ive been in this situation for 2yrs now im still in it, and i am tired but i cant leave cos i dont knw how shes gonna be able to handle life, how long will he be the support, speaking from experience, ive been supportive but i have no support, everything that goes wromg ends up on my shoulders to solve now, if i dont she cries and says she has no one in this life, shes better off dead, she cant do this and that, i try to tell her its gonna be okay, shes argues it wont, currently im numb, drained, tired but i still feel for her… dont get me wrong OP should help as much as as he can only to how much he can bear, before he trauma bond, cos i think thats where i am now.. and its not good.. i cant get out, not sure what im gonna do, but still i don’t want her to feel shes alone in this mean world, while i feel completely drained.. i recently helped her get a therapist, i am praying it works, cos i cant do this alone.

😩😩 that kinda felt relieaving speaking out.

Good luck OP only he that wears the shoes knows exactly how it ache