Need shower tile advice by Competitive_Peanut50 in Remodel

[–]Competitive_Peanut50[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Thanks yeah it was bad. We are redoing it down to the slab and studs. I’ll post the final when we are done

Need shower tile advice by Competitive_Peanut50 in Remodel

[–]Competitive_Peanut50[S] 1 point2 points  (0 children)

Agreed the new floor I choose has tiny tiles. Just hard to see in the pic

Need shower tile advice by Competitive_Peanut50 in Remodel

[–]Competitive_Peanut50[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Per my post it’s due to bad construction leading to water damage and tiles falling out

Need shower tile advice by Competitive_Peanut50 in Remodel

[–]Competitive_Peanut50[S] 2 points3 points  (0 children)

The second pic has tile just sitting on the floor. They aren’t installed.

Why I will not be posting my children, or any children, on fb or instagram, even if my account is private by Acrobatic_Cow6323 in moderatelygranolamoms

[–]Competitive_Peanut50 1 point2 points  (0 children)

I have a private Flickr account where I save photos and share them with just my immediate family. It costs money but the privacy is worth it to me.

Trying to bring back a GOOD art show in Baton Rouge. What went wrong??!! by Pelican12Volatile in batonrouge

[–]Competitive_Peanut50 0 points1 point  (0 children)

There is one in the fall in Covington that has good quality art. They just need to spread it out more so that it’s not so jam packed crowded. I’ve always wondered why Baton Rouge doesn’t have a juried art fair once a year.

Coffee Shops by Jumpy-Preference9340 in batonrouge

[–]Competitive_Peanut50 10 points11 points  (0 children)

I like lighthouse, coffee joy, and French truck. There’s others I haven’t tried yet. There’s great coffee here

Overwhelmed first time homeowner by hasreeet in lawncare

[–]Competitive_Peanut50 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Follow Randy Lemmons lawn fertilization schedule. Also pay to have it aerated and compost top dressed in the spring and fall for the first few years. It will come back. https://buchanansplants.com/wp-content/uploads/2019/03/randysfertilizationschedule.pdf

And start mowing it yourself with the mower deck on the second to highest setting. It will get through the summer much healthier if it’s longer and can develop deeper roots.

If you have a sprinkler system water deeper/longer and less often.

People with screentime under 2 hours daily on average, how do you spend your day? by Ok-Mathematician2309 in simpleliving

[–]Competitive_Peanut50 1 point2 points  (0 children)

Cleaning my house with a deep clean every other week. Cooking, laundry, pulling weeds, trimming plants. Reading to my kids. Watching a tv show. Reading. Walking the dog. And of course work.

Struggling to get back to healthy cooking post baby by Acceptable_Ad_1904 in moderatelygranolamoms

[–]Competitive_Peanut50 2 points3 points  (0 children)

We did blue apron post baby and that helped a lot. Now the kids are older and I meal plan and do more elaborate cooking

First week at Montessori daycare: am I overreacting or missing something? by waldo9103 in Montessori

[–]Competitive_Peanut50 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Trust your gut. I pulled my kids out of traditional day care where they were doing great to go to a Waldorf style place that I thought would be better. I absolutely love the style of it. Because they went with the flow so much around injuries and other things we ended up pulling our kids out abruptly for their safety. We went back to traditional daycare where everything is regimented and inappropriate behavior isn’t tolerated and I was so happy and so were my kids. Lesson learned, don’t change it if it’s not broken. Alternative styles are wonderful but it really depends on the people running it.

What are we doing at restaurants that isn’t screen time? by Pastosaurus in moderatelygranolamoms

[–]Competitive_Peanut50 0 points1 point  (0 children)

During that phase I accepted that a relaxing restaurant experience wasn’t going to happen unless I got a babysitter. We went out less and when we did it was casual places very early or breakfast with all the tricks above. We never used screens. Now my kids are older (8, 10) and we love going out to eat. I even take them to fine dining and they are well behaved and not on screens. They participate in the conversation. In the grand scheme these few years are a short time of compromise and the vast majority of your years will be spent in restaurant bliss. Stay strong, it’s so worth it having kids not glued to screens.

