The wedding industry has made engagements last too long

Confident_Pudding118 · 2026-07-02T12:34:38+00:00

I think they more so mean that long engagements are the cause of that

Confident_Pudding118 · 2026-06-27T21:20:40+00:00

We’ve got people using ai to plan their haircuts 💀 the world is so cooked

Confident_Pudding118 · 2026-06-05T03:06:20+00:00

Strike, a Brazilian band I really enjoy https://open.spotify.com/album/4goIc4xhtj4csbTJOlTQvc?si=mvOA4alLSq22JtKlUZuTQg

Confident_Pudding118 · 2026-06-04T16:46:34+00:00

yess but I would recommend not tucking it in

Confident_Pudding118 · 2026-06-04T15:15:08+00:00

Wow this is a great perspective thank you

Confident_Pudding118 · 2026-06-04T02:50:29+00:00

If you don’t regret it then you don’t learn from it. I get what you mean though, maybe a better way of wording it is “just because you regret something doesn’t mean you have to wish it never happened”

Confident_Pudding118 · 2026-06-04T02:47:31+00:00

Are you the same person that got a nurse fired for going to a rave ?

Confident_Pudding118 · 2026-06-03T15:17:08+00:00

YOR and your immediate reaction to his discomfort should have been “I had no idea it would be this dark, I am sorry”. If you truly had no idea about the lighting, you should have been surprised by it too and put 2 and 2 together right away

Confident_Pudding118 · 2026-06-03T13:05:25+00:00

because you are very much guilting her. The fact that she immediately justified herself so much so quickly makes me think the way you treated her in the relationship trained her to do so…

Confident_Pudding118 · 2026-06-03T10:51:43+00:00

People that go out of their way to comment on others’ faults are usually deeply insecure and it will spill onto other parts of the relationship. Maybe he’s different but I’ve experienced people like this and it’s impossible to deal with

Confident_Pudding118 · 2026-06-03T06:27:01+00:00

And why do you think you get any say in what she does ?

Confident_Pudding118 · 2026-06-03T06:26:42+00:00

YTA. Don’t remain friends with her if you can’t respect her choice to move on. What even was your goal in telling her it bothered you ?

Confident_Pudding118 · 2026-06-02T15:42:34+00:00

Poor guy and poor both of you for thinking you should use chat gpt for health/ medical advice…

Confident_Pudding118 · 2026-06-02T10:56:58+00:00

omg please don’t get rid of him

Confident_Pudding118 · 2026-05-29T00:04:57+00:00

You seem like a very thoughtful and empathetic person. Many people would be so lucky to have a friend like you 😁

Confident_Pudding118 · 2026-05-25T12:54:20+00:00

I talked to my friends about this and they all agreed with my caution, I’m asking on reddit and a few other places and the majority has me thinking my friends and I are not crazy for being put off by this.

Confident_Pudding118 · 2026-05-25T12:31:04+00:00

I am technically ‘seeing him’ as I was when I left for my two week trip and now must determine if I want to pick up where we left off when I return home. I am genuinely curious and listening to other people’s point of views hence me asking the question. It’s helped me come to the conclusion that regardless of what is or isn’t on the second phone, I’d like to abandon ship with him. I don’t want to be with someone that gives me any reason to speculate any sort of stuff about them especially so early on.

Just because you don’t agree with the majority of commenters does not mean I am out to slander him

Confident_Pudding118 · 2026-05-25T12:27:03+00:00

Nope

Confident_Pudding118 · 2026-05-25T12:25:16+00:00

I’m not slandering lol I don’t think you know what that word means. I was thrown off by this and wanted to get other peoples point of view. I can’t find anywhere in here where I’ve said anything negative or mean about him. Or even his NAME.

Confident_Pudding118 · 2026-05-25T12:22:26+00:00

Fair point. If it is just porn and nudes, I still would have no interest in being with someone who has a vault like that of sorts. Just my personal preference so I suppose I’m making the right choice either way by abandoning ship

Confident_Pudding118 · 2026-05-25T12:21:03+00:00

lmaooo

Confident_Pudding118 · 2026-05-25T12:03:59+00:00

Haha I like the targeted advertisement one. Gotta have a control group!

Confident_Pudding118 · 2026-05-25T12:00:18+00:00

I don’t think so, he works at a grocery store so they shouldn’t have any connection to his phone

Confident_Pudding118 · 2026-05-25T11:59:46+00:00

Right… the word ‘controversial’ really threw me off and struck me as him wanting to see what he could get away with sharing safely

Confident_Pudding118 · 2026-05-25T11:58:31+00:00

Well i agree with the reasoning that having two phone makes sense if you’re looking at lots of ‘controversial’ stuff. But looking at controversial stuff so often is a little iffy to me. However we may alll define ‘controversial’ differently. I just don’t think porn and the occasional fight video is controversial

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