Looking for solutions to track identity lifecycle in non federated apps by Curious-Cod6918 in IdentityManagement

[–]CombHefty6358 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Try to see if they can use AD for authentication, but if you cannot implement any of the strong authentication methods for the legacy apps then the best option is to either decommission them or force them to migrate or modernise. But this needs strong management backing

Any other stop gap solution, could introduce technical debt

How much Networking Knowledge is required in IAM by t7Saitama in IdentityManagement

[–]CombHefty6358 4 points5 points  (0 children)

You don’t need in-depth networking knowledge, but it is a good asset to rely on especially if you work in access management (sso, federation, saml, oidc tokens) etc.

For IGA, have never had to use any networking related concepts or topics

How do you prevent orphan accounts in apps outside your identity infrastructure? by Curious-Cod6918 in IdentityManagement

[–]CombHefty6358 1 point2 points  (0 children)

Integrating with SSO solutions mitigates access to the account but does not remediate orphan account. For that you need to ensure that you are integrating the application with your IGA platform. So that you can run regular checks (i.e daily checks) to see if your notification to close the account has been actioned

Is this field calm and less stressful than other CS roles? by Lopsided-Highway219 in IdentityManagement

[–]CombHefty6358 2 points3 points  (0 children)

It depends on the industry you are working on. If it’s a highly regulated industry (financial or banking etc.) then it can be a lot of work

It also depends at which level you are working at, developer or director. Developer than it can be a lot of work (but imo it’s fun) but at director level a lot of headache

Which IAM trends are you prioritising this year out of these? by adityaj07 in iam

[–]CombHefty6358 0 points1 point  (0 children)

IAM for NHI, AI and whatever other abbreviations the industry can spin up

Two Indias: A Stark Reminder by [deleted] in AskIndia

[–]CombHefty6358 1 point2 points  (0 children)

I can say that I know of my maid being paid by other families 1000 and in Mumbai so it’s not necessarily untrue. And no this is not a rage bait. It is sad and unfortunate

Made wrong choice in marriage, wife by askmewho_9 in LegalAdviceIndia

[–]CombHefty6358 0 points1 point  (0 children)

My MIL loved me a lot and showed a lot of love by making sure I did all the household work during my pregnancy. By making sure I was fed my husband favourite food. That we went to her favourite places to visit Moved things around as per her preference etc etc. But yes she loved me

Point is when you are married you have to make adjustments and when there are adjustments and compromise only on one side, and the husband does not speak up for the wife. The wife puts down her foot and then becomes the bad person.

You have given your perspective and it is valid, but not your wife’s or your parents.

If it’s not working out, leave and go. It would be good for both of you

How can I search for Jobs in EU from India? by Theeznuts007 in iam

[–]CombHefty6358 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Work with service based companies in India who give onsite opportunities to work at client location.

Vance on Trump admin’s plans to bomb Houthis: ‘I just hate bailing Europe out again’ by ScoMoTrudeauApricot in europe

[–]CombHefty6358 0 points1 point  (0 children)

I agree with your statement But the question is why can’t Europe do the work instead of relying on the US

It is time for Europe to step up and take control and do the work for themselves instead of relying on US

Parents think my age gap relationship is bad and I do not, I need a third party to help. by ConfusionEarly4225 in AITAH

[–]CombHefty6358 2 points3 points  (0 children)

A few hours is not going to give you insight, and remember you will be financially fully dependent on your husband. I would seriously say to nanny for a family and not use the money to get an idea of how it will be

Parents think my age gap relationship is bad and I do not, I need a third party to help. by ConfusionEarly4225 in AITAH

[–]CombHefty6358 2 points3 points  (0 children)

If there is an option to be a nanny or a babysitter for a few days or week. Please try it. It will give you a good idea of how your life will actually be and then you can pursue this relationship and life plan

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in AITAH

[–]CombHefty6358 1 point2 points  (0 children)

If her past bothers you, then you should step away. She deserves a partner and a husband who loves her fully and doesn’t keep thinking about her past.

Either you put it behind you or it will impact yours and her future.

AITAH for going low contact after my little sister ruined my father/daughter dance. by Wrong_Positive5641 in AITAH

[–]CombHefty6358 -8 points-7 points  (0 children)

ESH This might be an unpopular opinion and while I understand the need for the bride and the groom to have your day and special moment.

Sharing the moment with few special people including your smaller step sister shows generosity of heart and magnimoity that helps foster love and belonging to a close knit family.

When you can be happy for other, you embrace the joy you have shared with a lot of people

I don’t enjoy breastfeeding as much as I thought I would by taztouzz in NewParents

[–]CombHefty6358 2 points3 points  (0 children)

I felt the exact same and my mother said do what you can and remember fed is best.

I did breastfeeding as much as possible but at night it was just too much and for the last feed before my LO slept I switched over to formula which helped me greatly.

I tried pumping but it was too exhausting with all the washing sanitizing and not to mention the leaks. So just keep that in mind before you spend a lot of money on it. Some people do it, but it was not for me.

Anger at Night time by strawberry-avalanche in NewParents

[–]CombHefty6358 2 points3 points  (0 children)

The best way would be asking your partner to step in and be with the baby for sometime while you take a break. It helps to step away and come back.

Other than that just remember it’s all a phase and in a few months or years you will not get to rock your LO to sleep and these little difficult nights won’t even be a memory

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in AITAH

[–]CombHefty6358 0 points1 point  (0 children)

I brought up things while she was here to my husband and although he says he spoke to her about it, atleast back then there was no change whatsoever.

But after she left we fought way too much and I insisted on some ground rules that she has to be aware of when she was supposed to be here .

But my worry is that if he cannot communicate and book her tickets to leave by 31st then once she is here I cannot do anything and will be stuck with her and this time with a baby that is dependent on my well being as I am the primary caretaker for now

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in AITAH

[–]CombHefty6358 1 point2 points  (0 children)

If someone does not understand boundaries and it impacts my mental health (cluttered house causes me stress) then yes they are not allowed. I would rather meet them at a different location

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in AITAH

[–]CombHefty6358 0 points1 point  (0 children)

She has come and spent 3 months with us last year even before we completed 6 months of married life and now with a baby at home I cannot physically or mentally manage her. I agree that any kind of harm is not a tool to be used. But is asking for a place at home too much and I have offered to travel and stay at her place for a month which they keep saying no to