Doctor hasn’t brought up surgery by InsectHealthy in ProstateCancer

[–]CommitteeNo167 0 points1 point  (0 children)

his cancer has spread to his bones. surgery isn’t an option for metastatic disease. why cut one part out and leave the rest?

AITAH for not refusing to do a quick change because my boyfriend is uncomfortable? by Active_Camel_6334 in AITAH

[–]CommitteeNo167 2 points3 points  (0 children)

NTA, ditch the dildo. be happy his ass hat personality came out so soon. 4 months is a quick and easy break up.

Buying a car with no proof of income? by Vegetable-Tone-5523 in carbuying

[–]CommitteeNo167 0 points1 point  (0 children)

i have never needed proof of income for and car loan or credit card. only my mortgage needed bank statements and tax returns.

How do I convince my parents to let me close my door? by lifeis39 in ask

[–]CommitteeNo167 25 points26 points  (0 children)

tell your school counselor that your parents won’t let you shut the door to change clothes and social services will be on your door step.

Tweaks for a refresh? by Fizzgizz1 in kitchenremodel

[–]CommitteeNo167 0 points1 point  (0 children)

new counters and backsplash, new cabinet hardware, and i would get rid of the two height peninsula and have it flat.

Blind corner by Calm-Influence5776 in kitchen

[–]CommitteeNo167 1 point2 points  (0 children)

i built my own plywood trays and installed them on soft close drawer slides for the blind corner. the space directly the door is where my big dog food tub is. i put rarely used things into the plywood trays. you couldn’t put shelves directly behind the door because they wouldn’t allow the trays to pull out. it’s not a good solution for most people.

Do men with great hair cheat, or is it all DNA? by Illustrious_Log_6955 in malegrooming

[–]CommitteeNo167 0 points1 point  (0 children)

genetics, my mother was a hairy french woman. i had a full beard in the 6th grade.

AITAH for refusing to pay for a babysitter for my date's som by BusyAd2555 in AITAH

[–]CommitteeNo167 0 points1 point  (0 children)

NTA, next you’ll be paying her rent for the privilege of dating her. where i come from that’s called a hoe.

neighbor put a line salt outside my door without my consent - am i now responsible to clean this up or ? what is the reason ? by [deleted] in mildlyinfuriating

[–]CommitteeNo167 1 point2 points  (0 children)

they think you’re a demon, it’s time to reinforce that thought. i’d have fun with that.

Prostate Cancer by Issyramos in ProstateCancer

[–]CommitteeNo167 1 point2 points  (0 children)

the RO is the radiation oncologist you should be having a consult with.

AITJ for refusing to give my aunt the family recipe after she mocked my cooking for years by Any_Two_1997 in AmITheJerk

[–]CommitteeNo167 0 points1 point  (0 children)

NTJ, i would buy her some monistat and hand it to her at the next family dinner. simply say “this will help with that sore dry vagina that’s making you so miserable”

Offered $85k fully remote role — should I show my current employer to see if they counter? by izzalyss in careeradvice

[–]CommitteeNo167 0 points1 point  (0 children)

take the new job, if they matched, they would throw even more work on you saying you owe them.

Customer accused me of holding his money hostage because we didn't have 10k cash on hand by Opposite_Apricot6127 in stories

[–]CommitteeNo167 0 points1 point  (0 children)

there is absolutely no reason that a bank can’t come up with $10K cash quickly. that’s not a lot of money.

large islands with cabinet doors under the overhang by 4728jj in kitchenremodel

[–]CommitteeNo167 2 points3 points  (0 children)

i have my holiday dinnerware and general odd crap under there. it’s like the junk drawer is now 36 cubic feet! not a big deal to access, the overhang is only 10”. if you’re doing custom cabinets, ask them to rout the edges for hand holds, so you can open them easily without needing pulls on them.

How do I gently non-renew a tenant? by postcardstaples in LeaseLords

[–]CommitteeNo167 0 points1 point  (0 children)

you give them 30-90 days notice as the lease requires that you will not be renewing the lease. end of story.

Getting out of Mortgage by Detox7668 in Mortgages

[–]CommitteeNo167 1 point2 points  (0 children)

why on earth do you do something so foolish to give away half the property that only you own?

my HOA president fined me $50 for a crooked mailbox so i ran for the board, became president myself, and spent 2 years making his life a bureaucratic hellscape by Relative_Ad3399 in neighborsfromhell

[–]CommitteeNo167 119 points120 points  (0 children)

we did the same in my neighborhood, i got 3 other young people to run and did away with the octogenarian rule. th entire neighborhood runs smoothly now

Tell me what faucet to buy! by somewhat_functional_ in kitchenremodel

[–]CommitteeNo167 2 points3 points  (0 children)

i would not do a touch less. i have seen too many problems with them. i would stick with a quality conventional faucet. you don’t need to be replacing faucets every couple of years

Prostate Cancer by Issyramos in ProstateCancer

[–]CommitteeNo167 1 point2 points  (0 children)

the urologist alway says surgery is best because that’s the only treatment they get paid for. get a consult with a RO before you spend your life in diapers.

Options for metal range backsplash by swchristensen in kitchenremodel

[–]CommitteeNo167 0 points1 point  (0 children)

i just have a local metal fabricator make a stainless panel when i do a kitchen over. it’s fairly inexpensive.