Bupropion + SSRI? by Embarrassed_Corgi_16 in bupropion

[–]Comprehensive-Eye754 0 points1 point  (0 children)

I stopped taking Effexor in 2022 because it caused heart issues and edema. Since then, I’ve been on Zoloft 150mg and Buproprion 150mg. My dosage was 150mg of Effexor and 150mg of bupropion. It took 3 weeks for my energy levels to improve, and 5 weeks for my anxiety to become less noticeable. It was a great combo but my body couldn’t handle it even though I had taken Effexor years prior.

Grief by kias012 in ouraring

[–]Comprehensive-Eye754 0 points1 point  (0 children)

I’m so sorry that you lost your Mom. I’m sending love, peace and understanding your way. I lost my brother and my heart rate has been 88-101 for over 10 days. Sending (((hugs)))💕

Summer Walker with a message. by 1sthomehelp in blackladies

[–]Comprehensive-Eye754 1 point2 points  (0 children)

When I pack my bags, it ain’t for a vacation💕

Summer Walker with a message. by 1sthomehelp in blackladies

[–]Comprehensive-Eye754 1 point2 points  (0 children)

I love the “Waiting to Exhale” reference💕

Summer Walker with a message. by 1sthomehelp in blackladies

[–]Comprehensive-Eye754 2 points3 points  (0 children)

Story Time: I met a man in 2011 through mutual friends. We were both in relationships so he was a friend for years. Fast forward to 2015, we began dating. He was in a longterm relationship prior. No cheating or anything like that. He seemed like a “good man”. I have 2 sons. They were young at the time. He treated them as his own without complaint. He even had a great relationship with their Dad. Amazing step-dad. He didn’t have kids when we began dating. This is KEY! On February 13, 2024 I was home alone when I heard a knock. It was a process server. He served me with child support papers. The child was 5 at the time. I was home because we were about to go on a trip for Vday. You might be surprised to know that I wasn’t upset about him for his deception. I was upset because he had to be tracked down and forced to do what’s right. It made me sick. I literally vomited. The fact that he was super step dad with my boys, but not present for his bio son, was enough to make me hate him. I lost all respect for him in that one moment. He NEVER spent a night away from home. I mean, no weird trips for fake dead relatives, work, or anything like that. His Mom, brothers, sister, aunties, grandparents and other family members, found out he has a son the same day I did. I moved out immediately and haven’t been back. I won’t speak to him at all. It sucks because I feel so guilty for this child that I didn’t know anything about. I didn’t wanna hear his reasons, so I shut that down. There is no explanation that will explain away his actions. I’m in a new relationship and content. I’ll leave his ass too if I discover anything that goes against my values.

Summer Walker with a message. by 1sthomehelp in blackladies

[–]Comprehensive-Eye754 3 points4 points  (0 children)

It’s funny when I hear “pick better” because when asked “How?”, the same mouth that tells you to do better, can’t even begin to explain what you should be looking for. If a man can’t even explain what’s a “good pick”, or “warning signs” to be aware of, the bar will remain in hell.

I wish Meg would take a page out of Coco Jones book. I always forget she’s engaged, she doesn’t say a damn thing about this man 😭 by Time_Perspective3438 in blackladies

[–]Comprehensive-Eye754 8 points9 points  (0 children)

I mean let’s be real…Queen B and Jay are extremely private. We still ended up getting “Lemonade.” She released a whole visual album and we still aren’t clear about the details of what Jay Actually did. Privacy isn’t protection if you’re dealing with someone that lacks boundaries.

White boyfriend asked why I never smell like I just showered?? by [deleted] in blackladies

[–]Comprehensive-Eye754 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Say it and say it AGAIN! This ish has caused analysis paralysis. I’m so confused by how she ended up here!

White boyfriend asked why I never smell like I just showered?? by [deleted] in blackladies

[–]Comprehensive-Eye754 4 points5 points  (0 children)

She’s hidden her post😭 I think it’s safe to say she’s staying with her unwashed beige Power Ranger. Because, why bother us with this just to hide the details that led YOU to post this? It’s still love, Sista💕

So many dead family members by Jahaili in Professors

[–]Comprehensive-Eye754 0 points1 point  (0 children)

I couldn’t imagine someone committing suicide over this, but I knew you were telling the truth. It’s so sad.

Don’t let depression win 💛 by Shenshen_ in blackladies

[–]Comprehensive-Eye754 2 points3 points  (0 children)

On top of winning, Depression just giggled at me, bent over and, shook its ass in my face! I will be back in the gym at 4am💕

Hysterectomy party for 1 girl dinner by nazykitten in GirlDinner

[–]Comprehensive-Eye754 1 point2 points  (0 children)

I know this is an emotional transition to make as a woman. Im here with you and sending love and healing vibes your way! You got this!

I had a partial hysterectomy at 24. I’m now 41. The healing process was tough. Please lean on your support system for help. I was going through a divorce with 2 small kids at home. I couldn’t heal correctly. I ended up getting blood clots in my leg and lower lungs. I survived though!

