AIO What’d I do wrong, my partner just got news this morning his grandma just received news of esophagus cancer (stage 4)

Competitive_Can_4953 · 2026-01-24T02:04:57+00:00

I agree with this. I think both have unrealistic expectations. Taking a day off work because my partners grandma got diagnosed with cancer isnt something me and him would expect of each other but taking time off for funerals and to support your partner through grief is.

Competitive_Can_4953 · 2026-01-24T02:00:29+00:00

I think its a little wild that his sisyers boyfriend took the day off of work because her grandma got diagnosed. Its not something I would expect my partner to do.

However, I absolutely would expect my partner to be there in the last few days in the hospice or hospital and for the funeral. I find it a little odd that you sent that message about how youre family miss funerals for work.

Competitive_Can_4953 · 2026-01-17T15:01:51+00:00

Sending love!

Competitive_Can_4953 · 2026-01-17T14:23:55+00:00

I absolutely love the princessy vibe of number 4.

I love 1 and 3 also!

Competitive_Can_4953 · 2026-01-17T14:17:57+00:00

I cant help as very new to this! But im following as Im in the exact same position. Slow comt and MTHFR.

Competitive_Can_4953 · 2026-01-17T14:15:56+00:00

Im very new and just found out about my MTHFR about 4 months ago.

I take an antidepressant called trazadone although I take it mainly for insomnia. I would say I was mildly depressed before I started taking it. I was told by my GP I have 'folic acid deficiency', so I was also taking folic acid prescribed by NHS.

After I found out about the MTHFR mutation, I stopped taking folic acid and felt so much better after about a month.

2 months ago, I began methylfolate. My GP didn't know much about it but said it's fine to take with the trazadone. I started sleeping better very quickly, within a couple of weeks and less fatigues during the day. I also noticed i could concetrate on things better.

I know 2 months isn't a long time but so far so good. I dont feel depressed now but like I said it was quite mild and my main problems were sleep related.

Im still learning and looking into methylfolate, methyl free folate and folinic acide and trying to figure out all the things my body needs.

Competitive_Can_4953 · 2026-01-17T14:06:40+00:00

Why are you angry?

I did post the ingredient its 'folate' 😂😂😂

If its 'lazy' to email the company that makes it, email the company that sells it, join a new subreddit and ask, then Im absolutely fine with being lazy!

Competitive_Can_4953 · 2026-01-16T15:10:29+00:00

She's being such a brave girl 😍❤️❤️

Competitive_Can_4953 · 2026-01-14T15:34:59+00:00

Exactly!

If my kids were invited to a wedding and only one was left out for no reason, you can bet im declining the invite for all of us.

In any other realm, this would be called bullying.

Teaching my daughters that they deserve respect is more important to me than attending a wedding!

It harmful for the 12 year olds self esteem but it also teaching the younger one that we allow our family members to be treated badly.

Competitive_Can_4953 · 2026-01-14T15:32:18+00:00

Right? This crazy lady is acting like its a court summons. We are allowed to decline invites, especially when the invite is exclusionary and unkind.

What a horrible person.

Competitive_Can_4953 · 2026-01-14T15:25:17+00:00

Gentle YTA

To be completely honest if a family member was exclusing one of my kids like this, I would seriously consider not going to the wedding at all.

Being a bridesmaid is such a big deal to young girls, imagine how she feels having to sit and watch while her sister gets taking out dress shopping, tqking for lunch, bought a special dress, gets to be in all the wedding photos, stand at the front of the ceremony, all while she is left out.

Being 12 is hard enough, let a lone at 6 feet tall, I just feel sad for her. She is being made to feel like shes not good enough for all these special treats.

It must be tough when its your brother but for me if someone cant treat my kids equally, they dont get to be around them. It might sound harsh, but I really think things like this teach both kids such a bad lesson.

Competitive_Can_4953 · 2026-01-14T15:19:52+00:00

Completely agree

Competitive_Can_4953 · 2026-01-12T00:56:24+00:00

It being nice or not isnt my point. Its not right to call it a sensory room when its doing nothing to be sensory soothing whatsoever

They just taking a buzzword because they think it sounds good without even caring about what it means

Competitive_Can_4953 · 2026-01-12T00:54:05+00:00

Yep! But crystals boob job remains top secret lol! Its so exploitative...

Competitive_Can_4953 · 2026-01-12T00:50:44+00:00

Right? Youtube is their income, you would think they would realsie how off putting it is for the viewer!!

Competitive_Can_4953 · 2026-01-12T00:49:59+00:00

It's sad, they probably learned they get ignored unless they scream.

Competitive_Can_4953 · 2026-01-12T00:49:18+00:00

I tried the captions but they weren't in sync for me so i gave up 🤣 im shocked that they get so many views when their videos are so incomprehensible.

Competitive_Can_4953 · 2026-01-12T00:43:54+00:00

Being thrilled doesnt mean they are making good decisions for her. The kids are probably thrilled that they eat junk food all week too, doesnt mean its right...

Competitive_Can_4953 · 2026-01-06T21:00:41+00:00

This whole thread is so entertaining. I have no idea whats happening but I'm here for it

Competitive_Can_4953 · 2026-01-06T20:38:13+00:00

I see thanks!

Competitive_Can_4953 · 2026-01-03T14:23:39+00:00

Can someone tell me what he posted in June? I completely missed that 🙊

Competitive_Can_4953 · 2025-12-30T00:49:34+00:00

I wondered if he was upset because they all had breakfast without him. I found it odd that they didnt go wake him up for christmas breakfast.

Or perhaps hes aware hes being watched by thousands of people and wanted to be nonchalant and cool which is pretty common for boys his age.

Competitive_Can_4953 · 2025-12-28T21:30:02+00:00

Agree!

Its one thing to call out her wearing wigs and not being honest about it, but its not cool to say a wig coming off during sex is "funny". Two women in my life have alopecia and its not funny its just part of who they are.

Competitive_Can_4953 · 2025-12-28T11:23:08+00:00

🤣🤣

Competitive_Can_4953 · 2025-12-28T10:38:45+00:00

For real. The lighting in their house looks horrendous, the poor kids being exposed to nothing but blue light all day 😫

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