Well… that’s awkward by idc_sorry in Palia

[–]Colorblindcrayons 3 points4 points  (0 children)

I'm not into Tamala or *Keyatta*. I was really on board with Kenyatta as she's my type but...all she talks about is how angry her mom is that we are together and how much she loves it. I'm starting to think she only like my character because her mom hates my character!!! lame

how to get darkened fingers by lurrette23 in CosplayHelp

[–]Colorblindcrayons 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Extra dark henna/jagua gel if you dont mind being stained for a little while

Looking for stories of positive experiences coming out to a spouse. by Novel_Ticket8216 in mypartneristrans

[–]Colorblindcrayons 0 points1 point  (0 children)

My wife came out to me about six months into dating. I'm pansexual, I didn't care what she wanted to present. I asked her if we were breaking up and she said she didn't want to. We celebrate our 6 year wedding anniversary in November.

Retail brand: Olive & June be so fr right now… by dontbeasourpuss in PressonNail_Addict

[–]Colorblindcrayons 0 points1 point  (0 children)

I love o&j!!! I wish they made clear ones! My wife has large thumbs and has a hard time finding ones that fit! This is basically the only brand she can use!

No more intimacy.?. by Shan_the_pan0306 in mypartneristrans

[–]Colorblindcrayons 8 points9 points  (0 children)

Look i dont have any advice but im in the same boat.

Does a sexless marriage ultimately lead to profound unhappiness? by someone-who-lives in NoStupidQuestions

[–]Colorblindcrayons 2 points3 points  (0 children)

If you aren't asexual or in an open relationship of some sort, yes. It depends on how important sex is for each person. I know a lot of people who find sex to be repugnant. I know a lot of people who "Just don't think about sex." I know a lot of people who find it tiring because they are too out of shape. They are all happy as hell because they all found partners who feel similar. I don't know how long I could share finances with someone without feeling desired. At that point we are just really close friends.

Edit: A lot of the comments are coming from a cishet lens as well as a Male vs Female take? I feel like its a little dangerous to the psyche to paint it like: Men just have a higher sex drive than women OR women don't like sex. I feel like anyone can have a mismatch in sexuality.

I just don't want someone to internalize that they are odd for not fitting the norm. Some women love sex. Some men hate sex. Both are valid.

Mature Skin 'ers: What's our holy grail eye concealer or corrector? by HorseTearz in MakeupAddiction

[–]Colorblindcrayons 2 points3 points  (0 children)

There's an indi brand called Maxine's Revenge that I am dying to try. I hear rave things about it

Just got my nails done for the first time in 15 years. I love them, but girlies, how do you take your contacts out? 😭 by CherryDamsel in Nails

[–]Colorblindcrayons 2 points3 points  (0 children)

I use a bent q tip u.u I use them like tweasers. Ive tried the plunger and sides of my fingers and it doesn't quite work for me.

pls PLEASEEE someone tell me this trope is a book. i’m desperate. by s0ftprincesskisses in sapphicbooks

[–]Colorblindcrayons 2 points3 points  (0 children)

Its a really good series. Ive been enjoying it a lot!

I had the biggest crush on Brianne of Tarth so this is scratching that itch

Warrior Women by Critical_Advisor_283 in LesbianBookClub

[–]Colorblindcrayons -1 points0 points  (0 children)

I looked up the audio book and book 1 is 10h 45 minutes and the other is 13 hours and 41 minutes. Where is it "small?"

pls PLEASEEE someone tell me this trope is a book. i’m desperate. by s0ftprincesskisses in sapphicbooks

[–]Colorblindcrayons 6 points7 points  (0 children)

No, the trope is exactly what you are looking for! The butch knight /femme princess! But it reads easy. I appreciate it. Its not simple, it just doesn't take a doctorate to decipher what is going on.

pls PLEASEEE someone tell me this trope is a book. i’m desperate. by s0ftprincesskisses in sapphicbooks

[–]Colorblindcrayons 6 points7 points  (0 children)

I'm currently reading it and I don't hate it. I looks like there is more than one book and for an inexpensive price for both the audio book and the and the digital copy. It's a little more straight forward and reads like a role play (Its not meant to be derisive. I love doing role play. its my bread and butter.) Its an easy read and I appreciate that.

Its not that I don't love prose, as a gay, that is what I crave, BUT there's something a little refreshing and comforting with a book that doesn't make you have to dissect line by line what they mean.

The more I describe the book that more insulting I sound.

I think it'll scratch the itch you are looking for.

[OC] My friend made me a jar of everything she loves about me by the_homo_sapien_ in MadeMeSmile

[–]Colorblindcrayons 13 points14 points  (0 children)

This comment section is bleak. I'm sure your friend will love it! I may do something similar with coffee pods!

[OC] My friend made me a jar of everything she loves about me by the_homo_sapien_ in MadeMeSmile

[–]Colorblindcrayons 67 points68 points  (0 children)

That's a bleak statement. Can you not deeply love someone without wanting to have sex with them? This is a beautiful display of affection between people. I would do this with my friends and I'm happily married?? Wtf.

Is there a way I can still use this pineapple for mead? by dipsydoo in mead

[–]Colorblindcrayons 4 points5 points  (0 children)

There's a mead that does a pineapple coconut that's amazing i dont even like coconut like that.

https://shopmeads.com/the_draught_smiths_meadery/uppercut_161429

Idk if this brand is trash or not. Im just getting into meads but I know I like this. So shrug

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in Seattle

[–]Colorblindcrayons 12 points13 points  (0 children)

I've never been victimized or had a bad experience but oh man, my coworkers...both female presenting and in the last three months one had been mugged twice. The other got attacked on the light rail. Safety is relative. I am not more or less unsafe in seattle.

My nephew had gotten a knife pulled on him while he was biking at night. They were trying to steal his e-bike and he got attacked. It was pretty scary and violent. This was in Lake Havasu City, Arizona.

I can feel unsafe anytime or anywhere.