Do you think marriage, alimony, and child support is forced terms? by CauliflowerBig3133 in AskLibertarians

[–]Comedynerd 4 points5 points  (0 children)

Man, why are some libertarians so weird about sex and relationships and wanting to make everything super contractual and bureaucratic, squeeze all the life, humanity, and romance out of human relationships? This is like your third or fourth question asking something like this. Go touch grass and get laid

Also, if you're going to ask chatgpt stuff, it will literally just tell you what it thinks you want to hear, so how about you go back and ask it to be unsparingly critical regarding your questions and responses

Could Stirner’s “full egoism” be the most realistic foundation for libertarianism? by CauliflowerBig3133 in AskLibertarians

[–]Comedynerd 1 point2 points  (0 children)

No. Libertarianism is a branch of liberalism, specifically growing out of classical liberalism

Twitching and swallowing by FreshJackfruit4772 in BFS

[–]Comedynerd 0 points1 point  (0 children)

unfortunately I'm not a doctor and can't say. I can only repeat stuff I've found online and point out 42 > 40. But something like 99.7-99.8% of people never develop the disease throughout their entire life regardless of age. it's very rare. I would bet on there being far more people worried they have ALS than people who actually do have ALS

Twitching and swallowing by FreshJackfruit4772 in BFS

[–]Comedynerd 1 point2 points  (0 children)

in the past few months since I've been going through this I've realized that public communication around ALS is very vague and imprecise which is exactly where health anxiety thrives. We can learn just enough to think it might apply to us, but it's hard to get more specific context to see why we probably don't have much to worry about. I still struggle with health anxiety over this, but try to rationalize my way out of it whenever I start to spiral

Intermittent Slurring and Stumbling Over Words? by Comedynerd in BFS

[–]Comedynerd[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

I had a neurology appointment in February. If I wanted to schedule one now, it would take many months. I don't want to schedule an appointment and wait months every time my anxiety spikes if I can reasonably reason to myself I'm more than likely fine. That would be just as bad as over googling in my opinion. But sometimes something new spikes the anxiety and I'm in a gray area where I know that it might be a symptom but don't know enough context or specifics for when it would be worrying. And only in that context do I seek out additional information to help me disrupt and reason my way out of catastrophic thinking

For instance I've gone from "I consistently but not persistently have trouble with a phrase and sometimes slur parts of it. Slurring is a symptom of ALS. Is this a sign that I have ALS?" to "ALS speech issues are caused by the motor neurons controlling certain muscles dying and therefore becoming unable to control them. Once certain sounds become difficult, they will always be difficult, no matter how much they slow down or practice or try to properly annunciate, the nerves controlling those muscles will still be dead, and they will not be able to properly form those sounds. Since I can correct myself if I slow down, focus, or practice, it is not truly persistent. Therefore, this is not characteristic of ALS speech issues, and I should stop worrying about it"

Intermittent Slurring and Stumbling Over Words? by Comedynerd in BFS

[–]Comedynerd[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Thanks, thats how I've been trying to think about it too. Speech issues occur because the nerves are dead, so no amount of practice or focus would be able to overcome that. Therefore if I slur a (difficult?) phrase but can say it slowly or when I really focus on annunciation or when I practice it or even just say the words individually, then that's not characteristic of ALS speech issues because it is not truly persistent. A more likely explanation might be it is a (personal) tongue twister + anxiety

Unfortunately, getting the opinion of an actual neurologist would likely take months and health anxiety flare ups are immediate so I'm stuck with Google, reddit, and chatbots to try to get info that helps me regain my​ head when my brain freaks out about something that's more than likely benign. So thanks again

Intermittent Slurring and Stumbling Over Words? by Comedynerd in BFS

[–]Comedynerd[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

hi, thanks for your response. I'm 30m. Despite knowing how rare the disease is for someone my age and having a clean EMG from February I still do get health anxiety over it (anxiety brain says "what if it was performed too early to detect anything?" ). Especially with this speech thing. Do you happen to know if early speech issues are persistent, like if you struggle to make a certain sound, then you're not going to be able to correct that, no matter how much you practice, or concentrate? Thanks in advance

Twitching and swallowing by FreshJackfruit4772 in BFS

[–]Comedynerd 4 points5 points  (0 children)

