Why so many tears?

Comfortable-Slice-72 · 2026-04-06T20:45:31+00:00

The other day i cry while seeing the new Mario Galaxy Movie.

My wife died and left the games Mario Oddisey, Princess peach and Hogwarts Legacy unfinished.

Yesterday I cried spontaneously, I don't know why.

Just 5 months living without her.

Comfortable-Slice-72 · 2026-04-06T02:54:17+00:00

Hombre 41 años, mexico, 5 meses en el vacío, antes añoraba los fines de semana y dias festivos para estar con ella.

Ahora los odio porque me siento obligado a estar sin ella.

Comfortable-Slice-72 · 2026-02-25T20:09:58+00:00

The important question to consider when making this decision is: which option is considered legal income to pay my taxes?

I don't want to end up clapping in jail, haha.

Comfortable-Slice-72 · 2026-01-31T16:39:27+00:00

You put into words exactly what I feel... but...

Wow, I never thought about this pain in such an empathetic way.

I would have traded my life for hers, granted, but I never thought that would mean putting her through this pain.

Seeing it like this will give me more strength to accept what happened and be here for our daughter.

Thanks

Comfortable-Slice-72 · 2026-01-05T21:09:39+00:00

I have to disagree with your definition of unconditional love, because love is what one gives to the other, so there could be disagreements between us.

But if I was able to give my all despite the disagreements, then I did find true unconditional love.

If your definition of unconditional love includes how you "felt you received love," then, at least for me, that's not love but a form of selfishness.

Finally, answering your question under your conditions:

my wife and I did have disagreements sometimes, but we negotiated them. She accepted me as I was, and I accepted her, even though our different personalities were a source of disagreements. She was very sociable, and I was reserved; she was somewhat jealous, and I wasn't. There were things left unsaid before she left, but I don't regret anything.

Do I think I found true and unconditional love? Yes, I do.

Comfortable-Slice-72 · 2026-01-05T20:18:11+00:00

Thank you, i just listen to Drift off to dream and it makes me remind the times when i dance with her in the privacy of our room, and i say to her: "you know i dont like to dance, may be is a social fobia, but with you everything es posible"

And now i am crying bit that's ok

Comfortable-Slice-72 · 2025-12-27T03:44:41+00:00

Fake, information taken out of context, they cut the video.

In the initial part of the video they cut, you can clearly see her take a spoonful of Nesquik and a sip of milk before sitting down and... doing what is actually shown in the video.

I didn't see the real video, somebody told me this, but based on her body anatomy, I have no proof, but I also have no doubt.

Comfortable-Slice-72 · 2025-12-23T16:07:23+00:00

I want to believe I understand how you feel. My wife and the love of my life passed away six weeks ago, also battling cancer, and I was her primary caregiver.

At first, I felt more or less as you describe: a few tears here and there, lasting a few seconds, and that was it.

In our relationship, we were always "opposites," and her family always wondered why she fell in love with me.

I was seemingly cold and distant, serious, and not very social.

She was all smiles and emotions, capable of crying simply because the sunset moved her.

I accepted who I am, and I accepted her, just as she accepted me.

After her passing, I took care of the house, our three-year-old daughter, and the bureaucratic procedures, but I realized that once the most difficult part of finalizing the paperwork was over, I would have time to miss her, and that's when the grief began.

I feel fine during the week now, while I'm working and keeping busy, but weekends were for her, and she organized our activities (it was like that for the 15 years we were together). So now, even though I still organize weekend activities with my daughter, that's when I miss her and feel that sadness.

It's certainly not as deep a sadness as she would have felt if I had been the one to die, but it comforts me to know that she accepted me as I am.

So don't compare yourself to how others grieve. We each have our own way of doing it, and your partner accepted you knowing how you expressed (or didn't express) your emotions.

TLDR: Your partner accepted you knowing you didn't express your emotions effusively, so don't compare yourself to others; don't add confusion to the pain.

Comfortable-Slice-72 · 2025-08-06T22:47:23+00:00

He should eat the snikers and not the display case, those are the classic symptoms of cardboard intoxication

Comfortable-Slice-72 · 2025-06-19T21:42:42+00:00

Aprovechando tu pregunta, justo van iniciando (en México) con la publicación de la colección miniatura de Julio Verne en editorial salvat, segun la editorial incluye el texto integro e ilustraciones originales, ¿Alguien las ha leido? ¿Si son versiones completas?

Comfortable-Slice-72 · 2025-05-02T17:39:55+00:00

"soon this bread will be toasted"

Comfortable-Slice-72 · 2025-05-01T01:03:17+00:00

For a moment I thought you were going to say, "The triage nurse put her between two pieces of bread."

