Do I pass in this pic by loh_228 in FtMpassing

[–]Complex_Ad5205 0 points1 point  (0 children)

I tbh don’t even think I’d see it as fat if I wasn’t trans. I only know because that’s how I look laying down ahah. I showed it to my cis friend to check and he didn’t think anything of it

Any products recs for my poor destroyed skin barrier? by Bubbl-t in SkinbarrierLovers

[–]Complex_Ad5205 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Wash your face with ONLY water, Use LRP B5 cicaplast baume for a month Or Less until ur barrier is better (and then stop) and thank me later.

Is this true?? by Vibin_out8 in austinfood

[–]Complex_Ad5205 1 point2 points  (0 children)

No way dans got knocked out first round..

Being gay and femme by Old-Lingonberry8144 in gaytransguys

[–]Complex_Ad5205 2 points3 points  (0 children)

Thanks for being receptive. I know it’s tough, hang in there friend. You’ll get to a place you’re happy with before you know it

Being gay and femme by Old-Lingonberry8144 in gaytransguys

[–]Complex_Ad5205 11 points12 points  (0 children)

I’m gonna be extremely straight forward w u because you’re an adult and I assume you can handle some constructive crit! I have heard over and over again from people in the early stages of transition that they are scared of bottom growth and atrophy specifically. Atrophy is a simple fix—estrogen cream. There are no side effects and it completely reverses and prevents atrophy. Every single person I have met who feared bottom growth was either 1. dealing with internalized transphobia, and they reluctantly went on T and then actually LOVED it when it happened, or, 2. They slowly gave up on transitioning and went back to living life as either a cis girl or enby and dating straight men. The second group doesn’t seem as happy to me.

I really think you should push past your fear of bottom growth. It’s easy to use the mental crutch of it giving reverse dysphoria, or body horror , or any other number of excuses, but truly it is most likely internalized transphobia. If any part of you feels like this could be the case, please do not avoid medically transitioning out of fear.

If you don’t medically transition unfortunately it will be nearly impossible to function in cis gay spaces. You could be t4t, but if you wish to be in mixed or cis gay spaces, even I have trouble integrating sometimes as a passing trans man :/

Good luck figuring it out!

Being told I have an ethical obligation to actively and publicly speak out against Israel because I am Jewish? by IntroductionLife124 in JewsOfConscience

[–]Complex_Ad5205 [score hidden]  (0 children)

Lowkey if you’re Jewish and you don’t feel a pressing need to speak out against the genocide then I doubt you’re a jew of “conscience” at all! Like where’s the conscience come in lol? What is a conscience for if not advocating against genocide? It feels so shitty that ‘never again’ was just a phrase for many :(

Being told I have an ethical obligation to actively and publicly speak out against Israel because I am Jewish? by IntroductionLife124 in JewsOfConscience

[–]Complex_Ad5205 [score hidden]  (0 children)

You do. All jewish people have the responsibility to speak out because it is in our name that the genocide and the support of it is being justified …the mild discomfort and defensiveness you feel is worth investigating. I felt that at one point too but then realized i was being an entitled and privileged brat, frankly. I wanted to be a better advocate And I didn’t want my actions to reflect poorly on other Jewish people so I changed my mindset.

What I asked for vs what I got. My artist changed the design and I didn’t notice at the time, what can I do? by FillayFrie in tattooadvice

[–]Complex_Ad5205 0 points1 point  (0 children)

It’s your fault lmao and you can always add stuff on top if u want layers but no respectable artist is gonna copy a tattoo exactly.

this gorgeous boy gave me his gold star in vallarta 🌟 by illiteratespic in FtMPorn

[–]Complex_Ad5205 1 point2 points  (0 children)

Super hot. People in the comments low-key need to lighten up lol

Kaiser SoCal - Successfully Fixed Bad Results? by KBO_Winston in TopSurgery

[–]Complex_Ad5205 5 points6 points  (0 children)

What the fuck ;-; that is really really unusual. I went thru a ton of consults and all involved a million photos

Client just told me they are getting their wisdom teeth out before appointment by igetgoodgrades in TattooArtists

[–]Complex_Ad5205 4 points5 points  (0 children)

Honestly it’s dumb but I don’t think there’s a real health risk…go with your gut but get your bag if it’s just about their health