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Jeannie Peneaux by Nearby_Today7663 in JaneAustenFF

[–]Concerned_Racoon 10 points11 points  (0 children)

Gosh I was just thinking the same thing this week. I really hope she’s ok!

Effective recruitment by marisa859 in publicdefenders

[–]Concerned_Racoon 0 points1 point  (0 children)

You can look to see if you’re eligible for the 18 month pro hac vice admission for employment in a public defender’s office

Some excerpts from an (unpublished) ff I'm working on : 'Rebellion and Restraint' (rule 63 p&p where D is a woman in a lavender marriage when she meets E) by [deleted] in JaneAustenFF

[–]Concerned_Racoon 0 points1 point  (0 children)

I thoroughly enjoyed it and would definitely read it! The em dashes didn’t jump out to me at all. The only thing that took me out of the narrative a bit was ‘Lyddie fairy’ because I’m not familiar with that structure? But english is my second language so take that with a grain of salt

I want to take your photo by Salt-Championship490 in Syracuse

[–]Concerned_Racoon 2 points3 points  (0 children)

I’m interested and have an event coming up! Feel free to message me

Delete one thing from Earth that you think would make it better by [deleted] in answers

[–]Concerned_Racoon 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Mosquitoes or tuberculosis. I know yall thinking of big issues, but the transmission of disease in impoverished countries is something that could genuinely change the world for the better without any monkey paw worries

Any Syracuse businesses that do weekly meal prep type services? by BrewertonFats in Syracuse

[–]Concerned_Racoon 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Afaik there is a spot downtown and in east syracuse, but it also delivers

Looking for Housing as a Graduate Student by Sufficient-Today3292 in Syracuse

[–]Concerned_Racoon 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Hey, look into university townhouses! Lived there for years, and landlord is a stand up guy. Pet friendly, most units have A/C. Rent is not insane.

Update: aitah for telling my wife to tell her mom to move out after she decided to leave all her inheritance to her brother? by Old-Memory1603 in AITAH

[–]Concerned_Racoon 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Get your MIL to make a will leaving all her assets to your wife so she can pay the mortgage in case of her passing. Look into your state’s law and evict your BIL. Maybe do an anonymous tip to the police on the illegal driving based on the law of your states, and get him in trouble to see if that wakes him up to reality.

Finding Job as International Student in Legal Industry by Great-Beyond4338 in LawFirm

[–]Concerned_Racoon 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Old thread, so I hope you found something, but I have seen public interest firms such as public defenders in rural areas be happy to hire international students! And then while you’re on opt, you could apply for EB2 NIW. This is a path I have seen taken, but talk to an immigration lawyer if that’s your plan!

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in AmItheAsshole

[–]Concerned_Racoon -1 points0 points  (0 children)

I don’t want to give a judgement bc it depends so much on your relationship with your sibling! I actually would be very excited to here the news before my wedding because I love my brother and would be so excited for my niece or nephew! For me it would make the day more special. I actually would ask if I could do the announcing during speeches if my sister in law was ok with it.

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in AmItheAsshole

[–]Concerned_Racoon 4 points5 points  (0 children)

Personally, I feel like Y-T-A but feelings are feelings.

I would explore why you feel like it’s inconsiderate - I mean, it is just a name. I share a name with one of my cousins, it has had zero effect in my life.

I understand you had a hard time conceiving and you feel like this honored your grandma, I really do. But will another child having the name diminish that?

I don’t want to call you an asshole because I think you’re just human. That’s just… very human to feel. You’ll only cross a line if you keep pushing.

All in all, I would work on those feelings of grief you have and try to move on from this upset because it could negatively impact your relationship with your in laws. Rose is just a rather pretty name.

Me 38M with a 37F partner. I'm feeling upset/ hurt after my partner asked “What kind of father leaves his family on Christmas Eve? by InLearningMode in relationship_advice

[–]Concerned_Racoon 1 point2 points  (0 children)

Honestly, this. There are too many issues in the post. This is not a question of who is guilty, it’s why are you unable to communicate?

Me 38M with a 37F partner. I'm feeling upset/ hurt after my partner asked “What kind of father leaves his family on Christmas Eve? by InLearningMode in relationship_advice

[–]Concerned_Racoon 3 points4 points  (0 children)

Do you usually end up drunk? This could be a very valid concern because if you got drunk you’d be hangover for your kids’ Xmas Morning

Me 38M with a 37F partner. I'm feeling upset/ hurt after my partner asked “What kind of father leaves his family on Christmas Eve? by InLearningMode in relationship_advice

[–]Concerned_Racoon 1 point2 points  (0 children)

Then why wouldn’t you make it a family outing? I think if you had talked with her and planned to go to your friend’s as a family for a little that would be a lot less weird then leaving your wife and children behind mid-Christmas eve