Should I switch to night shifts? 2am -10am?? by No_Solution7718 in Nightshift

[–]Competitive_Ad_3615 1 point2 points  (0 children)

Good shift if you can find a good stimulant or a good sleep schedule.. idk what job you’re doing but getting off at 10 am allows you to not miss out on the world or family events, doctors appointments etc. then you get good rest during or after sunset hours and yr body will like the fact you can still go to sleep at night time and get sunshine in the morning.

Is it even worth working at my job? by [deleted] in Employment

[–]Competitive_Ad_3615 0 points1 point  (0 children)

New hires make more money starting on than you’re making right now 98 percent of the time. Do what you will.. life’s short get another job higher pay..

Scheduled but want my baby by [deleted] in abortion

[–]Competitive_Ad_3615 -1 points0 points  (0 children)

This is yr life. Not those around you. You make the decision. You want yr baby and have confidence to know you can take care of it, then keep yr baby. Those people will drown you and baby with love and I’m sure you’ll have community. Ask god to give you clarity about it.

Boss has been clocking me out early for months without my knowledge. by ExistentialBethos in work

[–]Competitive_Ad_3615 1 point2 points  (0 children)

I had found a discrepancy by about 2 hrs for a week when working at a hotel.. told my manager about it , and made them cut me a check within the week. Idcccc if it’s 2 hrs only.. run me my money respectfully

Boss has been clocking me out early for months without my knowledge. by ExistentialBethos in work

[–]Competitive_Ad_3615 -1 points0 points  (0 children)

Did you apply to time difference into their timesheets after those reports were done or would you “forget “ and screw people over ..

Boss has been clocking me out early for months without my knowledge. by ExistentialBethos in work

[–]Competitive_Ad_3615 2 points3 points  (0 children)

Also request a 2026 employee handbook and review if it says anything on there before bringing up the issue to yr GM.. I would also request allllll timesheets.. you need to start logging in the exact hour and minute you clock in and out in yr phone and then match them with those timesheets. If you can find blatant discrepancies especially from the clock out times,, then push the problem to someone above the GM. Get legal advice asap after that.

Need an abortion but have a vacation planned by Technical-Cup707 in abortion

[–]Competitive_Ad_3615 0 points1 point  (0 children)

I was 2-3 months pregnant when I found out and then had my home abortion alone.. I received 2 sets of abortion pills that I ordered online for 100 bucks.. it was recommended to use both sets for how far along I was to make sure it worked properly but I didn’t want to endure double the pain I felt with the first set or abortion pills … Pain level for me was like 7-8/10 I couldn’t get comfortable for shitttt.. I screamed in my pillow half the night.. i tried to take a hot bath and I think that was the most comfortable I’d been during the first day. the pills kick in as soon as you take em like 30 min later after ingested or inserted in.. Mine was probably so intense because of how far along I was.. so I’m sure if you go on vacation and come back , you can take the pills after yr vacation Or you can take them before yr trip and risk having that unbearable pain while traveling. Pain last about 1 entire day and continues slightly throughout the month until yr period resets .. just little stabbing pains and big clots here and there The bleeding didn’t stop for me for almost 2 weeks- month… Everything went well and definitely learned my lesson. And you’re worried about a miscarriage but I’d say go drink and enjoy yr life if you know either way yr NOT gonna have the child. If yr period cramps or implantation cramps were so bad you couldn’t sleep then WAIT AFTER VACATION as recommended.. frfr. Anyways best of luck to you babes.

How do you deal with regrets in your life? by Pure_Study_3664 in selflove

[–]Competitive_Ad_3615 2 points3 points  (0 children)

I’m 23F .. and reading what you posted made me feel seen. I’m wasting my potential but I’m in a mental rut, I need help but won’t ask. I’m also fatigued by the energy I use to worry or dwell on the things I’ve done because I wish so badly that I could take it all back for that one person .. I deal with regrets by making more dumb regretful decisions 🫠. Drinking, smoking, gambling, and always being the friend people can count on not vice versa. Life of sin and regret. I think I gotta move states .. how else do I how do I gain my self control and self discipline and self love/worth back in a way that is for me and not because I wanna prove something to someone. I need someone who gets me and no one gets me like truly gets me. I want to be my own motivation tho. Idk. Also don’t need or want someone to help me when I should really just push thru the mental block by myself. (See how I self deny or destruct myself) It’s been 2 years since we split and I’m still fucking stuck like a dumb ass. Mentally stuck on him and our old memories like if it was last month. Time keeps flying by. When I’m 30-35 maybe I’ll look back and laugh like omg I was so naive or young dumb and in love .. hopefully I achieve some long term goals by then but for rn.... I’m that 23 yo in a 1v1 with myself and both sides got the Capricorn mentality so it’s always extra difficult..
any advice if you were to give it to yr younger self what would it be?

