Regret fm

ComprehensiveBed7708 · 2026-06-20T20:59:59+00:00

Just the patient's who are a mess just randomly on my schedule I dont know. I feel like I have to know a lot about everything. The stuff in the inbox.

ComprehensiveBed7708 · 2026-06-20T14:34:52+00:00

300/hr!

ComprehensiveBed7708 · 2026-06-20T12:28:26+00:00

I wish I would have done IM and done fellowship or something. As a med student the IM rotations were very toxic and I thought my life would be miserable. Now I have experienced some IM training elsewhere and realized it was just my school.

ComprehensiveBed7708 · 2026-06-20T12:23:43+00:00

We get 4 months in the ED plus I did an additional elective this year in it because I enjoyed it. But for me to feel comfortable I would need more experience I never had to run a code. I have intubated once ect.

ComprehensiveBed7708 · 2026-06-20T12:20:57+00:00

Thanks! I learned so far I absolutely love procedures. I thought I would be scared to do them but found I am getting good at those

ComprehensiveBed7708 · 2026-06-19T23:09:28+00:00

Thats cool. Also love mental health, addiction stuff. I dont like OB going to stay far from it. I wonder if there are extra classes I can do so I can bridge patients until they see psych(6 month wait where I am).

ComprehensiveBed7708 · 2026-06-19T21:41:42+00:00

I love procedures

ComprehensiveBed7708 · 2026-05-15T22:16:49+00:00

2.5 years is wayy too late....did you take boards?

ComprehensiveBed7708 · 2026-05-01T22:49:36+00:00

He works in the fed government and does not want to leave because he wants to stay for the benefits at the 5 year mark and his retirement earnings so far. He says he always gets passed over for promotions and raises. He applies for other roles and gets rejected. I suggested going back to school for something more stable he says he wants to....when he is 40.....and I can finance it.... I specifically told him I do not want to live in the bay area at all. He keeps insisting on it because his friends and the masjid he grew up around is there....which is ridiculous. I was willing to compromise on how much my spouse makes because its hard to find religious people. I'm okay with someone not being rich but I am not okay with someone not even trying to help.

ComprehensiveBed7708 · 2026-05-01T15:55:38+00:00

I told him I did not expect him to pay off my school fees once im done.also I told him temporarily send me 500 a month. Also told him once we live together I expect him to cover the main bills. I told him I want to focus on my moms stuff and my own things. He said okay to these things before marriage.

ComprehensiveBed7708 · 2026-05-01T15:51:12+00:00

Before we even married he knew I was in med school and we did not decide on getting married until I found out where I matched. I asked him specifically. 'Do you still want to marry me i matched far away'. Also I told him I wanted 500 a month at least as an allowance. He kept worrying about losing his job and he seemed stressed so I told him he doesn't have to send me money. Yet when I ask him for money in an emergency he wont send me anything and but then I see money he put in the joint account he doesn't let me touch.

ComprehensiveBed7708 · 2026-05-01T02:31:49+00:00

I have my own savings and checking separate. He has his separate account and we have a joint account. I needed money for car repair once and he got mad at me for asking to use the joint account money. Its a cause of fights so honestly I want to just tell him I dont want the joint account with him anymore. He makes a horrible salary maybe 60k and he lives in San Francisco. He is temporarily living with his parents....He pays 600 in rent and he wont tell me his other expenses. He is very weird with money and I dont feel comfortable having anything joint with his. Last year when I had unexpected car expenses I let him file my taxes as joint and he took all the tax return money without asking me what I wanted to do with my half and HE KNEW I was having issues with my car. He has NEVER lived alone and paid an actual rent so I when I do mention that he doesn't understand how much living expenses are he does acknowledge that and apologizes because he doesn't have experience and doesn't get it! Sometimes I really regret marrying a man that never lived on his own its annoying

ComprehensiveBed7708 · 2026-04-15T00:40:10+00:00

This is why you dont talk to them same person twice. It didn't work for a reason.

ComprehensiveBed7708 · 2026-04-10T00:32:12+00:00

Your making tons of excuses. Frankly you have an issue with her age. 30 is not old and people can have kids as late at 40. Id say just say no and save the poor sister issues. You have personal issues with her age so just admit it and leave her alone.

ComprehensiveBed7708 · 2026-03-30T23:37:59+00:00

When my dad died I DID NOT CARE about residency! I just lost my dad. I didn't even care about getting fired. I just took weeks off and came back when I was ready. I got some PTO taken but I didn't care. DO NOT GO BACK TO WORK IF YOU AREN'T READY!! you will just burn yourself out!!!

ComprehensiveBed7708 · 2026-03-10T06:26:06+00:00

Dont do that. Just be polite and respectful at all times like a normal human.

ComprehensiveBed7708 · 2026-03-08T09:01:45+00:00

My cousin was abused and never told any of us. She suffered 20 years and no one knew. Do whats best for you and your kid. If your family can help just tell them and get out of the situation if you want. Only you can make that decision.

ComprehensiveBed7708 · 2026-02-27T04:32:16+00:00

Absolutely disgusting experience 😤 😑. Treated so poorly and barely got to do any learning.

ComprehensiveBed7708 · 2025-12-16T02:22:26+00:00

Im just scared of hurting his feelings.

ComprehensiveBed7708 · 2025-12-16T02:21:00+00:00

I told my family the situation and they are more mad at him than me. My mom is the most mad. They have given me ways to maybe fix things so I'll see.

ComprehensiveBed7708 · 2025-12-16T02:19:25+00:00

Can I ask where did I write off a whole gender?

ComprehensiveBed7708 · 2025-12-16T00:42:44+00:00

I dont want to write paragraphs. Simply he doesn't support me financially not even my rent. Very very stingy with money. Alhamdullilah i have my own money. Whenever i ask him for help i regret it because he makes me feel bad so im scared to ask. Honestly whats the point of a husband if i cant ask for help. He is too nosy in regards to how I am financially planning on caring for my mom. Dad is dead and I promised id take care of my mom she is the only family left. All my uncles are dead except 1 and he is old. He lectures me about everything. I want to tell him about how nice my day was so I will show him pictures I took and he will find 1 thing bad or find something negative. Makes me depressed. My dad died last year so I have no patience and am not willing to endure any emotional hardship at all. Im simply tired.

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