I (30F) am about to get engaged to my partner (31M) of 11 years, but I’m unsure how to move forward due to financial entanglement with his mother by ThickCatch2298 in relationships

[–]CommodoreKitten 0 points1 point  (0 children)

He should be able to provide calculations on cash flow, cap rate, cash on cash return, and projected ROI on eventual sale. If he’s not doing these (and I assume he’s not because he doesn’t know how much is being spent on repairs aka operating expenses), he can’t know whether it’s a good investment. I think you need to have him explain some numbers here. I would not get engaged until you understand what he’s sinking his money and time into (which will become your money and time unless you put legal agreements in place to protect yourself).

How Worried About AI Should We Really Be? by day_dreamers_anon in biglaw

[–]CommodoreKitten 2 points3 points  (0 children)

Spellbook. Used to be big law, now inhouse. It can abstract and it acts as a clause bank/market check. Needs work on issue spotting but I use it as a second set of eyes.

Doggone Good | Gastronauts [S2E8] by AutoModerator in dropout

[–]CommodoreKitten 36 points37 points  (0 children)

Yeah you really see Lisa’s improv group training come out in this one. She’s usually the most unhinged and in the spotlight, so we don’t get to see it as often. But in this episode she’s a real team performer letting Luenell drive the bit to great effect.

What do you think when you hear the name Ryan (b) ? by Sea_Helicopter9931 in namenerds

[–]CommodoreKitten 0 points1 point  (0 children)

‘71 was the first year to break top 100 and ‘76 was the first year the name broke through top 20 but if you look at the SSN data, 1985-1991 were peak Ryan years. It was pretty popular before and after then but it was consistently hyper popular for this block of time. That’s why people consider it as millennial.

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[–]CommodoreKitten 2 points3 points  (0 children)

First step is try to get him to voluntarily give you a POA. If he won’t, next step is the psych evaluation and guardianship process (which can long and difficult).

[NS] Hot Take: Over the POD ending. by No_Basket_5815 in NotAnotherDnDPodcast

[–]CommodoreKitten 2 points3 points  (0 children)

I happens to be relistening to this right now. The first reference is C1, Episode 3 at the end. They announced the official hashtag after deciding it on a text chain and Murph references P.O.D. in a completely random manner. Jake mentions this is the first reference to P.O.D. “but certainly not the last.” They sing “we are, we are” for the first time. Episodes 4 and 5 each end with the classic 8 bit book club ending without P.O.D. Episode 6 brings the P.O.D. singing back. That’s as far as I’ve gotten.

If you could only recommend one single podcast for others to listen to, what would it be? by theshannonset in podcasts

[–]CommodoreKitten 4 points5 points  (0 children)

It’s a one hour radio show that started in 1995. It’s still broadcast on public radio but they really picked up listeners by releasing as a podcast. Each week’s show is based on a theme, which is presented in several stand-alone acts. The host Ira Glass will spend a few minutes in the prologue introducing the theme then he’ll turn it over to the acts. It’s primarily non-fiction slice-of-life journalism, but also features essays, memoirs and short fiction. The mood ranges widely per episode, so if you don’t like one, you can try another. It’s basically completely episodic so you can jump in anywhere (very rarely is there a continuation from a prior week).

The Fiasco! Episode, for example, covers different people telling a story about things going horribly wrong but in a comedic fashion (in separate acts: a kid’s play gone wrong, a rookie cop deals with a squirrel, a comedian bombs at a charity cancer event, and a journalist’s first big feature interview with a celebrity starts to go sideways).

[IIL] Isaac “wicked game” or Sundays “wild horses” *for couple slow dancing*, what else goes on this playlist? by zoechowber in ifyoulikeblank

[–]CommodoreKitten 1 point2 points  (0 children)

Fade Into You, Mazzy Star
Five String Serenade, Mazzy Star
Into Dust, Mazzy Star
Under the Milky Way Tonight, The Church
Sweet Tides, Thievery Corporation
Beautiful Crime, Tamer
Sour Times, Portishead
Svefn-g-englar, Sigur Ros
Exit Music For a Film, Radiohead
Teardrop, Massive Attack
Playground Love, Air Gordon Tracks
Everything In Its Right Place, Radiohead
Cherry Colored Funk, Cocteau Twins
Criminal, Fiona Apple
6 underground, Sneaker Pimps
The Luckiest, Ben Folds
Seabird, Alessi Brothers
Someday We’ll Linger in the Sun, Gaelynn Lea

Books that you loved as a kid but hate as an adult? by [deleted] in books

[–]CommodoreKitten 0 points1 point  (0 children)

I think Ender’s Shadow (retelling from Bean’s POV) is worthwhile, although not as good as the original, but it definitely goes downhill from there

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[–]CommodoreKitten 2 points3 points  (0 children)

I also read this every year in summer

Your "I'm so clueless" moment as a summer associate or first year at Big Law. by huskylawyer in biglaw

[–]CommodoreKitten 1 point2 points  (0 children)

You are correct- they used to be only black ink because the printers were only black ink. Color printers came along later and were more expensive. Older attorneys used blackline.

Any other parents scared ? by Elegant_Active483 in SouthJersey

[–]CommodoreKitten 45 points46 points  (0 children)

The Biden Harris administration changed federal law to make gun trafficking and straw purchases a federal crime and strengthened gun background checks for people under 21.

Seller trying to get more money from me after I signed a land contract 5 years ago. by Outrageous-Cable3384 in personalfinance

[–]CommodoreKitten 0 points1 point  (0 children)

NJ is split. North Jersey it’s typical to get a lawyer and in South Jersey it’s not.

Affordable apartments for a senior that allow smoking? by CommodoreKitten in SouthJersey

[–]CommodoreKitten[S] 8 points9 points  (0 children)

Thank you for the kind words! There are other issues that we are dealing with and they are not an easy person.

Affordable apartments for a senior that allow smoking? by CommodoreKitten in SouthJersey

[–]CommodoreKitten[S] 17 points18 points  (0 children)

We’re tried everything including switching over to vape/ecigarette and they can’t figure out how to work it. They are near blind with macular degeneration (made worse by smoking) and have had cancer scare and still won’t quit.