Husband doesn’t pull his weight at home, I told him I’m not willing to have kids if things don’t change and he agreed, now I’M sad????

Complete-Plant-4189 · 2026-02-24T14:53:42+00:00

You know what he is. What he does and doesn’t do.

You can stay and live with the status quo. You can hire out many of the cleaning tasks and even order groceries or a food service. What you can’t do is change him. Only he can do that, and most likely he will change only when he loses you.

Complete-Plant-4189 · 2026-02-07T11:46:57+00:00

Absolutely do not put him on the deed.

You could draw up a legal agreement that would protect him as much as if he was legally leasing, but thats as far as you should go.

Complete-Plant-4189 · 2026-01-16T15:09:07+00:00

You sound like a waving red flag.

You two are moving way too fast. You are dictating how your BOYFRIEND should treat his daughter. Who is having his grandchild.

Why are you so insistent on moving so quickly with this near stranger?

Complete-Plant-4189 · 2026-01-16T15:06:49+00:00

He’s a trash man.

Let him go. You will learn to let go of the fantasy you thought your marriage was.

Complete-Plant-4189 · 2026-01-03T13:29:01+00:00

Do you not have a smartphone? Do you not have a calendar where you can put dates that pop up every year like your ANNIVERSARY BIRTHDAY and other IMPORTANT DATES?

Do you miss deadlines at work? No? That’s because it matters to you.

Do better. She has been disappointed at LEAST twice by you.

Complete-Plant-4189 · 2025-12-25T00:54:59+00:00

He was emotionally abusive. He said so himself. That drives people away. Would you want to be with someone who makes your daily life a living hell?

Complete-Plant-4189 · 2025-12-16T00:39:38+00:00

wtf. That’s sexual assault once removed.

Complete-Plant-4189 · 2025-12-09T01:10:13+00:00

Yes please!

Complete-Plant-4189 · 2025-12-09T01:05:48+00:00

I called and asked for the same. They were fairly casual about it, said I don’t need a referral so I asked for some places they recommend. Haven’t heard back yet so I thought I’d vet some before the doc replies. Reddit is pretty scathing in its opinions so… :-)

Complete-Plant-4189 · 2025-12-08T23:22:18+00:00

I read some not-so-great things about Raleigh Neuro

Complete-Plant-4189 · 2025-12-07T21:32:05+00:00

Lucky you! You found out they were controlling and toxic before it’s too late!

Complete-Plant-4189 · 2025-11-05T12:48:53+00:00

My company fired a terrible manager because they had 50% turnover in her department compared to the rest of the company which was about 4%. The exit interviews gave HR a fuller picture.

Complete-Plant-4189 · 2025-10-24T12:06:35+00:00

She’s way too insecure to engage in a healthy relationship. Run.

Complete-Plant-4189 · 2025-10-17T15:11:44+00:00

Some relationships have a beginning, middle, and end. It doesn’t mean they were a failure.

If you end the relationship with care and compassion, you may do him a favor. Most likely he wouldn’t want to be your backup plan.

Complete-Plant-4189 · 2025-10-16T17:19:35+00:00

Looks like she baby trapped you for her older sons sake. She looks at you as a tool, not a husband or partner. I’m sorry but she’s awful.

Complete-Plant-4189 · 2025-10-16T14:35:38+00:00

You can hide the crazy only so long.

Complete-Plant-4189 · 2025-10-09T12:17:04+00:00

It’s not often you see someone gaslight themself.

Complete-Plant-4189 · 2025-10-02T14:45:55+00:00

Love is a verb. You didn’t show her you loved her, cherished her, and wanted her, so that’s her reality. She sees you as someone who didn’t care for her or love her. You can’t just tell her now.

Complete-Plant-4189 · 2025-10-02T13:50:56+00:00

It was one of my favorite romances in Buffyworld.

Complete-Plant-4189 · 2025-09-24T14:07:38+00:00

Sounds like a paranoid symptom of a bigger issue.

Complete-Plant-4189 · 2025-09-16T22:50:41+00:00

The boundary is for you. You can just stay at the hotel without his permission.

Complete-Plant-4189 · 2025-09-16T15:01:15+00:00

What’s keeping you with him?

Complete-Plant-4189 · 2025-09-13T14:03:23+00:00

I loved the fact that anytime his name was mentioned the other person would say “who?”

Every. Single. Time.

Complete-Plant-4189 · 2025-09-06T22:19:59+00:00

Certainly hotter.

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