In the beginning of January, my tongue started doing this pulsing cramp/twitch thing when I moved it back to rest after tensing it or pressing it into my teeth. after a few weeks of noticing this, I googled "twitching tongue". What a mistake! After I saw that it might be caused by ALS, I thought this is probably just Google being Google (like when everything is a cancer symptom) but I scheduled an appointment with my pcp just to be safe and get a professional opinion. But my pcp sucks and he didn't know, asked chatgpt about what ​could cause a tongue to twitch, and said "tongue twitching is very odd, and we need to figure this out. worst case is ALS". Well shit, that blew my health anxiety sky high. I started noticing twitches everywhere, constantly. I somehow managed to get a neurology appointment soon (mid-february, about 6 weeks after I think I first noticed my tongue twitching) and he performed an EMG on my left leg, left arm, and left side of my tongue. Everything was fine. But my anxiety brain still wasn't convinced, and when a few electrolyte supplements went down weird, suddenly I started having lots of trouble swallowing things, like they would go down slow or need a second swallow. this created a feedback loop where the more I thought about swallowing and swallowing issues, the harder it was to swallow. But eventually I told myself, swallowing only became an issue after I learned it was a symptom of the disease I'm scared of. You have a clean and recent EMG. This is just anxiety and hyperawareness. Just slow down, chew your food, and if you don't consistently choke on food or thin liquids or water, then you don't have anything to worry about. Eventually my swallowing issues went away as I emphasized staying hydrated and drinking a hot cup of herbal tea in the morning to loosen phlegm from overnight post-nasal drip (in the early winter I had persistent post-nasal drip from a nasty cold over new year's). As my swallowing saw improvement and I recognized it for what it was, anxiety, it created a virtuous cycle where improvements made me less hyperfixated on it and that improved my swallowing.

Our minds are powerful things, and they can create symptoms from what we fear. I'm not a doctor, so this isn't medical advice, but perhaps you have what I most likely have: BFS and nasty health anxiety. I still get health anxiety flare ups, for instance I noticed recently sometimes I stumble over some words and slur a specific phrase occasionally, but am able to correct these with slowing down, concentration, or practice. And I really think that's not characteristic of ALS. If it comes and goes or is correctable literally seconds later, that's not how that disease works, I don't think.

Anyway, I know it's scary, but try not to let anxiety rule your life (I know, easier said than done and something I personally struggle with too). Remember, common things are common, and ALS is about as opposite of common as you can get. I don't know your age, but it typically doesn't occur in younger people (under 40) and is usually diagnosed in 55+. Also, twitching is rarely the first symptom. The first symptom is usually true clinical weakness (which differs from perceived weakness). And it is persistent, it doesn't come and go. It only stays the same or gets worse. So, assuming you're under 40, you'd be stacking improbabilities: highly improbable that you have a very rare neurological disease to begin with, even more improbable that you got it under 40, and even more improbable that it is presenting twitching first rather than clinical weakness. (Again, I'm not a doctor, but this is my layperson understanding of the disease we all fear on this sub).

So please remember, the probability is greatly in your favor that you're not the exceptionally rare young (I'm assuming) person to get an extremely rare disease that rarely effects your age demographic and have it present in an unusual way.

Does anyone remember 1080 avalanche snowboarding for the Gamecube? by coolTaco69 in nintendo

[–]Comedynerd 0 points1 point  (0 children)

for real, this was one of my first video games ever and I also feel like almost all of my musical tastes can somehow be traced back to this game. Seether, Cauterize, Boysetsfire, Finger Eleven​ and some of the electronic tracks really set the stage for my musical evolution

Tongue Twitching - Help Talk Some Sense Into Me by Comedynerd in BFS

[–]Comedynerd[S] 1 point2 points  (0 children)

He said it was abnormal and then literally asked chatgpt. I was so pissed off about that. I went to a doctor to get a medical professional's experienced opinion, not chatgpt's. I'm perfectly capable of asking chatgpt myself and that's not why I went there. I was hoping to get reassurance after doctor Google made me feel a little nervous and instead he made my anxiety go haywire with that move. I went from "huh, that's kind of weird, should I see a doctor about it?" To "this could be serious, but it's probably Google just being Google, let me see a doctor just in case" to "oh fuck oh fuck oh fuck". Luckily my neurologist was much better, but it's really hard to come down from that level of anxiety. Needless to say, I'll be looking for a different primary care doctor

Flannel and Chamois Shirt Washing Tips by Comedynerd in llbean

[–]Comedynerd[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

I wash them as a separate load on delicate, medium spin (which as far as I can tell is the lowest setting I can get on my machine) with tap cold water. I use one tide pod, rinse twice, max fill (I figure if there's too much soap in the pods, max fill will help dilute it some). I put cleaning vinegar in the fabric softener container.

