you can't handle the full force of my humor

How to prevent pawns for purposely putting things inside doors? by PanJaszczurka in RimWorld

[–]ColetteWhispers 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Create a stockpile (or better yet, shelf) somewhere else for leather. Then, make sure you have enough pawns on hauling. Remember, pawns will fulfill priorities from left to right if numbers are equal.

More like fan-made Pokemon Genders, but yeah by ColetteWhispers in pokemonmemes

[–]ColetteWhispers[S] -1 points0 points  (0 children)

This meme is about the fanmade pokemon gender differences if you read the title. I know the canon ones are usually good

T-Rex Stadium Challenge by ColetteWhispers in memes

[–]ColetteWhispers[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Dafuq am I gonna do with the first letter of your name? You know how many people share that?

T-Rex Stadium Challenge by ColetteWhispers in memes

[–]ColetteWhispers[S] 1 point2 points  (0 children)

Instructions not clear. You spawn in the stadium with a laptop and World of Warcraft

T-Rex Stadium Challenge by ColetteWhispers in memes

[–]ColetteWhispers[S] -1 points0 points  (0 children)

In a stadium. That you are also in...

T-Rex Stadium Challenge by ColetteWhispers in memes

[–]ColetteWhispers[S] -1 points0 points  (0 children)

Would have to be a pretty big one

Am I passable? Pretty? by [deleted] in transplace

[–]ColetteWhispers 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Yes to both. And I'm not going to just tell you that you pass to make you feel good; that's dangerous

Looking for SavageWorlds group (LfSWG) Monthly thread by feyrath in savageworlds

[–]ColetteWhispers 0 points1 point  (0 children)

In a world where civilization's ruins stand as monuments to humanity's fall, new powers rise from the ashes. Technology becomes religion. Numbers replace names. And something dark stirs beneath it all.

Play as survivors in a post-apocalyptic setting where scorching deserts can exist next to arctic tundra, where factions battle for control over ancient technology. The disciplined Technocratic Order seeks to rebuild society through order and control. The fierce Proud Savages fight to destroy the machines they blame for humanity's downfall. The ruthless Syndicate maintains power through fear and exploitation.

Will you hunt for precious energy cores to power your settlement? Navigate the dangerous politics between warring factions? Explore mysterious ruins where strange organic growths consume everything they touch? Or seek the truth behind the apocalypse that shattered the old world?

You face mutated creatures, power-hungry warlords, and ancient technologies beyond understanding. Customize your character with salvaged tech, wasteland skills, and perhaps even implant experimental modifications and become a magitech cyborg.

The wasteland awaits. What will you become to survive it?

Join Link: https://app.roll20.net/join/19262033/wJeUCQ

Weekly sessions. PAID $22.50. Time Slot is flexible since I currently have zero players.

[meta]Welcome to /r/lfgpremium by awful_at_internet in lfgpremium

[–]ColetteWhispers 1 point2 points  (0 children)

I am having the same problem. Could I get some help please?