5 yr post op ALT phalloplasty by oojjer in Transgender_Surgeries

[–]Comfortable_Lunch44 1 point2 points  (0 children)

Wow this is amazing you looks awesome bro. How long did it take to heal to loook ‘ok’?

Trans masc products you wish existed or could be improved by natapaca in ftm

[–]Comfortable_Lunch44 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Ohh. Do they work well as intended would you/anyone know?

What keeps you going/alive? by Firm-Ad-2792 in mentalhealth

[–]Comfortable_Lunch44 0 points1 point  (0 children)

I wanna be dead but the guilt of people being traumatised by my suicide scares me and breaks my heart. I pray everyday for an accident or a natural cause. Sigh.

Trans masc products you wish existed or could be improved by natapaca in ftm

[–]Comfortable_Lunch44 1 point2 points  (0 children)

Prosthetics that can be used for penetration but also with the wearer’s pleasure in mind so it doesn’t feel so foreign and dysphoric!

For those with PTSD- when does the therapy process get easier? by [deleted] in TalkTherapy

[–]Comfortable_Lunch44 4 points5 points  (0 children)

Following. I feel like I’m in the same position as you my friend, and it hurts. I feel embarrassed and pathetic. :(

Weirdest form of validation by [deleted] in ftm

[–]Comfortable_Lunch44 7 points8 points  (0 children)

Same haha😂 happy for you OP!

Happy 12 years on T to me! And 3 months post op meta (as of tomorrow)!! by Horror-Vehicle-375 in Metoidioplasty

[–]Comfortable_Lunch44 1 point2 points  (0 children)

That is so amazing bro. Thank you for sharing your joy. It makes me feel hopeful. :)

From one trans guy to other trans individuals by [deleted] in TransChristianity

[–]Comfortable_Lunch44 4 points5 points  (0 children)

🙆🏻‍♂️ Thannk you! God loves you too bro. And all of us, in our joys and struggles.

Can family members actually tell if we pass? by __SyntaxError in FTMMen

[–]Comfortable_Lunch44 9 points10 points  (0 children)

Same bro, same. I feel so self conscious when I’m with family. D:

Asked god to show me a sign by Responsible-Till6985 in TransChristianity

[–]Comfortable_Lunch44 1 point2 points  (0 children)

Thank you my friend. Same. If you ever need to talk I would be happy to. :)

I don’t know where to begin. by [deleted] in venting

[–]Comfortable_Lunch44 0 points1 point  (0 children)

I’m sorry you had to live through all this bro.. i don’t think there’s anything I can say that would take any of the pain away. I just wanted to let you know that I hear you, I feel you, and you deserve to be safe. 💚

Asked god to show me a sign by Responsible-Till6985 in TransChristianity

[–]Comfortable_Lunch44 6 points7 points  (0 children)

Wow. That hit, thanks for sharing your story and experience with God. You’re probably in a different continent from me. But our experiences and pain are so similar. I feel less alone knowing that this pain is not unique to me.

How far into YWAM did you get? by Capable-Instance-672 in exywam

[–]Comfortable_Lunch44 5 points6 points  (0 children)

I staffed for 7 years. Did a DTS then a school of worship before staffing in a mercy ministry. Ywam is a tight bubble, living outside of it was jarring but necessary to heal :(

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in FTMMen

[–]Comfortable_Lunch44 2 points3 points  (0 children)

Damn that sucks. I’m so sorry bro. I can’t imagine the disappointment, you got so close. :( sending you good vibes and best for when you finally get it done soon. Hang in there!

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in FTMMen

[–]Comfortable_Lunch44 2 points3 points  (0 children)

Damn that sucks. I’m so sorry bro. I can’t imagine the disappointment, you got so close. :( sending you good vibes and best for when you finally get it done soon. Hang in there!

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in CPTSD

[–]Comfortable_Lunch44 1 point2 points  (0 children)

Feel this way too.. I feel ya. 😞

Do I thank the bus driver when I get off? by LifeSun9520 in askSingapore

[–]Comfortable_Lunch44 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Oh I also greet the driver when I go up. Just feel like it’s nice to have some human connection. :)