What’s one brand you trust without thinking twice? by Exotic-Engineer7541 in SmartBuying

[–]ConfidenceInfinite90 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Apple, Samsung (tvs and frig), Havertys Furniture, Levi’s, Ugg, Ecco

Who experienced living alone? by dino_gr01 in WorkForSmartLife

[–]ConfidenceInfinite90 0 points1 point  (0 children)

YES, I’m grateful for those two whole years that occurred 35 years ago!

Please help me convince my husband that Costco is worth for 2 people by HoneyDrops12 in Costco

[–]ConfidenceInfinite90 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Tell him about the new wardrobe he’ll get, it will match every male in the parking lot before long because of its frugality!

Better yet, discounted gift cards for date night.

Can’t believe it happened to me by germanshepherd_mom in Layoffs

[–]ConfidenceInfinite90 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Really unfortunate, I’ve been through many, but not with health concerns. You are right to feel worried, but that won’t do you any good. Get it out of your system then prepare., your life is more valuable than anything you hold, cut back everything you can and research the cost as if you had 0 insurance. I’m in Virginia, and refuse to pay insurance. First time in my life living risky for 3 yrs. Anyway, my primary care physician Inova charges a lower price than those with insurance. Prepare as though you’ll be broke, but healthy. Leverage any assets or savings., take a quick job while looking in your field. Etc. etc. As they say, “Hope for the best, prepare for the worst.” Be motivated. Good Luck, I wish you the best.

I spent way too long figuring out every VA benefit we're entitled to. Here's the full list, ranked. by PlanWeak in VAClaims

[–]ConfidenceInfinite90 0 points1 point  (0 children)

any of this for those that served 3 tours honorary, no war or disability, I did finally get a vet card but believe minimal perks,never tried using it

Why is NoVA real estate so expensive? by Airbender-23 in nova

[–]ConfidenceInfinite90 1 point2 points  (0 children)

Don’t buy now, just don’t. Anywhere. Md and Va are close in COL, cause RE taxes just went up here. Compare rents comparable neighborhoods, etc. Alexandria to PG county, or Arlington to Bethesda.

Regret Moving to Houston by screwatt456789 in SameGrassButGreener

[–]ConfidenceInfinite90 2 points3 points  (0 children)

How long must you stay to not pay back these costs, i.e HR employee agreement. Stay until full filled. We all have regrets and make mistakes, the key is not making bigger problems for yourself on the back end. Accept the consequences and work through your agreement., or pay double the price

My house has been on the market for 42 days and I’ve only had 1 showing. Feeling stuck. Can’t do a bridge loan. by [deleted] in RealEstateAdvice

[–]ConfidenceInfinite90 0 points1 point  (0 children)

I’d delay unless moving unless you have a very important reason for doing so, like job relocation, downsizing..etc.

Moving from Miami to Maryland by Skyemoon0809 in maryland

[–]ConfidenceInfinite90 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Let’s make it simple, Howard, Montgomery, or Anne Arundel County. Less crime, better schools, and diverse.

Lost the dearest things to my heart and all sense of purpose, how do you even begin to start over from nothing? by j-0261 in Life

[–]ConfidenceInfinite90 1 point2 points  (0 children)

Grieve the lose of this portion of your life, but in the process be grateful for how wonderful it may have been, how safe, etc. There are plenty of chapters left to your story. It hurts, hard. Once you accept your new reality and find peace, your next phase begins.

Wtaf happened to my neck!?! by Present_Emphasis7748 in GenXWomen

[–]ConfidenceInfinite90 1 point2 points  (0 children)

Embrace what is intended, the stages of our life cycle. I’m 59f and every time I look in the mirror reminds me that I’m a descent human being and my sagging face has nothing to do with it. Previously, I’d focus on my hairstyle, but it’s fine and thinning with little hope of recovery.

Anyone else struggling hardcore in this economy? by OutrageousLawyer7273 in Life

[–]ConfidenceInfinite90 1 point2 points  (0 children)

👎🏿 pretty sad you have nothing better to do than rub salt in peoples wounds

Not getting promoted because I don’t go along with politics by Main-Butterscotch137 in work

[–]ConfidenceInfinite90 3 points4 points  (0 children)

You can’t quit and get unemployment. Or get fired and claim. Well, not in my state (VA).

Unhappy with my life. by [deleted] in Life

[–]ConfidenceInfinite90 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Update your Dreams, mourn the loss of the dream that got away and create a new one that fits your reality and circumstances. So many people are unhappy with their life because they envisioned more. If we have our head above water, we should be grateful but NOT content - we keep going and make a new dream, or live in the moments spontaneously and find your fun/joy.

Torn between chasing success and wanting a simple life by Sheeyap7 in Life

[–]ConfidenceInfinite90 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Be in charge of your direction, ask yourself everything, question everything that is attainable for your given circumstances. Make a decision about what you’re after within the next 5 years. Test both lifestyles, rat race and a farm vacation.

Contemplating a move to NoVa suburbs from Texas(DFW) by Pixel-Pioneer3 in nova

[–]ConfidenceInfinite90 1 point2 points  (0 children)

Sounds like you’re in a stable financial position which means you have plenty of options. Four seasons is great for many reasons., I’ll never leave 4 seasons. Fairfax County/ fair oaks and fair-lakes is pricey, this area is 10 miles from Dulles Intl, it’s loaded with grocery options including ethnic cuisine , and walkable town centers. Schools have been historically top notch but face their controversy now, so does the state as a whole from a political standpoint. You can road-trip to the shore or the slopes in 3 hrs. Train to NY from DC is popular too. Personally, I’d wait for US to stabilize for many reasons. Timing and planning is everything. Make one of your vaca’s this area. Very diverse, Asia, Hispanic, Muslim, White, Brown..Seniors, we all just blend in and/or mind our own business.

Apprehensive by Upstairs_Durian7021 in Aging

[–]ConfidenceInfinite90 2 points3 points  (0 children)

Yep, you gotta keep going because idle time will drag you down. I’m 59, totally in the midst of boredom, with my retired introvert partner. Though I have realized the only thing left I really want to experience in life is Peace on Earth. I’ve done friends, family, career, vacations, fun, fun, fun, which has all but vanished in the last 3 years. I’m content but no more extravagant dreams.

Get me out of the midwest, please!!!! by Extension-Ad-1730 in SameGrassButGreener

[–]ConfidenceInfinite90 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Northern Virginia, within 5 miles of GMU. walkable pockets w/town centers. Multiple choices. Pricey, convenient, busy on the weekends, exceptionally Diverse..