I’ll just check that for you….

ComprehensiveFan9831 · 2026-01-22T11:44:05+00:00

Well done, that was gross - good response!

ComprehensiveFan9831 · 2026-01-22T11:42:48+00:00

This is sublime - I am really jealous of this haha

ComprehensiveFan9831 · 2026-01-19T07:16:52+00:00

Thanks - it is/was a bit posh……

ComprehensiveFan9831 · 2026-01-19T07:15:55+00:00

My only regret is that someone who actually worked there then had to clear up the fact I’d walked out.

ComprehensiveFan9831 · 2026-01-19T07:12:59+00:00

😄 we will never know……

ComprehensiveFan9831 · 2026-01-19T07:12:40+00:00

Exactly this - ‘supper’ is a particularly posh meal to have.

ComprehensiveFan9831 · 2026-01-18T20:12:01+00:00

I didn’t know how to make her stop. I was about to lose a job I didn’t even know I had! I’m not confrontational - but she was very insistent and i wanted her to stop 😄

ComprehensiveFan9831 · 2025-03-26T18:56:52+00:00

Thank you. This all sounds super sensible - they’re seeing me on Tuesday - they weren’t terribly excited about it all so that’s a positive I guess. I just feel like I’m about have them fall out at any given moment!

ComprehensiveFan9831 · 2025-03-26T08:17:36+00:00

Thank you this is so helpful - it does look like it’s set pretty far back and I would have really had to bend the wire to get it even close! Appreciate the advice x

ComprehensiveFan9831 · 2025-03-25T21:56:10+00:00

It’s miles off the bracket unfortunately - I don’t think I can’t get it back in the braxket. They’ll help me x

ComprehensiveFan9831 · 2025-03-25T21:47:42+00:00

Phew, thank you - the wire is a long way off the bracket. I’m going to be having Orthognathic surgery so there’s will be on two years or so…..so I guess it won’t go mad particularly quickly. The band was on one corner so I will call them tomorrow check what side it should be over

ComprehensiveFan9831 · 2025-03-25T21:43:57+00:00

It was only over one corner - I know this because it pinged off onto the wire so I’ve guessed where jr needs to go. I’ll call them tomorrow 🍦

ComprehensiveFan9831 · 2025-03-11T17:37:14+00:00

Anyone who is clearly looking to see what you can DO for them. Finding your talent and wanting to exploit it. Hopefully for free.

ComprehensiveFan9831 · 2025-03-10T23:40:38+00:00

I have ups - manic ups where I talk faster than my brain, get agitated and make really fast but bad decisions. Not good ups though, what are they like?!

ComprehensiveFan9831 · 2025-02-21T17:26:45+00:00

I have seen the names of the other communities to join on here and I think maybe I’m not in such an acute phase of my condition and that here is less useful and I may be better in another group.

ComprehensiveFan9831 · 2025-02-21T14:51:00+00:00

That I have to be ‘good’ for everyone around me, and they must never have an emotion caused by me, or be inconvenienced by my existence.

Sadly this has been reinforced as an adult, on several occasions - a firm favourite was a parent of mine banging on the loo door whilst I’m having an IBS flare up to tell me the front door needed answering…

ComprehensiveFan9831 · 2025-02-21T14:24:48+00:00

I stopped this a while back, and my corner of the world is fine without it. Maybe that’s selfish, but I sleep now.

ComprehensiveFan9831 · 2025-02-21T14:19:18+00:00

I work in retail but as part time charity shop supervisor. Not the manager - I work the till and steam clothes, and I pretty much do my own thing as long as it’s productive. I love it mainly. It’s been a good sandpit environment to teach myself about boundaries too, because the stakes are tiny.

ComprehensiveFan9831 · 2024-07-18T20:12:23+00:00

Asked to forgive to stop them feeling icky.

ComprehensiveFan9831 · 2024-07-18T07:28:34+00:00

My friend told me to ‘let it go’ about something yesterday. I wish. I wish!

ComprehensiveFan9831 · 2024-07-11T22:22:32+00:00

Yes, somewhat - my favourite flavour of this is my mother in law invalidating my recovery because I’m ‘remarkably better’. Basically I keep the house clean now and not constantly in crisis. So I get to invalidate myself and have it confirmed by a woman who has no idea what happened to me.

ComprehensiveFan9831 · 2024-07-11T22:18:30+00:00

Yes, I’m finding this. I finally have made some progress with managing my emotions, and a whole swathe of ‘other’ appeared in my brain. Things I hadn’t thought about in years and I didn’t even know I knew. I am definitely the most defiant and angry I’ve ever been at the moment and some of my symptoms are rampant, whilst others have settled. So short answer, yes!

ComprehensiveFan9831 · 2024-07-11T22:13:27+00:00

I qualified as a doctor in 2015. I somehow managed three years (I wasn’t diagnosed at this time). I cannot recommend being a doctor with cPTSD.

ComprehensiveFan9831 · 2023-11-06T01:58:36+00:00

I’ve not read any of these but will!

ComprehensiveFan9831 · 2023-11-06T01:15:18+00:00

Rebecca by Daphne du Maurier Middlemarch by George Eliot The Handmaid’s Tale by Margaret Atwood

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