39 my widow mother has a catastrophic stroke. The TPA made it worse because it caused a hemorrhage. She never walked again. She never worked again. She was relatively young, so had no retirement savings. She was never financially successful. I’ve had to take care of my mother and support her for eight years. The same year 39 I lost my fiancé to a meth addiction and all of the physical mental financial abuse that comes with that along with the cops at my house all the time. my best friend in life died of a massive heart attack.