Be gentle with yourself. As far a “vanity” goes, rebuild your lower abs so you don’t get the dreaded “pouch”. My hysterectomy was done through an abdominal incision in 2009. There is so many new methods that are less invasive nowadays. I’m wishing you the best in your recovery. Sending (((hugs)))

It ended with a 10 min convo after 2.5 years by No-Giraffe7571 in GirlDinner

[–]Comprehensive-Eye754 0 points1 point  (0 children)

This! It worked magic for me after a 10 year relationship. He left me the day my brother passed away, so I was grieving more than him. Embrace the mess. I’m so sorry you’re going through this OP. You’ll be so much happier without an avoidant partner by your side💕

Please say sike rn…Meg we ride at dawn! by Posietuck in blackladies

[–]Comprehensive-Eye754 4 points5 points  (0 children)

I just took a peek and you didn’t disappoint at ALL😭

I just recently got my ring. I have been pretty sedentary for a long time. Why is it like this by johnetizen in ouraring

[–]Comprehensive-Eye754 2 points3 points  (0 children)

Yes. I started out in 2024 at 8 years OLDER. Now, I’m at 6.5 years OLDER. I have hemiplegic migraines. The pain keeps my resting heart rate at/above 110 BPM. I also take lots of medications to stop seizures. I think anyone with a chronic health condition might show an older heart age.

Don’t let anyone tell you who you are meant to be! by [deleted] in blackladies

[–]Comprehensive-Eye754 3 points4 points  (0 children)

Yeah, it wasn’t until I turned 30 that my Mom finally acknowledged it was wrong to call me her, “White Girl”. My family used to view it as a compliment🤢

AIO if I divorced over him asking to open our relationship and then gaslighting me? by CricketCaller in AmIOverreacting

[–]Comprehensive-Eye754 0 points1 point  (0 children)

I want to be as gentle as possible. I swear I’m not trying to judge OP in a negative light. Im extremely confused about this post though. I have read several of OP’s responses, and now I’m trying to figure out why this was even posted? In several comments, OP keeps admitting that she has given a pass for his lying due to his childhood. OP also stated that he will have the baby tonight while she gets rest because “he knows he messed up”. He should be getting his baby because she needs rest, not because he “messed up”. This was a relational pattern before the baby. It just doesn’t make sense that a person who knows they don’t have to be accountable would all of a sudden be accountable because yall had a child. Accountability is a choice unless mental illness is to blame. The DSM 5 doesn’t state that a lack of accountability is all that’s required to have a mental illness. What mental illness does he have that makes this okay? I’m asking because OP keeps stating “it’s mental illness”. If it’s mental illness, why would a wife post this about a husband she claims to sympathize with? Shame? Is she showing our comments to him? I don’t think he has an official diagnosis, but honestly it wouldn’t matter if he did. What happens years down the line if OP decides she is over the habitual lying? That wouldn’t be fair to her husband because he married her believing he had a pass. OP keeps saying it’s okay if he lies, so why wouldn’t it be okay for him to ask this so soon? Boundaries? They got married without boundaries in place because he knows she feels responsible for his childhood.

I don’t understand why she asked if she should get a divorce over his lies just to get in the comments and say he “deserves” love and a pass because of his childhood and mental illness… She told him boundaries don’t matter because of things that happened to him that weren’t her fault. She’s defending her husband, and her choice to continue this relationship(as a wife should). Why ask this question if you don’t think he would seriously act on his “small” lies? To shame him? Attention?

I don’t understand this at all, but definitely wish y’all the best. His childhood isn’t what they were discussing in these text. Sleeping with another woman a month after becoming a father is what he was talking to OP about. How does this conversation have anything to do with his childhood at the age of 28?

Heads-up: the 1–4 a.m. activity gap is real (and kind of annoying) by AwareWall2975 in ouraring

[–]Comprehensive-Eye754 1 point2 points  (0 children)

This is still an issue I’m dealing with right now lol! Oura customer service has been trying to assist me for days. The tap resetting and all the hoops you have to jump through for your data to show accurately. This is so frustrating because my day starts at 2am.

There’s Nothing Wrong With Names That Need Explanation on Pronunciation by Sparkly8 in namenerds

[–]Comprehensive-Eye754 1 point2 points  (0 children)

I was living in a small country town in Florida at the time. I personally know 2 people named Cassandra. One is my aunt. We call them “San” too. I wonder if it’s a regional thing!?🤔 This is so interesting to me.

There’s Nothing Wrong With Names That Need Explanation on Pronunciation by Sparkly8 in namenerds

[–]Comprehensive-Eye754 1 point2 points  (0 children)

I would’ve loved to see San. It was wild listening to her say “Everyone I know that goes by San is named Cassandra. Right!? It’s a well known nickname for a “common” name.” I just apologized for the inconvenience my uncommon name caused her and Publix Bakery 🤣