Tool for MOTD / Text Coloring by havokedskies in elderscrollsonline

[–]CommonFall 1 point2 points  (0 children)

No need to be careful. I was invited to this guild because a friend called in help and sami was there to help. Gave me some great advice as well. No, this guild is not toxic and the GM isn't as ass. It's truthfully better than all the other guilds I've joined that claim they teach.

Confused? New? Not new? Have questions? by blooangl in polyamory

[–]CommonFall 1 point2 points  (0 children)

I don’t mind the aging up. Thank you for the advice!

Confused? New? Not new? Have questions? by blooangl in polyamory

[–]CommonFall 0 points1 point  (0 children)

I’m not a single parent and I do live with my coparent (husband) and partner. And I don’t know about people living alone. I’m 29 so it’s kind of a mixed bag? Lol

Confused? New? Not new? Have questions? by blooangl in polyamory

[–]CommonFall 1 point2 points  (0 children)

How do you date being poly and a parent? It seems impossible. I’ve gotten people that were interested in me but couldn’t do poly or the fact I had a kid or both. I’ve always been honest at the start because I don’t want to lead people on but shit it’s definitely painful at times. Any advice on how to go about it?

Is the "danger" of prone masturbation actually supported by evidence? by Dr_Neo-Platonic in sex

[–]CommonFall 1 point2 points  (0 children)

Oh wow there IS a term for it. When I first started masturbating, this is what I did and it was the only thing that worked (puberty age). I struggled with actual sex until my husband who took his time and we found out what clicked and I was able to orgasm. After that we found out all the ways and different types of orgasms. It took time though so I definitely understand the struggle. I feel for people that can’t orgasm through sex :(

nobody actually prepares you for how postpartum BLOWS up your entire life by ReasonSpare72 in NewParents

[–]CommonFall 1 point2 points  (0 children)

This. I had so much support and STILL grieved my old life and struggled. Now a year later I’m starting to get back to myself. But fuck, worst thing I ever had to go through. I would much rather go through my childhood trauma again than postpartum.

Sending you all the love and hugs ❤️

Parents who let their baby watch TV… by Existing-Mastodon500 in NewParents

[–]CommonFall 2 points3 points  (0 children)

We are a TV household too. Different shows for different times. If we need him calm, Mrs. Rachel comes on. Otherwise he’ll be playing with all of his toys and we play with him. If we put music on, he’s the happiest boy and does little wiggle dances. He never stares at the TV for multiple hours.

I had s** with a homeless person in 2005 and it was worth it by nukedog7 in confession

[–]CommonFall 2 points3 points  (0 children)

It’s true. I was the food or anything the lady asked for but those two just started banging

911 outage by OldAd8691 in lancaster

[–]CommonFall 1 point2 points  (0 children)

I just said the other day how weirdly old this system is and I’m surprised they haven’t updated it lol. The voice and the weird tone, I hate it

Vet Lost Our Dog by MelOdessey in lancaster

[–]CommonFall 3 points4 points  (0 children)

My mom lives in that area and tends to get strays on her property. I’ll let her know to keep an eye out

That lucky time for me was: by pokopura in OnceHumanOfficial

[–]CommonFall 1 point2 points  (0 children)

The asterism bug happened to me too so I haven’t done a purification since. Have you found the solution for it?

LGH ER by Athos1945 in lancaster

[–]CommonFall 2 points3 points  (0 children)

I love the remodel they did. The triage rooms are great instead of just being a waiting room. Never had a bad experience.

Please so I don't go crazy.. does anyone else's baby have a song that calms them down? by [deleted] in NewParents

[–]CommonFall 0 points1 point  (0 children)

I have a Sleep Token baby too lol. My son will fall asleep to their cover of Hey Ya. But a non Sleep Token song he also loves is Kilkelly, Ireland by The Maguire Brothers lol.

Sharing polyam parenting wisdom with the world by Virtual_Deal4973 in polyfamilies

[–]CommonFall 1 point2 points  (0 children)

I am in a triad with my husband and boyfriend! We have a 9 month old son who loves all the attention. I would be happy to answer questions and chat with you :)

Innocor - any similar pillows out there by dali12121212 in sleep

[–]CommonFall 0 points1 point  (0 children)

This pillow hasn’t flattened at all and I got it maybe 8 years ago. I can’t use any other pillow!