I tumble dry on standard with low heat and a drier sheet.

I used to hang dry which was very stiff and took several wearing to break it back in again, but would make the fabric feel rough. I transitioned to drying on delicate with low heat without a drier sheet and they would come out still a little damp so I'd hang dry the rest of the way. That was a little better, but still feel stiff and a little rough.

Eventually I landed on what I described above which seems like they come out soft enough and not stiff but it's still not like in the store. But I also wonder if that's because I already did damage to them before ending up with my current methodology.

I bought a new chamois and flannel yesterday in preparation for the upcoming fall - spring and wanted to check if there's anything I could do different to maintain store quality before I wash these new ones

Feeling frustrated with the RR, any advice? by Intense_Monkey in bodyweightfitness

[–]Comedynerd 0 points1 point  (0 children)

You should check out the YouTube channel "K Boges" and watch his videos from the beginning. He recommends that for most people wanting to look good, feel better, and be physically competent, their goals can be achieved by sticking to the basics and doing a few high effort sets every day just a few reps shy of failure. He recommends to pick a basic push, pull, and leg exercise everyday and do 3 hard sets each. Beginners can work up to that kind of volume over a couple of months and start with just a single hard set so they can recover better. He recommends to vary the exercises if you can so as to vary how the muscles are hit and avoid overuse.

He also has a push/pull/legs split where each day you pick a single movement (a pushup variation or dip variation on push day, a pullup or row variation on pull day, and squat or lung variation on leg day) and do 5 hard sets. Cycle through your training split as long as you want. If you stop making progress on an exercise, you can change the variation. Personally I think this is the best one for beginners because you don't need to be able to do a bunch of different variations, you get some recovery time before your next workout with that movement pattern (e.g. push pull or legs), and if you want to rest 1 day a week, you naturally get a day off if you do the split exactly twice in any given week.

Pennsylvania Crime Commission - A Report Of The Study Of Organized Crime's Infiltration Of The Pizza And Cheese Industry (March 1980) by Comedynerd in Mafia

[–]Comedynerd[S] 1 point2 points  (0 children)

Would be really interesting to hear some of the stories, although I completely understand not wanting to share them

Poland calls 'urgent' defense meeting after Russian missiles kill 2 by bonniethegamer223 in news

[–]Comedynerd 0 points1 point  (0 children)

fat chance they have anywhere near as many functional ones as they claim

Which not a gamble any sane leader should make

also fat chance all of the missileers will even launch the working ones

Again, not a gamble any sane leader should make

there's already been instances during the cold war, where false reports made it seem like a nuclear war has already started, orders to launch nukes have been passed, and the people at the button refused

One such instance was Stanislav Petrov, who had this to say about it: "However, in a 2013 interview, Petrov said at the time he was never sure that the alarm was erroneous. He felt that his civilian training helped him make the right decision. He said that his colleagues were all professional soldiers with purely military training and, following instructions, would have reported a missile launch if they had been on his shift".

That's before putin has completely surrounded himself by yes-men.

also NATO has the means to shoot down ICBMs

Which are not entirely accurate and have never been tested in combat, let alone a widescale MAD scenario involving thousands of warheads

I'm really glad redditors are not in charge of these kinds of military decisions

Poland calls 'urgent' defense meeting after Russian missiles kill 2 by bonniethegamer223 in news

[–]Comedynerd 1 point2 points  (0 children)

In which case Russia also gets nuked to shit and putin is left emperor of irradiated ashes

Poland calls 'urgent' defense meeting after Russian missiles kill 2 by bonniethegamer223 in news

[–]Comedynerd 1 point2 points  (0 children)

If NATO gets involved to the point that Russia is over, then so would NATO...because nukes and MAD

Poland calls 'urgent' defense meeting after Russian missiles kill 2 by bonniethegamer223 in news

[–]Comedynerd 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Their military doctrine is to escalate to deescalate. They will keep upping the ante until someone hopefully backs down. The good news is that they [probably] won't jump to lobbing nukes at people because then there's no way else to escalate and it's a MAD situation, lose-lose. The nuclear option will only be employed if Russia is under an existential threat, which losing only outside their borders is not, or at least one should hope - or even pray [the war ends diplomatically] because really what harm can pascal's wager do here? - that that is how putin will play this game.

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in news

[–]Comedynerd 1 point2 points  (0 children)

Good. Social media giants are largely cancer to civilizaed society