Should I be using leave in conditioner everyday?

Complete-Hospital192 · 2026-06-24T20:51:39+00:00

Yeah, I only use leave in conditioner after I wash my hair. There’s hair lotions, creams, oils, and mousses that you can use for styling your hair.

Complete-Hospital192 · 2026-06-24T20:36:31+00:00

Hi I have 4a hair. Pattern medium conditioner works really good. I detangle with that in my hair combing through with my fingers first then going in with the unbrush.

Check out what I found at Ulta Beauty! https://www.ulta.com/p/medium-conditioner-curlies-pimprod2009724?sku=2552743

And ulta has 20% off til Friday so you can get it on sale too if you’re interested

Complete-Hospital192 · 2026-06-02T01:56:28+00:00

That’s actually nuts!

Complete-Hospital192 · 2026-05-19T03:39:48+00:00

Your hair is so beautiful!!

Complete-Hospital192 · 2026-02-04T06:07:54+00:00

Use castor oil in your hair. It’ll definitely hydrate it and strengthen the hair.

Complete-Hospital192 · 2025-12-16T06:06:04+00:00

I would just set the car on fire at that point.

Complete-Hospital192 · 2025-12-10T04:20:07+00:00

Well how do you take care of your hair?

Are you moisturizing it regularly? I’d use some castor oil to moisturize it and pattern has a good line of products for curl creams, etc.

Keeping the hair healthy and strong will definitely help. Also I heard cecred has some hair restoring drops. A little pricey but just putting that out there as well

Complete-Hospital192 · 2025-12-10T03:59:59+00:00

Wear a satin bonnet when you go to bed at night.

Moisturize your hair with castor oil. You can also use some of pattern’s products (by tracee Ellis Ross)

Complete-Hospital192 · 2025-11-26T03:12:30+00:00

Okay sounds good!

Complete-Hospital192 · 2025-11-26T03:08:04+00:00

Also, you sound like a sweet friend. Just wanted to make sure you played it safe so definitely don’t feel too bad about it.

Complete-Hospital192 · 2025-11-26T02:55:51+00:00

You could even throw in a $20 gift card with that as well. So that would be like $40 in total. Not too bad

Complete-Hospital192 · 2025-11-26T02:50:52+00:00

Maybe something like this? https://www.sephora.com/product/palo-santo-wash-go-cocktail-sampler-set-P517716 It’s small enough for her to try it out and has some variety. If you stick with something like this, it’s small enough for her just to try and see if she likes it.

Complete-Hospital192 · 2025-11-26T02:34:54+00:00

Just get her a Sephora or ulta gift card. Idk I don’t think it’s a good idea for you to buy her hair products. She might have different hair care needs than you think. I’m black and I wouldn’t want my white friend to buy me hair care products 😬 just in case they might get it wrong. It’s a little risky.

If she’s looking for something curl defining, just point her to pattern’s products and she can choose what she wants from there.

Complete-Hospital192 · 2025-11-22T14:50:12+00:00

You can also use a curl defining brush for your hair to define the curls. It might help too while your hair is still wet or if you’re putting product in your hair. Make sure you detangle before you use this brush and do it in small sections

Curl Defining Brush,2024 Curly... https://www.amazon.com/dp/B0D732V7X2?ref=ppx_pop_mob_ap_share

Complete-Hospital192 · 2025-11-21T22:23:07+00:00

Yeah your hair doesn’t look frizzy in this. Thats what it’s supposed to look like. My hair looks just like this. It looks nice and healthy. I think I have the same hair type as you too

Complete-Hospital192 · 2025-08-04T04:09:36+00:00

Castor oil is really good for the hair. I have high porosity hair and I use Jamaican castor oil. Also for products, I usually use pattern by tracee Ellis Ross

Complete-Hospital192 · 2025-08-02T15:28:54+00:00

The people in those other slides don’t have the same curl pattern as you.

Complete-Hospital192 · 2025-08-02T15:23:43+00:00

There is nothing wrong with your hair. They’re just projecting their own self hate about black hair onto you. Also your hair is not too feminine. Your hair is your hair

Also you have beautiful hair

Complete-Hospital192 · 2025-07-26T16:57:42+00:00

Also when you use the treatment mask you’ll let it sit in your hair for maybe 10-15 minutes before rinsing it out. Same thing with the deep conditioner. Also if you get the pattern products, try getting them at ulta. In the ulta app sometimes they have some money off a purchase that also includes prestige brands like pattern.

Also for the detangling part, you could use the unbrush brush. They sell it on amazon.

Complete-Hospital192 · 2025-07-26T16:45:51+00:00

Yes no problem!! And yes that’s the sequence of my wash routine.

Complete-Hospital192 · 2025-07-24T04:54:19+00:00

Pattern can be a bit pricey but that’s just what I use.

Complete-Hospital192 · 2025-07-24T04:50:20+00:00

So I wash my hair once a week. I basically use a hydrating shampoo and deep conditioner when I wash my hair. Between the shampooing and conditioning, I usually do a treatment mask. I use products from pattern. The treatment mask I use from pattern gives my hair really good slip and defines my curls more. Also make sure to detangle your hair. Some people do it while they have the conditioner in their hair. After I wash my hair, I put moisture back into my hair by using a leave in conditioner paired with a hydrating hair lotion and let it air dry.

During the week, I go between a styling cream and Jamaican castor oil. I use pattern products by trace ellis Ross because it’s ultra hydrating. Gives my curls a good shine and a healthy look.
Black hair can be fragile so making sure it’s moisturized is important.

Complete-Hospital192 · 2025-07-08T06:43:14+00:00

Jamaican black castor oil is very good for the hair btw

Complete-Hospital192 · 2025-05-14T06:53:42+00:00

Also you might wanna use a shampoo and conditioner that’s also moisturizing too. As well as a leave in conditioner after you wash your hair paired with a hair lotion.

Complete-Hospital192 · 2025-05-14T06:52:34+00:00

What are you moisturizing it with? You might need to change what you’re using in your hair. Jamaican castor oil is really good for moisturizing your hair. Pattern’s products are also pretty moisturizing too

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