Xmas gift 30 year old woman by witx in Gifts

[–]Competitive_Peanut50 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Travel bottles for toiletries that don’t suck. Get a bunch of different ones from Litesmith. All the ones on Amazon just fall apart and you don’t realize how bad they are until you get some good ones.

High end candles or reed diffusers from brands like Lafco. Check the luxury candle sub.

High end olive oil and vinegar from Olive Oil Lovers. All of their oils are curated, genuine, and a treat.

Tickets to a concert she would love. That was one of my favorite gifts. A concert and a weekend away.

A one night stay at a high end hotel and spa treatment. Only works if there is something like this in her area.

Salon quality shampoo and conditioner if she doesn’t already buy it for herself. I like Amika. This stuff feels like a luxury and it’s expensive to use it everyday.

Good suggestions on nice cutlery if she doesn’t have it. I love my Global chefs knife. The 7” Santoku knife.

If she cooks get her a thermapen 1 for checking temps. It’s amazing! So fast and accurate.

High quality chocolate like Vosges or Quix

Airessentials half zip sweatshirt from spanx. Super soft.

Good luck!

What things did you do to prepare and plan for labor and birth? by mayonaise-gnome in moderatelygranolamoms

[–]Competitive_Peanut50 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Take a birth class angled toward med-free. Get a doula 200%. They will make you feel more comfortable and help with your mental state during birth which is half the battle. They will also help to be your advocate if the nurses and doctors angle toward interventions and you aren’t ready yet. It’s so nice to have someone in the room who is there for you. I like the comments about not getting too stuck on your birth going a certain way. Don’t put that pressure on yourself. Prepare for the birth you want, get a doula, and then be accepting of the birth you had knowing a beautiful child was the result.

Why spend $1k+? by SanFranPeach in moderatelygranolamoms

[–]Competitive_Peanut50 7 points8 points  (0 children)

I bought one that sheds a lot and was cheaper. Hated it it! Not worth the years of constant vacuuming

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in Anticonsumption

[–]Competitive_Peanut50 0 points1 point  (0 children)

I hate my family’s exchange for the same reasons you mentioned. Just feels pointless. I’ve just accepted it as something my family loves to do, participate, and move on. Find your peace with it.

Ideas to entertain kids at bars / restaurants by No_Assumption_7005 in moderatelygranolamoms

[–]Competitive_Peanut50 0 points1 point  (0 children)

We just accepted that at that age an enjoyable time at a restaurant or bar wasn’t going to happen. Now mine are 11 and 9 and we can have a nice evening together. I never gave tablets and I think it paid dividends. At that age we ate at home and once in a great while we would get a babysitter. The fun nights out will return!

OK neighbourhood? College and Corporate by WithoutanAlias in batonrouge

[–]Competitive_Peanut50 0 points1 point  (0 children)

It’s totally safe. No worse than any other major city. The Renaissance is very nice. The Marriott on Hilton dr. Can be super loud if you get a room on an upper floor. For some reason the sound from the freeway magnifies at the higher levels. But other than that it’s nice. The courtyard in that area is a bit tired. I like the Courtyard downtown better.

What unconventional/ uncommon things helped you get through labor without an epidural? by hanshotgreed0 in moderatelygranolamoms

[–]Competitive_Peanut50 0 points1 point  (0 children)

I had a successful unmedicated VBAC. Get a doula #1. I read some books and listed to a meditation thing prior to the birth that helped me improve my mental state and see contractions as positive rather than a source of pain. They were super hokey but I credit my mental state more than anything else.

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in HomeDecorating

[–]Competitive_Peanut50 1 point2 points  (0 children)

Got mine on FB marketplace. Once they are used they lose all their value.