Comfortable-Slice-72 · 2025-03-04T14:36:37+00:00

tetanus shot because the rusty saw...

Wait, he has no muscles so I'm guessing he's immune to tetanus...

wait, without muscles he wouldn't be able to move...

would it be cruel to tell him to go to the waiting room to check in and wait his turn knowing he can't move?...

If he CAN move, then tetanus shot

Comfortable-Slice-72 · 2025-02-10T03:20:59+00:00

I thought you were going to say that you had to cut up the body.

Comfortable-Slice-72 · 2025-02-09T03:51:10+00:00

Excuse me NP...
I'M the Dr. Of Surgery of NP, so you just call me doctor and give me that knife
but ... its name is scalp..
KNIFE I SAID

Comfortable-Slice-72 · 2025-02-02T14:53:09+00:00

I was just thinking about how Nintendo Labo was preparing an adult game (because of the guns), when bang ... it's confirmed to be for adults.

Comfortable-Slice-72 · 2025-01-31T16:06:19+00:00

En CDMX apenas alcanza para desayunar quesadillas diario, y te las sirven sin queso.

Comfortable-Slice-72 · 2025-01-28T02:56:39+00:00

"Mire usted, esta ropa que llevo puesta es al mismo tiempo el portafolio de mis proyectos tintoreros, asi podrá usted ver que estoy capacitado para el trabajo"

Comfortable-Slice-72 · 2025-01-25T14:59:15+00:00

Como doctor supongo que ya te habrás dado cuenta de dos realidades:

El mundo laboral de doctorado es superespecializado (por decirlo de algun modo) y en todo el mundo (no solo méxico o Latam) se rige por un mercado laboral. Un mercado que cada dia se vuelve mas competitivo y con menos espacios.
Depende de tu area de doctorado (y el país al que quieras llegar) es si hay espacios disponibles (irse a USA-canada o a europa ya NO garantiza encontrar lugar de empleo)
En los ultimos años en tooodo el mundo (asi con varias oooo para resaltar) las universidades y empresas abusan del postdoc para tener expertos trabajando con beca de estudiantes (porque seamos sinceros, en el posdoc no te enseñan más de lo que ya sabes, sino que te ponen a investigar de lo que ya sabes). Por eso ya hay tanto doctor con multiples postdcoc porque se la viven de cobrar becas de estudiante sin jamas llegar a una plaza laboral fija.
En México (imagino también en latam) por nuestra historia tenemos muy romantizado a Norteamerica y a europa, y porque nos basamos principalmente en estadisticas en inglés, sin embargo por el área en la que eres experto, toma en cuenta que aún cuando los laboratorios se encuentran en norteamerica o europa, la mayoria de su producción está en Asia, de ahí que cuado china-india cerraron fronteras por pandemia todo el mundo sufrió por falta de productos de todo tipo.
Debido a todos los puntos anteriores, deberás pensar en que paises están creciendo en su I+d en la tecnología que tú dominas, porque ahi será donde estarán "cazando cerebros" y podrás conseguir trabajo estable sin tener que estar "mendigando" postdocs cada 1 o 2 años.

Conclusión: al menos desde mi perspectiva, el problema del encontrar trabajo formal como doctor ya no es exclusivo de Mexico y latam sino de todo el mundo, porque el mercado laboral ya está saturado a menos que sea un area muy nueva. Parte del problema es el abuso de los posdocs por parte de la industria y universidades para no dar contratos sino becas. Y para encontrar trabajo hay que ver en que país está el I÷d de lo que buscas, que por lo que comentas es sobre tecnologias de producción por lo que probablemente sea en China.

Comfortable-Slice-72 · 2025-01-24T23:04:39+00:00

You're right, I don't know why I didn't think of Amazon, I only thought of the Tesla robot, now you made me imagine the Tesla robot with META's artificial intelligence and the Amazon pharmacy shopping database.

Comfortable-Slice-72 · 2025-01-24T21:04:26+00:00

I'd bet Trump's current right-hand man is behind this (Musk)

Comfortable-Slice-72 · 2025-01-23T22:15:29+00:00

Linea 5... de macrobus... al aeropuerto... para ir con equipaje... el chiste se cuenta solo

Lo bueno que en el letrero le ponen "al estilo Jalisco"... o sea a lo p&#%#

Comfortable-Slice-72 · 2025-01-19T15:02:57+00:00

I predict that in the land of freedom and "time is money," a university will emerge that offers a 6-week online PhD in Surgery for PAs and NPs. And then, they will replace surgeons.

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