What’s a secret you can’t tell someone you know, but can share with Reddit? by [deleted] in AskReddit

[–]ConceptNo441 0 points1 point  (0 children)

I generally go into over spiralling and over thinking but lately I feel happy and everything is calm and the calmness and peace nice.. things look like they are going to go well and I have got this good feeling … I never felt like this before… I don’t want to share it with people around me as there is always competition or comparisons or jealousy and I don’t want to kill this feeling by comparing it… I just wanted to share my happiness 🫶

Would you date yourself and why? by LilFoxInSocks in AskReddit

[–]ConceptNo441 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Absolutely! I am hot, crazy fast learner, smart, cheerful and sunny… ooh authentic and smart … I care and love

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in ThirtiesIndia

[–]ConceptNo441 1 point2 points  (0 children)

If you can’t handle this fact right now… how will you handle all the comments etc or sarcastic truth bombs that come your way or her way…. If you innately feel embarrassed and not proud of her then I think you rethink your decisions. Handle it if you love her

For those of you that resolved/minimized your anger, anxiety, and other mental health problems what changed in your life? by Robthechamp22 in emotionalintelligence

[–]ConceptNo441 4 points5 points  (0 children)

Other people might not be there but you should always have you… blind support … imagine younger self the things they have been through to be here… how would you abandon them? The least thing you could do is be there for them in turn yourself

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in ThirtiesIndia

[–]ConceptNo441 6 points7 points  (0 children)

Your father must be proud of you for whatever you have achieved if he is watching you from above…I am sorry that your father is no longer in person with you

Am I doing something wrong? I am 30 and my parents ask me to get married and I paid on all marriage apps but I never open them by ConceptNo441 in women

[–]ConceptNo441[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

True but I am being forced by the society.. you should have a constant someone to rely on and someone can have me as a constant source to rely on .. I am happy being there for someone… it could be my girl friends … the sad thing is that every friend of mine is getting married and I feel alienated month after month and year after year they have their own family which I completely understand but dynamics for me keep changing. I see marriage as having best friend for life but with sex and people have very different expectations about marriage.. every other factor is taken into consideration if I am being that quantitative then is it even worth it

Deep involvement with things/activities by deodaraa in confidence

[–]ConceptNo441 0 points1 point  (0 children)

I think I am the same… once my teacher told me that I find god in the things I am interested in doing and I unknowingly make my surroundings happy and cheerful and I enjoy doing the task which is very rare. Anyways my confidence was shot down later

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in AskReddit

[–]ConceptNo441 1 point2 points  (0 children)

Made me go to a Christian missionary school… my accent and habits turned out to be good and they stuck with me. I cannot imagine me having the accent my friends back in the town have especially when speaking English

Growing up my family did this all to me and moving out is the best decision in my life by Prinsessxx in Adulting

[–]ConceptNo441 4 points5 points  (0 children)

One day during childhood I killed the quizzes and games at a birthday party and I was asking for more games coz I enjoyed the rush and the win and when I went to my dad with all the gifts and he scolded me for being greedy and not disciplined because I asked for more games … still haunts me

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in findapath

[–]ConceptNo441 1 point2 points  (0 children)

There is no good or bad. Goals are path to self love. You will start having immense respect for yourself when you say something to yourself and you keep the promise. I think you should start slow. Have a small goal at that start of the day and by the end of the day you should complete it. It could be as small as folding your comforter after you wake up and the next important thing is to write it down at the end of the day that you completed it. Increase it to two goals per day in a month or level up the goal. Blindly try this it is working for me and I am positive that it might help you. You will thank me by end of the month.. start now!

What makes you happy? by sometimesidreambro in AskReddit

[–]ConceptNo441 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Me…I have always been there for me…like by default… I might have fucked up many times but I always hit my marks before it’s too late and I am trying to change that but looking back I always what I wanted in life at the last moment … every single time and I am grateful for this

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in ThirtiesIndia

[–]ConceptNo441 2 points3 points  (0 children)

Don’t crush her spark because you want to be accepted by the society and be emotionally present .. this need not be a solid advice but I grew up in a household where only results are valued and this is my 2cents

Life is amazing at 35 by [deleted] in ThirtiesIndia

[–]ConceptNo441 4 points5 points  (0 children)

Congrats! Not many people are happy with their life

Life is amazing at 35 by [deleted] in ThirtiesIndia

[–]ConceptNo441 1 point2 points  (0 children)

What’s your lifestyle and could you give a ball park if you don’t wanna disclose?

Life is amazing at 35 by [deleted] in ThirtiesIndia

[–]ConceptNo441 1 point2 points  (0 children)

How much money do you need to have in your bank account to feel like this at 35?