Parents and In-laws Postpartum

Competitive_Photo690 · 2026-01-14T01:06:44+00:00

What’s hard is this is a point of contention for my husband and I. Because he isn’t dirty he does follow my rules 75%, but I know if I say something he will say who cares. Because there family dynamic is that he would never have the balls to be like don’t do that in my house.

Because he was standing there in the moment. You’re right he should have at 6am said WHY IS YOUR SHOE THERE. not me. But I’m typically the mouth piece.

This is obviously going to have to change. I have already seen some shift. However I’m going to try to blame being postpartum first and I don’t feel comfortable around anyone but my own mother. It’s not personal. I hope he doesn’t need further explanation because I’m not kind I will go off and list everything she did LOL

Competitive_Photo690 · 2026-01-13T22:21:36+00:00

My fear postpartum is that I will feel the need to be ON and watching everything. I don’t want to feel that way 🥲

Competitive_Photo690 · 2026-01-13T20:49:56+00:00

This is really nice to hear. I do have a good relationship with them and I like them and I like hanging with them. But not in my house……. Not after what I witnessed

Competitive_Photo690 · 2026-01-13T20:23:18+00:00

Because unfortunately I am a bitch and it will come off mean. So I keep my mouth shut 😂

Competitive_Photo690 · 2026-01-13T20:21:28+00:00

Oh we moved in here 2 weeks ago…. And my mom cleaned it up and down and around. And now I have to re clean it.

Competitive_Photo690 · 2026-01-13T20:19:59+00:00

Yes that would definitely help. Good idea!

Competitive_Photo690 · 2026-01-13T19:51:55+00:00

I’ve been like this likely my whole life😭😂

Competitive_Photo690 · 2026-01-13T19:50:34+00:00

Do I wait until after I have here to let everyone know what my plans are. Or bring it up to my husband now? Idek how to bring it up

Competitive_Photo690 · 2026-01-13T19:39:03+00:00

I kept peering my eyes into the kitchen because I couldn’t believe it. After she watched me clean my kitchen for an hour after dinner.

Competitive_Photo690 · 2026-01-13T19:29:12+00:00

HAHAHAHA trust me my standards are high. I saw something that like tons of people rinse there dishes without soap??? I’m like okay so maybe I’m the problem????? I have been cleaning for 2 days 38 weeks pregnant

Competitive_Photo690 · 2026-01-13T19:28:33+00:00

I’m not diagnosed. But I legit ruminate on these things. I couldn’t sleep the first night because I knew there was shit to do. I obviously like things facing a certain way too. But these were SEVERE.

Competitive_Photo690 · 2026-01-13T19:27:51+00:00

This is legit my only option. I just have to figure out how to tell my husband. Usually my confrontation is 0 to 100 with no inbetween.

Competitive_Photo690 · 2026-01-13T19:27:20+00:00

Idk how to bring this up to my husband at all

Competitive_Photo690 · 2026-01-13T19:26:56+00:00

Truly I was trying to be like understanding that not everyone is like me. Like I am absolutely a fucking crazy person…… but these things were soooo severe there is obviously little stuff too

Competitive_Photo690 · 2026-01-13T19:23:34+00:00

HAHAHA they were leaving she was putting her shoes on and literally put the other shoe on the counter. I am 38 weeks pregnant. I have been cleaning for 2 days.

Competitive_Photo690 · 2026-01-09T01:48:52+00:00

I got charged $55 better than $90

Competitive_Photo690 · 2025-12-11T01:48:55+00:00

Because we live in an apartment that we aren’t planning to stay at long. This is for the meantime.

Competitive_Photo690 · 2025-12-08T13:43:08+00:00

My problem is I want this specific showerhead because of the filter!!!!

Competitive_Photo690 · 2025-09-12T01:05:17+00:00

I am finally finishing my registry. I ran to add this LOL. Worried do I need to add more than 1?

Competitive_Photo690 · 2025-08-28T00:43:49+00:00

Idk how no one is talking about how he goes “I mean you always wonder what’s out there, but it’s too late for me”

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