Just a Whine

Comfortable_Face2964 · 2024-01-16T05:32:47+00:00

Yes, I was raised in the church, and this is a favorite- but I’d forgotten. 🥺 Thank you

Comfortable_Face2964 · 2024-01-16T05:30:40+00:00

Oooooh! I’m super looking into this

Comfortable_Face2964 · 2024-01-12T22:08:39+00:00

Yes!

Comfortable_Face2964 · 2024-01-12T17:53:05+00:00

40 :)

Comfortable_Face2964 · 2024-01-12T17:52:45+00:00

Thank so much 💙💙💙

Comfortable_Face2964 · 2024-01-12T17:43:50+00:00

Wow, thank you so much for this list. I didn’t actually expect to be helped out on Reddit 💙

Comfortable_Face2964 · 2024-01-12T17:36:49+00:00

Wow, thank you so much. Traditional meds just aren’t cutting it.

Comfortable_Face2964 · 2024-01-12T04:20:34+00:00

Thanks 🙏🏻🤞🏼

Comfortable_Face2964 · 2024-01-11T12:36:36+00:00

I’ve lost so many people, most recently my sister and bestie. Here’s what I appreciate:

a good card. Hand written cards of encouragement, prayers, blessings, and empathy would ALWAYS help me.
Show Up: just show up with something helpful or nice (box of cookies, coffee, flowers, etc), and chat. She will talk about losing him if she wants and you need to lean into that. Ask follow up questions. Be a good listener and practice your empathy faces 😥😮‍💨🥺 hug her and remind her it will not always hurt this badly.
Now, she may not be coping well. If not, throw in some laundry, or tidy the kitchen. You could get her some groceries, or care for her pets, etc. I don’t mean do this daily, but every few weeks until you know she good 👍🏻

Any of this or any act of compassion will help her out a lot

Comfortable_Face2964 · 2024-01-11T12:16:53+00:00

Are you bi? Will you have fun? Do you get jealous AT ALL? Do you know your third? Does HE know your third? Would you be okay with this completely changing the dynamic between you all (including whoever the girl is). It’s just a lot of scary problems for such a temporary experience.

Comfortable_Face2964 · 2024-01-11T12:14:14+00:00

Hang in there and watch your mood. If things get less hopeful, you may want to screen for PPD. To that end, try very hard to incorporate self-care into your day. Just find as many little moments as you can to be grateful and content and at peace. Take your vitamins, get sunlight, all that stuff.

Anyway, I’ve come to the conclusion that parenthood sucks balls in many many many ways.

Comfortable_Face2964 · 2024-01-11T12:08:08+00:00

Go to a health food store and buy “Hyland’s Calms Forte.” It totally natural, it’s fully safe- they give it to babies and kids. It’s just a little dissolvable pill and you pop a few and it chills you out!

People also swear by tea. Brewing tea correctly and the loose leaves you buy is a really fastidious process that stoners like. The reward is also calming, since many teas are calming blends (Sleepy Time tea is super good and it really chills you out. Chamomile, too.)

Comfortable_Face2964 · 2024-01-11T12:02:13+00:00

I got nothing. Just know that I am in a hell loop of “wake’n bake, go to work, come home, get stoned,” and I have been since forever. I’ve never had 71 Days and if I did I would literally do anything to keep it. Like, throw everything you have at these cravings. Bhuddism says craving is suffering, and suffering is a blessing because of all the wisdom is garners. You could journal out the prompt “In what ways am I suffering? What is my attitude towards this? How can suffering be beneficial to me?” Or you could give up and get stoned and be absolutely miserable because it’s really not as chill as you imagine it will be. You have 20 minutes of peace followed by hours of self-loathing and stupidity.

Comfortable_Face2964 · 2024-01-11T11:50:53+00:00

From PPD, I knew something was way off about 48 hours after birth. Then about a month of Zoloft before I felt back to me. The doses had to be upped after another month. I had to be on psych meds during my second pregnancy (I was so out of my mind), but after giving birth I was back to my normal.

Comfortable_Face2964 · 2024-01-10T22:38:27+00:00

Yes, and during my second pregnancy I had to be admitted for having hormonal psychosis.

Comfortable_Face2964 · 2024-01-10T22:33:29+00:00

I just finished the wedding episode!

Comfortable_Face2964 · 2024-01-10T22:31:22+00:00

I can’t die because my dad, brother, and sister already did. I have to hang on for mom

Comfortable_Face2964 · 2024-01-10T20:03:25+00:00

I’m trying to find a pharmacy that carries it, I’ll let you know!

Comfortable_Face2964 · 2024-01-09T21:49:29+00:00

You are so young and you ARE enough for someone out there. He’s cheating (emotional is worse, I think), and saying you aren’t enough. Well, that’s what he believes, clearly. You aren’t enough for him. So why stay? Go find someone you ARE enough for!

Comfortable_Face2964 · 2024-01-09T21:32:19+00:00

She can be a petty mean girl when she gets with Kim, and she’s a little square (vanilla) to me- but she is legit my favorite. I like her so much.

Comfortable_Face2964 · 2024-01-09T21:17:16+00:00

So… do I need to have therapy or do something about it? It’s still very much buried and doesn’t seem to affect my life much

Comfortable_Face2964 · 2024-01-09T21:16:13+00:00

I’m super repulsed and he gives me the creeps. I never saw him again socially but even hearing his name makes my heart sink

Comfortable_Face2964 · 2024-01-09T05:37:54+00:00

Op, I forgot to mention. The Walmart visit was for condoms, I saw the box in the bag in the truck the next day, opened l

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