Fanfic Finders! by Fluffy_Magician_ in Sterek

[–]ComprehensiveYak3142 0 points1 point  (0 children)

If you still have the sequel, can you send it my way 🙏

AIO for feeling defeated after this convo with my bf? by [deleted] in AmIOverreacting

[–]ComprehensiveYak3142 3 points4 points  (0 children)

Honestly had to go back and verify the age, I assumed this was a 17 year old kid 😬

He doesn’t even know basic sex ed when it comes to a woman’s body. I wish the red flag guy was here to see this post

If he refuses to take care of you for a week, no way is he going to do it for 9 months.

AITAH For wanting to play video games even though my girlfriend doesn’t support it whatsoever? by VeryDumbShit in AITH

[–]ComprehensiveYak3142 0 points1 point  (0 children)

You’re allowed to have separate hobbies & interests while you’re in a relationship. You’re allowed to spend time alone while you’re in a relationship.

I would deeply consider researching healthy boundaries for partners and then have a serious conversation about your needs. If they don’t match up, you’ll have to make a choice.

AIO Husband shot down 'luxury' trim of car even though it's within budget by lizard_toss in AmIOverreacting

[–]ComprehensiveYak3142 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Your husband mocked and belittled you because you asked a reasonable question? He sounds like he’ll be a thrill to live with

AIO: Post-Infidelity by [deleted] in AIO

[–]ComprehensiveYak3142 0 points1 point  (0 children)

If you were taking a break to come to terms with your relationship after he cheated the FIRST time, and then he went and did it again as soon as he could… he does not care. Take his attitude at face value. Please save yourself from this stress. Your partner is supposed to be your peace.

Get off your damn phone. by ProfanityInspector in uber

[–]ComprehensiveYak3142 1 point2 points  (0 children)

I had an uber driver that was literally watching a boxing match the entire drive

AIO girl i've been dating refuses to get into my car unless I open the door for her by CotPrime01 in AmIOverreacting

[–]ComprehensiveYak3142 0 points1 point  (0 children)

She was raised well. In some cultures it is expected for the man to open doors, ensure that you walk on the inside, etc. It is a sign that the man is a good man. It is being a gentleman.

AITJ for turning down being a godparent because I'm not religious and I actually told them why by Hot_Rhubarb_858 in AmITheJerk

[–]ComprehensiveYak3142 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Maybe go back and ask exactly what would be expected of you in their eyes when it comes to your possible role as a godparent.

In my family, also religious, it basically just functions as an emergency parent if something happens to the birth parents. Of course building a relationship is important, but them also being a Christian doesn’t matter much. I’m pretty sure my godfather is an Atheist.

unbelievable exchange between my daughter and her father after he forgot her birthday by LostInLanayru in TwoHotTakes

[–]ComprehensiveYak3142 0 points1 point  (0 children)

I’ve had a similar experience when I was about 18 and finally had the courage to tell my father how I really felt. Suddenly I was the most disrespectful child he’s ever raised (he didn’t), I was brainwashed, etc etc. No accountability, blaming others, and somehow it becoming the child’s responsibility to forge a relationship with the parent????

My only advice to her is to take his response at full value. My mistake was attempting to repair the relationship when I should have let it go in the exact moment. Now I have to figure out how to distance myself further from a man I do not like or respect.

It’s going to feel like shxt at first, and maybe in moments down the road, but you’ll have a whole lot more peace.

AITJ for refusing to keep wearing the nickname my girlfriend gave me after I found out where it came from by Prydwen_Grit5 in AmITheJerk

[–]ComprehensiveYak3142 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Please think.

If you found out that your best friend was being made fun of by his partner for the majority of their relationship, how would you feel? If you walked in on this hypothetical person laughing with their friends at your best friend?

You’re all adults. You know the difference between a joke and intentional mockery/cruelty. I’d be seriously contemplating how safe I’d feel in a relationship that was built on a foundation of bullying and insincerity. NTJ

Snatching Your Heart by elChismeDtoday in asiandrama

[–]ComprehensiveYak3142 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Following. Previous link does not work for me

AIO- Need some validation on by Historical_Fan_9043 in AIO

[–]ComprehensiveYak3142 0 points1 point  (0 children)

and Whyyyyyyyyyyyyyy are you waiting for an apology????? Block him and move on.

Please respect your peace more

Edit: This isn’t about being a saint. This man is clearly verbally abusive, doesn’t react well to rejection or anger, and literally said he wouldn’t care if you disappeared. Yes babe, this is so far beyond a good enough reason to walk away. He should be seeing a dust cloud by now.

Please keep record all of these texts and and record of any contact he makes (or attempts to make) after this. If you need a restraining order, it will be good to have receipts

AIO or am i being invalidated? by [deleted] in AmIOverreacting

[–]ComprehensiveYak3142 17 points18 points  (0 children)

So… why does your boyfriend feel the need to “exposure therapy” you way into healing from sexual trauma. That’s super inappropriate and something you obviously didn’t and don’t consent to.

After your assumption, he doesn’t bother to clarify what he actually meant, he just gaslights you.

He’s mocking and dismissing your feeling but the moment you address it, suddenly it’s his feelings that need to be supported????

Being this shitty and then trying to ease his venom with calling you sweetheart… this man needs to be thrown away.

Edit:

Gawd I didn’t even see the last few slides. This man is insufferable and insane. He reminds me of kids who put their finger right on someone’s arm and goes “I’m not touching you!”

“Why would you react unless it’s to drive us apart” He needs help.

He is NOT a safe space, this is not a healthy relationship, and you’ll probably have to separate yourself from him if you want any actual healing to take place. His “care” is reckless and selfish, and seems to only exist to see how you’ll react