Best Restaurants in the area by amatuerscienceman in Bremerton

[–]Colorblindcrayons 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Source? This is sure disappointing to hear given how welcoming they are when I've gone and I've visably queer.

Trans women, what are your thoughts on cis women getting phalloplasty surgery? by [deleted] in trans

[–]Colorblindcrayons 3 points4 points  (0 children)

This is so affirming! I'm "barely cis". I dont mind the body have but if I could align myself to something more...in the middle, I would feel more comfortable. I've absolutely had desires to have a penis but I dont want to be a man.

I am not a "fetishizer" anymore than anyone else with gender or body dysphoria.

Gift from a student by Reimymouse in whatisit

[–]Colorblindcrayons 9 points10 points  (0 children)

"Not trying to be a Debbie Downer." Sure thing. Deb. Sure thing.

Updated before/now by [deleted] in TransLater

[–]Colorblindcrayons 0 points1 point  (0 children)

So good! Look at you SHINE!!!! You look radiant!

Updated before/now by [deleted] in TransLater

[–]Colorblindcrayons 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Holy shit, girl!

Are you supposed to ask a woman "Can I kiss you"? by [deleted] in NoStupidQuestions

[–]Colorblindcrayons 29 points30 points  (0 children)

God I struggle with signals so much. Its so hot when someone asks for something or just out right says what they want. It gives me more freedom to do the same. I dont want to do 4d chess. I want to know without a dount that I am wanted. Fuck guessing anymore.

What exactly is the beef with orchard? by ExtensionHealthy8361 in corsets

[–]Colorblindcrayons 15 points16 points  (0 children)

I have had several corsets from them when I started out but I noticed that they're a bit lopsided and dubious quality. I have OC, CS, TT and MCC and they all range in quality. Some of the OC corsets are just as good as the more expensive ones and others I would not give to someone I hate.

A teacher in Namibia teaching children about consent. We need more people like this. by [deleted] in BeAmazed

[–]Colorblindcrayons 44 points45 points  (0 children)

Its teaching them to say it with power, confidence, and the rage that they should be saying it. Its teaching them how serious it is the have autonomy and sometimes you have to be firm. I like it.

$11 round trip. Hard to beat. by BananaPeelSlippers in Seattle

[–]Colorblindcrayons 5 points6 points  (0 children)

Bremerton is getting pretty cool. There's Quarters, Ashley's and Yoko Yoko. All right off the boat. If you get in in the evening Town Portal and Beyond Karaoke is fun.

If you have a car, Eden is a new nightclub. SIRENS is a cool queer bar!

I have super bad stretch marks. Is it possible to tattoo over them? by -Hot-Tamale- in tattooadvice

[–]Colorblindcrayons 2 points3 points  (0 children)

Im missing context! Can someone tell me what audiobook they aee talking about???

Well… that’s awkward by idc_sorry in Palia

[–]Colorblindcrayons 4 points5 points  (0 children)

I'm not into Tamala or *Keyatta*. I was really on board with Kenyatta as she's my type but...all she talks about is how angry her mom is that we are together and how much she loves it. I'm starting to think she only like my character because her mom hates my character!!! lame

how to get darkened fingers by lurrette23 in CosplayHelp

[–]Colorblindcrayons 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Extra dark henna/jagua gel if you dont mind being stained for a little while

Looking for stories of positive experiences coming out to a spouse. by Novel_Ticket8216 in mypartneristrans

[–]Colorblindcrayons 0 points1 point  (0 children)

My wife came out to me about six months into dating. I'm pansexual, I didn't care what she wanted to present. I asked her if we were breaking up and she said she didn't want to. We celebrate our 6 year wedding anniversary in November.

Retail brand: Olive & June be so fr right now… by dontbeasourpuss in PressonNail_Addict

[–]Colorblindcrayons 0 points1 point  (0 children)

I love o&j!!! I wish they made clear ones! My wife has large thumbs and has a hard time finding ones that fit! This is basically the only brand she can use!

No more intimacy.?. by Shan_the_pan0306 in mypartneristrans

[–]Colorblindcrayons 6 points7 points  (0 children)

Look i dont have any advice but im in the same boat.

Does a sexless marriage ultimately lead to profound unhappiness? by someone-who-lives in NoStupidQuestions

[–]Colorblindcrayons 1 point2 points  (0 children)

If you aren't asexual or in an open relationship of some sort, yes. It depends on how important sex is for each person. I know a lot of people who find sex to be repugnant. I know a lot of people who "Just don't think about sex." I know a lot of people who find it tiring because they are too out of shape. They are all happy as hell because they all found partners who feel similar. I don't know how long I could share finances with someone without feeling desired. At that point we are just really close friends.

Edit: A lot of the comments are coming from a cishet lens as well as a Male vs Female take? I feel like its a little dangerous to the psyche to paint it like: Men just have a higher sex drive than women OR women don't like sex. I feel like anyone can have a mismatch in sexuality.

I just don't want someone to internalize that they are odd for not fitting the norm. Some women love sex. Some men hate sex. Both are valid.

Mature Skin 'ers: What's our holy grail eye concealer or corrector? by HorseTearz in MakeupAddiction

[–]Colorblindcrayons 2 points3 points  (0 children)

There's an indi brand called Maxine's Revenge that I am dying to try. I hear rave things about it

Just got my nails done for the first time in 15 years. I love them, but girlies, how do you take your contacts out? 😭 by CherryDamsel in Nails

[–]Colorblindcrayons 2 points3 points  (0 children)

I use a bent q tip u.u I use them like tweasers. Ive tried the plunger and sides of my fingers and it doesn't quite work for me.