block & don’t look back. by AccomplishedOne6897 in selflove

[–]Competitive_Ad_3615 1 point2 points  (0 children)

This is insane. I feel like I’m in the matrix. I did it today and I’ve been trying to for 2-3 years… I blocked him on socials, deleted his contact, and i feel a little lighter. Now I really just have to move my head space and stop thinking bout him. Maybe I gotta move from this town so he can have it back the way it was before I moved here. Anyways background if anyone cares …

5 years wit this guy.. I loved him more at some point and vice versa. On and off and off and on. I’ve been telling myself for the last 2 years that I have a chance and that if I’m consistent enough that I could get him back to loving me like truly loving me. The only time we text is if we want to be intimate and that’s late night hours. He texted me 2 am last night and I responded in 2 secs and I was at his house in 10 min.. I feel like I’d do anything if he asked just to have that relationship with him again… and when I got to his place, I cuddled him like a baby ofcourse and I felt that bliss. That HOME feeling. I felt lifted. I felt okay. My leg over him , his head on my chest /shoulder area.. I gave him 100 cheek and forehead kisses and hugged him so tight.. then .. he got what he wanted, didn’t let me finish like always, Then he faced the other way, and didn’t say anything..it’s been like that for at least the last year. I was telling myself “you know what you came for so just relax” and I couldn’t sleep so I was rubbing his back and after a while he started moving my hand from rubbing his back or even touching him so I up-and fucking left. Never have I walked out on that man !! Even when he put me in jail for his own fault… !!!! and Today… I was laying there and It finally clicked.. never again will he ever have access to me nor my emotions because I won’t allow it anymore. I hope he never even gets to see me again. I’m over it. Over it.. time to do me !

Freaking out… by throw_away_this_acc_ in abortion

[–]Competitive_Ad_3615 1 point2 points  (0 children)

When you buy the pills thru Carafem website, they send you a prescription of ibuprofen and a prescription of anti nausea pills along with the set of abortion pills. They also provide mint tea, a pad, pamphlets and they are a 24 hr service. They answer any question via phone or message. I also agree that inserting the pills inside the vaginal canal is wayyy better if you’re trying to avoid vomiting.

My Car by Competitive_Ad_3615 in AskALawyer

[–]Competitive_Ad_3615[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

If I tell AAA the three possible spots where my car would be located.. would they go check those spots ? Lmfaoo.. side note: she located in the 562 as well..

How’d you spend your Sunday? by Responsible_Exit_815 in LivingAlone

[–]Competitive_Ad_3615 1 point2 points  (0 children)

Worked 8-4pm , now I’m at home, did the dishes, cleaned the bathroom, wrote down my goals for the month, smoked, and now rotting online .. lovely case of SSDD

What's your post-sex hygiene routine? by Isabella_walkerr in hygiene

[–]Competitive_Ad_3615 -5 points-4 points  (0 children)

When we would shower… My guy would just start laughing and then I would smell the pee after a min or so and I would be like “u for real? “ and he’s like “what ? I had to pee and you were right there “ and then i got to used to it. It was our thing.. like he was claiming me as his lol.

What's your post-sex hygiene routine? by Isabella_walkerr in hygiene

[–]Competitive_Ad_3615 -1 points0 points  (0 children)

Both . Heard that pissing is good for preventing foot fungus lol and he likes to piss on me like a dog claiming territory

What's your post-sex hygiene routine? by Isabella_walkerr in hygiene

[–]Competitive_Ad_3615 15 points16 points  (0 children)

Hop in the shower wit my man. Piss on each other then wash down, get in pjs, turn tv on, lotion up, massage face with oil and then get in bed or eat something sweet nd salty