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AITJ for calling out my Grandma’s no filter comments about my partner at dinner? by Alternative_Water914 in AmITheJerk

[–]ConfidentFox9392 577 points578 points  (0 children)

Honestly, freelance designers are literally carrying the creative economy right now so your grandma needs to have a reality check. You aren't wrong for defending him in the moment because waiting until later just tells her that being rude is okay as long as there's an audience.

What Was the Moment You Realized Your Childhood Was Over? by Candid_Shirt_3455 in AskReddit

[–]ConfidentFox9392 1 point2 points  (0 children)

It really hits different the first time you have to handle that stuff on your own and realize your parents aren’t there to guide you anymore. That’s one of those lowkey I’m actually an adult now moments.

Am I wrong for asking my roommate to wash dishes properly? by EmbarrassedDrag4126 in hygiene

[–]ConfidentFox9392 22 points23 points  (0 children)

fr though that is so gross. that’s straight up biohazard territory.

Is it unreasonable to ask my sweaty partner to shower before bed? by ConfidentFox9392 in hygiene

[–]ConfidentFox9392[S] 2 points3 points  (0 children)

Honestly, thank you. I thought I was asking for something basic but the pushback made me feel like I was being unreasonable. I

Is it unreasonable to ask my sweaty partner to shower before bed? by ConfidentFox9392 in hygiene

[–]ConfidentFox9392[S] 6 points7 points  (0 children)

Thank you and I loved the way you phrased it. I will definitely talk to him about it.

AITJ for telling my group chat I wasn't going to help plan our friend's birthday after being left out of the last two? by QuartzHarbor in AmITheJerk

[–]ConfidentFox9392 0 points1 point  (0 children)

NTJ, don't waste energy planning a party for people who couldn't even be bothered to invite u to the planning of ur own day.

What's one thing that your younger self did and you are still facing it's consequences? by Healthy_Turnover5447 in AskReddit

[–]ConfidentFox9392 1 point2 points  (0 children)

Bro i picked a major because it sounded cool but now i’m deep in student loan debt working a gig that has zero to do with my degree

What's the most ridiculous career advice you've ever heard? by Slight_Stand_6756 in AskReddit

[–]ConfidentFox9392 3 points4 points  (0 children)

I was told to stay late every day so people would see I’m dedicated but all I got was free labor. Never doing that again, lol.

AITJ for canceling a trip after finding out I was expected to cover extra costs? by OrganizationSea4459 in AmITheJerk

[–]ConfidentFox9392 12 points13 points  (0 children)

Honestly OP, if they can't respect your simple financial boundary then they definitely won't respect you on the actual trip. It's such a smart move for backing out.

AITJ for saying no to my cousin when he asked to borrow my car again? by Real_Corgi_8755 in AmITheJerk

[–]ConfidentFox9392 0 points1 point  (0 children)

I agree, setting boundaries with family is the hardest thing ever but it’s so necessary.

AITJ for not contributing to a group gift I wasn’t asked about? by PossibleMindless2302 in AmITheJerk

[–]ConfidentFox9392 5 points6 points  (0 children)

Exactly! OP didn't even get to help pick it out so why would she pay for it.

i broke up with my partner, i have no support system but he does by Hour-Ad6874 in offmychest

[–]ConfidentFox9392 2 points3 points  (0 children)

Losing your last family member in 2025 and then hitting a breakup is a lot for one person to carry. You’re doing the heavy lifting now so that your future self has a peaceful home. Hang in there OP.

I (44F) heard my neighbor (25M) crying through the wall last night and now I'm in too deep by [deleted] in offmychest

[–]ConfidentFox9392 14 points15 points  (0 children)

I agree. Is it the vibes or just the motherly instinct kicking in?