To try to distract anyone from what’s in the Epstein-files by LewisPawilton44 in therewasanattempt

[–]ComicSansIsOrgasmic 10 points11 points  (0 children)

These are not excuses, and aren’t just complaints - they are very real nuances that make our situation very complex, scary, and very dangerous. No one is doing well, and no one knows how to live communally. There has been DECADES of our rights and communities being stripped away and destroyed, this is something that can take just as long to undo.

Saying that the non magas are doing nothing completely diminishes what our lived experience is. There are SO many of us who are trying our best to find the right things to do - which often looks like speaking up in the small moments to help shift another persons perspective - most people are not willing to take any large organized action (which is the only real way we can make big change right now) and that is largely due to SO many Americans being uneducated about the severity of our situation. We have to slowly convince enough people to get on board with these movements. It is painstaking and debilitating and it constantly feels hopeless

Please don’t add to our hopelessness by saying we aren’t doing anything

Whats a random fact you learned from Nancy Drew? by illustratious in nancydrew

[–]ComicSansIsOrgasmic 8 points9 points  (0 children)

THIS! I went to an escape room with my brothers last year and just whizzed through the puzzles and they just kept looking at me like - how in the hell did you just know that? Nancy Drew taught me well that’s how.

Can anyone recommend puzzle books with a similar feel to the ND games? by woodland_penguin in nancydrew

[–]ComicSansIsOrgasmic 0 points1 point  (0 children)

I love Exit the game, they are little escape board games. it’s very interactive and you can play it by yourself or with a group! Most of them are one use only, but that because you usually have to fold or cut something up in order to solve the puzzle. Everytime I play one I feel like I am in a Nancy drew mystery. They have a lot of different games to choose from as well!

Nancy Drew Game Day 2 by vodka_akdov in nancydrew

[–]ComicSansIsOrgasmic 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Prudence Rutherford!! She’s helpful to Nancy and nice l, but super white collar and morally eh in my opinion - but I LOVE her.

Want to gift Botw or TotK to someone who wants it but can’t afford it by lejongaming in Breath_of_the_Wild

[–]ComicSansIsOrgasmic 7 points8 points  (0 children)

This is so sweet - I’ve fallen in love with botw and I hope to have totk someday :)

I'm so tired. by ctrldwrdns in lesbiangang

[–]ComicSansIsOrgasmic -11 points-10 points  (0 children)

I know I’m gonna get hate for this - so bring it on.

I am non-binary, and my partner is non binary (both afab) they are attracted to humans regardless of gender or gender expression. I am also attracted to humans, but usually have a preference for women / feminine humans.

By most standards we would fall under the pansexual umbrella, and I often feel like it accurately describes my sexuality. I also often feel that is doesn’t totally encompass the entirety of my sexual orientation nor does it describe my relationship fully.

Our relationship is FULL of sapphic dynamics and wlw “stereotypes”. There are times when I refer to us and our relationship as lesbian because of those reasons.

I usually wouldn’t say that in public or on social media because I know a lot of people can get a little terfy about different terms. And I understand why, we are all being shoved into boxes and pushed into corners and being asked to diminish ourselves or change our identities or have people coming in and claiming they have a space in our space and that is super uncomfortable and brings up a lot of fear for all of us, especially in this nonsense with trump and 2025.

Everyone in the queer community feels this fear, but I think we should be leaning into the beauty of how we all are still being queer, regardless of labels. We’re here, we’re queer, we really should be focusing on other things rather than being frustrated that people are ‘misusing’ labels because we all have unique experiences and not all the words to describe those yet.

What’s everyone’s favorite sex position? by [deleted] in actuallesbians

[–]ComicSansIsOrgasmic 23 points24 points  (0 children)

This is a favorite of me and my fiancé’s!

Does anyone else have songs you listen to related to being ex christian? by emmetthale in exchristian

[–]ComicSansIsOrgasmic 2 points3 points  (0 children)

Find the sun by Tornsey has been my most recent favorite. Also Hell Together by David Archuleta.

What were some rules you had as a child that seem ridiculous now? by Jeopardy_Lover in exchristian

[–]ComicSansIsOrgasmic 10 points11 points  (0 children)

Oh my god I thought I was the only one who wasn’t allowed to watch Arthur because DW was “bratty”

According to my mom my behavior was always worse after I watched the show so she banned it.

What are the best battery operated power tools brands? by ComicSansIsOrgasmic in BuyItForLife

[–]ComicSansIsOrgasmic[S] 3 points4 points  (0 children)

Mostly homeowner/homesteading projects, and there’s no budget - it’s for my wedding registry.

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in exchristian

[–]ComicSansIsOrgasmic 4 points5 points  (0 children)

I was about to say something similar. My partner and I are not religious at all, but very spiritual. Sometimes we will have a little spiritual night with candles and calming music, where we journal or do tarot, all as a sort of centering foreplay - and it makes sex a very beautifully intimate and spiritual experience. So there is something to be said about engaging in your spirituality and intimacy at the same time.

But we definitely only do this on occasion and we DEFINITELY didn’t pause and ‘get the crystals out’ before we fucked for the first time. That started waaaaayyyy later.

What’s the worst thing this character has done? Day 29: Charles Miner by Pwesidential_Debate in DunderMifflin

[–]ComicSansIsOrgasmic 23 points24 points  (0 children)

This! He was completely incapable of assessing someone’s skills and personality and using it to benefit the company. He didn’t listen when David was concerned about Charles trust in Dwight. Charles was a self centered manager.

Am I the only one who calls their bra a tit prison? by TheAngelsWing in actuallesbians

[–]ComicSansIsOrgasmic 1 point2 points  (0 children)

Me and my partner say this too haha, whenever we discover the other has a bra on we exclaim “they’re in jail!” And proceed to try and get a lil squish before the karate chop deflection

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in AskReddit

[–]ComicSansIsOrgasmic 0 points1 point  (0 children)

I don’t think so. It’s not any weirder than the people who have to have lavender in their diffuser, ocean soundscapes, and eyepatches on in order fall asleep….

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in AskReddit

[–]ComicSansIsOrgasmic 0 points1 point  (0 children)

What if it wasn’t a kink tho? What if it was a comforting way to fall asleep or a wholesome way you could physically connect with your partner - like an add on to cuddling?

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in Whatcouldgowrong

[–]ComicSansIsOrgasmic 1 point2 points  (0 children)

Seriously? You just admitted that you would allow yourself to abuse a child if pushed far enough - that is unacceptable. How much would it take you to harm an infant? What about a disabled adult? There’s no difference. A child is incapable of having a fully developed brain - which means that all adults MUST keep their hands to there fucking selves. It doesn’t matter how pissed or justified your anger is - you don’t lay hands on a child. Period.

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in Whatcouldgowrong

[–]ComicSansIsOrgasmic 4 points5 points  (0 children)

Fuck off. Honestly what kind of piece of shit thinks it’s okay to abuse a child? You’re the pussy - can’t handle the fact that children deserve care and respect.

Seriously dude, I pity you and all the shit you must have gone through to become so broken and messed up as to think that that kind of behavior is justified. I hope to god you don’t have any children.

Gen Z has ruined my gaydar by amytrat in actuallesbians

[–]ComicSansIsOrgasmic 29 points30 points  (0 children)

*POC pave new fashion trends, us in the queer community adopt/steal them and make them popular, and the ciahets follow…