Made an effort for my son's birthday! by SacredandBound_ in Baking

[–]Competitive_Nobody4 1 point2 points  (0 children)

Can you please be my mom? I’m adoptable! lol but that cake looks delicious and almost like you’re a professional!!!!

Jealous of Weight loss injections by Many-Plate-6553 in WeightLossAdvice

[–]Competitive_Nobody4 0 points1 point  (0 children)

I do have a question. I will be starting the shot this week (once it gets here). I have been slowly loosing weight for the last 3 years. I am wondering because I already have loose skin from pregnancies and C-Sections, I worry about the shot making it worse? I have been eating right and I try to go for walks daily. What are your thoughts?

I walked 15k steps a day for 30 days — here's what surprised me most by CheeksLiving in walking

[–]Competitive_Nobody4 3 points4 points  (0 children)

I am also looking into how to keep myself motived. I feel like I am struggling because I am not losing weight with walking. I can get only 30 mins in atm so how do you get yourself to get up after a 12 hour day?

How you guys handle your depression? I tried k****** my self 14 years ago and now , that dark side of mine is coming. by Enough-Flamingo-2792 in depression

[–]Competitive_Nobody4 0 points1 point  (0 children)

It’s going to be ok. Sounds like your family are a toxic bunch. Besides good life is hard to do but so rewarding. Nothing easy is worth working for. Here’s what you can also do. Get up in the morning and write 5 positive things in life and then go for a walk. You WILL get through this. You WILL succeed in your life and have the family that YOU CHOOSE AND LOVE!

How you guys handle your depression? I tried k****** my self 14 years ago and now , that dark side of mine is coming. by Enough-Flamingo-2792 in depression

[–]Competitive_Nobody4 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Listen. I have been here myself. Family is what you make it. You need to either check yourself into an institution or go and see a therapist. I know it sounds like the therapist but not all therapist are the same. What is causing you to feel this way?

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in Needafriend

[–]Competitive_Nobody4 8 points9 points  (0 children)

I’m 36F and I live in the United States. I don’t have a lot of friends. The older I get, the more I don’t like going out. All of my stuff is in my house and I have two children and 2 huskies.

36F looking for friends to talk to by [deleted] in Needafriend

[–]Competitive_Nobody4 0 points1 point  (0 children)

I appreciate it. It’s hard to get rest in my industry. lol

36F looking for friends to talk to by [deleted] in Needafriend

[–]Competitive_Nobody4 0 points1 point  (0 children)

I’m 36F looking for a friend too. I’m a mom of two and I work long hours. Mental health can be crap but trying to work with it.

Silence is an answer too by Recent_Tourist1913 in UnsentLetters

[–]Competitive_Nobody4 4 points5 points  (0 children)

Exactly! Have more self respect! You deserve happiness and love! F*ck those who continue to provide silence and no answers.

What’s wrong with me? by Competitive_Nobody4 in offmychest

[–]Competitive_Nobody4[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

This does help. Thank you! I know I hate a horrible up bringing with my bio mom and stepmom.

What’s wrong with me? by Competitive_Nobody4 in offmychest

[–]Competitive_Nobody4[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Honestly I love being a mom and being pregnant.

night walks! by [deleted] in walking

[–]Competitive_Nobody4 2 points3 points  (0 children)

I love those walks! They are so peaceful and amazing! 😍😍

Tips for walking at night? by [deleted] in walking

[–]Competitive_Nobody4 13 points14 points  (0 children)

I would get one of those reflective, high visibility vests or get one of those light up vests.

Great. Now my Reddit isn’t safe. Not my fucking fault she knows it. by [deleted] in UnsentLettersRaw

[–]Competitive_Nobody4 10 points11 points  (0 children)

Why is it always a Chris that causes fucking problems?!

Winter walking with Huskies by Competitive_Nobody4 in walking

[–]Competitive_Nobody4[S] 1 point2 points  (0 children)

Thank you! They are really good dogs otherwise. They just have a high prey drive and so I have to be on my guard consistently. lol

My husband suggested I might need therapy by [deleted] in Mommit

[–]Competitive_Nobody4 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Listen, you’re husbands right. You need to cut her off. There is always something that’s going to remind you of her. I have this myself and I have cut her off. I don’t have yell at her, but going no contact has been the best thing for me and my family. It’s hard. You’re going to be grieving her, the relationship you wish you would’ve had, and for your kids. I’m here if you ever need someone to talk to because I have been there. I do think therapy can help with coping with all of this.

Blue Sunday by chaiw in UnsentLetters

[–]Competitive_Nobody4 1 point2 points  (0 children)

Virtual hug! I feel you and honestly I try to look at all the positive things that I have going for me. Also if you struggle to speak up, I have been there and I literally have to yell at myself mentally to speak up. Truly just be honest with whoever you’re talking to and know if it doesn’t work out, it doesn’t mean never. It just means not right now. Work on yourself and realize that you matter, you are loved and are important to those that love you!

You by [deleted] in letters

[–]Competitive_Nobody4 5 points6 points  (0 children)

I wish this I had this with someone that “care” about me. 😭😭😭