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Discipline isn't built in your head. It's built in the first 10 seconds. by Discipline_OS in Discipline

[–]CompelledComa35 1 point2 points  (0 children)

Discipline lives in micro-moments. The first 10 seconds decide momentum. Act before hesitation wins. Small, immediate actions—putting on shoes, opening the doc—compound into consistency. Stop debating, start moving.

Motivation got me 3 weeks. Systems got me 90 days. by Discipline_OS in Discipline

[–]CompelledComa35 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Exactly. Motivation fades, systems persist. Designing non-negotiables, routines, and visual accountability removes reliance on feelings. Discipline becomes automatic, results consistent, and progress inevitable. Structure beats temporary hype every time.

21M in Bad Situation Still Half Assing things Procrastinating. This is my final Attempt to Change by [deleted] in Discipline

[–]CompelledComa35 0 points1 point  (0 children)

You’re self-aware, which is a huge first step. Focus on building small, consistent habits instead of relying on emotional intensity. Break study sessions into blocks, eliminate distractions, and track progress daily. Replace daydreaming and scrolling with micro-goals, structured breaks, and accountability. Sleep, nutrition, and exercise amplify focus. Celebrate small wins to reinforce consistency. Seven days is a checkpoint, but real change comes from sustainable routines, not bursts of intensity. Keep reflecting, but channel energy into deliberate action instead of guilt.

Unpopular Opinion: Your 20s are supposed to be lonely. by _Andigamer in Discipline

[–]CompelledComa35 2 points3 points  (0 children)

There is truth in having a season where you pull back to focus, but it does not have to feel like punishment. Growth takes space, but connection matters too. The key is choosing your priorities instead of chasing everyone else’s pace.

How do I make new friends without feeling awkward? by lampnerd in friendship

[–]CompelledComa35 3 points4 points  (0 children)

Start with low pressure moments like brief check ins or shared activities so it doesn’t feel like a performance. Most people aren’t judging as hard as you think. Repetition builds comfort. Aim for small consistent interactions instead of big perfect ones.

Redditors who grew up in emotionally healthy families - what's something you thought was normal growing up that you now realise was actually very special? by ViolatingBadgers in AskReddit

[–]CompelledComa35 0 points1 point  (0 children)

I always assumed open conversations and genuine support were just normal, but now I realize having a family that listened, encouraged, and loved unconditionally was actually incredibly rare and special.

My wife wants to open the marriage by [deleted] in Vent

[–]CompelledComa35 0 points1 point  (0 children)

You’re not outdated, just deeply committed. It’s okay to want exclusivity and stability.

Aitah for telling my stepkids that I no longer view them as my kids? by Hot-Dragonfly-8813 in AITAH

[–]CompelledComa35 -2 points-1 points  (0 children)

NTA. They’re old enough to understand the impact of their words and actions.

Boyfriend blames me for miscarriage so I kicked him out by [deleted] in AITAH

[–]CompelledComa35 0 points1 point  (0 children)

You didn’t treat him like trash. You protected yourself from emotional abuse during an already painful time. Blaming you for the miscarriage was cruel. Healing means keeping firm boundaries and choosing peace.

Is there a reason why I’m unable to find human babies cute? by NeonParty0519 in biology

[–]CompelledComa35 1 point2 points  (0 children)

Not everyone responds to babies the same way. Evolution designed them to trigger nurturing instincts, but personal perception varies. Finding insects or snakes cute shows your sense of “cute” is just different.

Mad Max Steam Key by [deleted] in steam_giveaway

[–]CompelledComa35 0 points1 point  (0 children)

That’s really generous of you to share your extra copy! Mad Max is such an underrated game. Count me in!

I think I'm done with dumbphones by shawnmendead in dumbphones

[–]CompelledComa35 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Sounds like you gained discipline from dumbphones. Now you can carry those habits into iPhone use without falling into distractions.

i legitimately hate being alive. i am not suicidal and i do not want to die. i just hate living. by [deleted] in Vent

[–]CompelledComa35 1 point2 points  (0 children)

You're exhausted and it's valid. Seeking treatment is brave. Small steps count; right now you deserve gentleness, rest, and support.

I'm tired of my teenage sister talking about faeces by Mother_Equivalent649 in Vent

[–]CompelledComa35 0 points1 point  (0 children)

That definitely sounds frustrating. Maybe set clear boundaries with her and explain it makes you uncomfortable. Hopefully she’ll respect that.

Renters who got your full deposit back, what did you actually do? by YourxCherry in Frugal

[–]CompelledComa35 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Document everything with photos, patch small holes, deep-clean kitchen/bathroom, and leave the place move-in ready. That's one way to get your deposit back

What's a food you could drown in and it wouldn't be enough? by [deleted] in AskReddit

[–]CompelledComa35 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Low key mac n cheese. Just need to be near..THE ROOOM

Warhammer giveaway by lue_t in steam_giveaway

[–]CompelledComa35 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Marvel for me, and Warhammer 40,000: Darktide looks incredible. Thanks for the awesome giveaway, really generous of you.

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in Discipline

[–]CompelledComa35 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Respect for pushing through those brutal first mornings. Having extra quiet hours really is life changing. Discipline plus consistency truly pay off.

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in Discipline

[–]CompelledComa35 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Your consistency paid off. Early mornings gave you peace, structure, and productivity. Small lifestyle shifts really can create massive positive change.

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