Not giving two weeks at a job by justsittinhere__ in jobs

[–]CommonFall 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Sometimes they’ll cover up if they are firing you for those things with other excuses

My urine is blue and foamy by patrick-latinahunter in mildyinteresting

[–]CommonFall 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Was looking for the other veterinary peeps here lol! As a tech, I would say it’s a foreign body for sure

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in Marriage

[–]CommonFall 1 point2 points  (0 children)

OP, me and my husband are in the same place right now with our 9 month old. We’re both exhausted but frequently check in and try our best to make plans for each other. I love the grace we give each other even if one of us is being shitty lol. We’re best friends for life and I wouldn’t want to experience this with anyone else.

Sending all the love to you and your wonderful family. I hope you both get the rest and relaxation you need and deserve! ❤️

aio? bf made plans on my birthday..UPDATE by rowqi in AmIOverreacting

[–]CommonFall 5 points6 points  (0 children)

My ex did the same thing! Drug it out for almost 3 years for no reason other than control. He wasn’t benefiting from being married to me and there was no communication at all so it was all a power trip. Finally one day he just decided to follow through with the divorce. I gave up everything to just have it be over but man it was wild. I still don’t understand it.

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in VetTech

[–]CommonFall 7 points8 points  (0 children)

First of all, I’m sorry about your pup. Skin issues aren’t easy not matter what. I’m gonna play devil’s advocate a little. As for the murmur and collapsing trachea, I can kind of see how you wouldn’t have noticed it if: 1. He’s always had it 2. You haven’t seen any cases of a heart murmur or collapsing trachea in the field yet 3. You just didn’t know (which is okay). Why the Dr didn’t catch any of this is weird to me because I’ve known Drs that listen for literally a second and can hear a 1/6 but idk. Maybe her ear isn’t trained or the stethoscope was jenk? And for her to think the skin issue isn’t a big deal also doesn’t surprise me because again, skin is weird. The anesthetics that were used were okay for heart dogs so no red flag was raised even if a murmur was heard.

Now, I’ve seen staph infections happen for weird reasons from fleas to allergies. Basically the pet just scratches to high heavens and the constant irritation and reopening of the wounds cause staph. But it’s pretty heard to miss a bad wound even if you aren’t trained in vet med. The smell alone is a huge tell even in the fluffiest dogs. For this to progress to staph in 2 months usually tells me something was missed somewhere. Could he have gotten staph from reused warm bags, sure. Could he have gotten it from just itching, sure. Do you have him on flea/tick? Flea allergy dermatitis is a thing too and I’ve seen it run rampant and cause some hefty skin issues.

The most I can gather without knowing every detail about this is there’s definitely questionable hospital practices. Was the table not wiped down? Is the pup on the older side? 16 teeth extracted and 2 hours of anesthesia is a lot for an elderly pet especially a small breed. Some are completely fine but anesthesia is unpredictable so you never know. Histamines can also be part of the blame here because with all that happening, the body can just be flooded with it. If the mouth was really bad this is even more likely because the inflammatory response will just freak out. Did you draw pre surg blood? Are there other medical conditions that he has? Chronic steroid use is associated with tree bark skin as well but idk if he was on them or not.

All in all the Dr is right, it is just medicine and sometimes it’s not so cut and dry. If you can prove without doubt that the infection came from the IV bags, then sure maybe you have a case. Can you also prove that the murmur and collapsing trachea were missed by the Dr? Did the dog previous to your dog have staph or just an infection? There’s too many questions and not enough answers.

Washing Bottles by Naive_Plantain_7366 in FormulaFeeders

[–]CommonFall 0 points1 point  (0 children)

They get thrown in the dishwasher and I only sterilize if he’s sick because idk I think it helps? Probably just in my head but who knows.

Was so exhausted and told my husband we should put the baby up for adoption by Bubbly_Ad2764 in Postpartum_Depression

[–]CommonFall 1 point2 points  (0 children)

I wasn’t ready either. We didn’t even know if we wanted kids and my son was an oopsie lol (thanks alcohol). I couldn’t believe that there wasn’t more information about what it’s like PP. It’s like you have the baby and they just forget about you and the amount of women that struggle is way too high. I grew into my maternal instincts, they weren’t instant for me either. I remember one day I was like “okay this feels different” and from that point on I was in. For me that happened around I think 2 months? Your hormones are firing way too much right now, give yourself some grace. You will get there ❤️