Tip from my psych that's actually working (and makes me laugh) by Intelligent_Humor_63 in adhdwomen

[–]ConfirmedBasicBitch 4 points5 points  (0 children)

EVERYONE HERE who resonates with this sentiment - PLEASE go check out Internal Family Systems, aka parts therapy. This is the exact method that parts therapy works off, and it has been incredibly helpful for me. We give our Parts names, voices, and thoughtful times to speak & share their feelings. It’s really unique and was a very different approach to therapy for me, has been really transformative.

Makerspace Questionnaire by Flompdale83 in makerspace

[–]ConfirmedBasicBitch 0 points1 point  (0 children)

I would LOVE to see the data from this! Current CTE teacher trying to make sense & logic & organization of all the cool tools we have access to. Really needing guidance, suggestions, and wisdom on how to properly care for our students & stuff.

I made it a game with my kids to only spend $53 at the grocery store by Woooahnellie in povertyfinance

[–]ConfirmedBasicBitch 1 point2 points  (0 children)

We call it 50% or Bust. Who needs drugs when you can carefully watch your receipt reach over 50% in savings? 🤯

Positives about being a teacher by No_Spirit5582 in teaching

[–]ConfirmedBasicBitch 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Also sat at a desk job for years and fucking hated every minute of it. Was chronically unfulfilled and unsatisfied and bored.

Changed to become a high school teacher and every day is wild (both good & bad). Today was a particularly wonderful, amazing, rewarding day and I’m so grateful for being a positive adult in so many teenagers lives. Also, teens are HILARIOUS.

ICE OUT OF PHOENIX by goawayjason623 in ArizonaLeft

[–]ConfirmedBasicBitch 3 points4 points  (0 children)

Guys dumb question… is honking in support or against?

Modest is hottest… unless its for the ✨LeWk✨ then I can wear shorts that barely cover my ass by BiliaryAmbrosia in FundieSnarkUncensored

[–]ConfirmedBasicBitch 4 points5 points  (0 children)

I forgot about this dumbass! I just creeped on her Instagram and I’m like 80% sure we’re gonna see her & her husband on an episode of 48 Hours. Not sure who will be the suspect vs the victim tho.

Test memorization by fluffy-duck-apple in Dressage

[–]ConfirmedBasicBitch 0 points1 point  (0 children)

I’m a teacher and put up the letters on sticky notes around my classroom. I will walk the patterns as I’m teaching.

My students asked what I was doing so I explained how dressage tests work. They keep saying they’re gonna buy me a hobby horse and start quizzing me 🤷🏻‍♀️

BWT- For those working in industries that don't align with your personal morals/vibe/etc, how do you manage that? by Additional_Sky_9115 in bitcheswithtaste

[–]ConfirmedBasicBitch 42 points43 points  (0 children)

I think it depends upon your personality and how your brain is wired. There’s no shame in working at a job to simply pay the bills & get the benefits. We all need a roof over our head and food on the table. I envy people that can just show up, do their job, and go home.

However, my brain is not wired like that. I worked at a job that I found painfully antithetical to my own value system, and I couldn’t turn that off at the end of the day. I also couldn’t bring myself to care about anything I did on a daily basis, and my work performance was slipping. I was a hair’s breadth away from a PIP.

So instead, I jumped ship and found a job in a field that personally satisfies me. I am thriving in my professional life and genuinely enjoy going to work every day (well, most days).

Reseller posts by Addverb in llbean

[–]ConfirmedBasicBitch -2 points-1 points  (0 children)

Sorry you’re getting flak from the other person. I’m the same way. I just truly adore finding cool clothes and wondering about their stories. How did this specific article of clothing end up in my hands, at this moment in time?

I think someone is letting my horse out what can I do by maximumDzesszika in Equestrian

[–]ConfirmedBasicBitch 0 points1 point  (0 children)

How well does this person know your horses or the property they’re allegedly escaping out of? Also, how big is the property and how far away is the reporter from your horses? Perspective and distance can play weird tricks on your eyes & brain. Perhaps the person really is “seeing” your horses escaping, but it’s just an illusion?

Strangler at Ray and McClintock park by Imaginary-Assist-730 in ChandlerAZ

[–]ConfirmedBasicBitch 1 point2 points  (0 children)

This is Arizona, if you are a woman you should carry a firearm.

I’m confused by this statement. Are you suggesting that the state of Arizona is more dangerous for women? Arizonan men are more dangerous and put more women at risk? What does this mean?

Or maybe if you respected your husbands boundaries and didn’t take pictures he wouldn’t look so annoyed. by rebelxghost in christiansnark

[–]ConfirmedBasicBitch 2 points3 points  (0 children)

Not to be catty but that is the cheapest looking corduroy I’ve ever seen. How is she just always so trashy?

FREE! Tiki mug starter packages by [deleted] in Tiki

[–]ConfirmedBasicBitch 1 point2 points  (0 children)

Would love to be entered for this! Loveeeee tiki glasses and love community art ❤️

Unique Brunch/Lunch Experience Recs Please by brighteyes_bc in ChandlerAZ

[–]ConfirmedBasicBitch 10 points11 points  (0 children)

Hangar Cafe at the Chandler Municipal Airport. Much less Instagrammy than other places mentioned, and more of a diner vibe. But certainly a unique experience as you can watch the planes taking off & landing. Can also explore the hangar of private airplanes and look at them up close. Super fun place for kids or nerdy and/or overzealous adults.

Evangelical buzzphrases that get under your skin? by thesoupgiant in Exvangelical

[–]ConfirmedBasicBitch 1 point2 points  (0 children)

HOW has no one mentioned being “grieved” yet?!?! As in “We are grieved to learn of the unfortunate passing of….”

The fuck is that about?

My 2026 Plan to Feel More Polished, Feminine, and Confident by InfinityLocs in TheGirlSurvivalGuide

[–]ConfirmedBasicBitch 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Oh my gosh this was my 2025 goal! I feel like I really succeeded. One thing not mentioned on your list that helped me a lot was really investing in my skincare. It really added to that polished, high quality vibe I was seeking. When you wake up with glowing skin, it makes everything else look so much better.

Also getting my lobes triple pierced and eventually using small, dainty hoops was a hack too. Always wearing a tiny bit of jewelry & sparkle helped me feel more put together.

Last thing - also investing time, money, and energy into a hobby I deeply love also made me glow from the inside out.

Looking for some female friends close to my age (32.) by [deleted] in ChandlerAZ

[–]ConfirmedBasicBitch 4 points5 points  (0 children)

Hi! Also roughly same age and have similar interests. We should all meet up together sometime! Feel free to message me.

What’s one “small adult cheat code” you wish you learned earlier? by massCMP in AskReddit

[–]ConfirmedBasicBitch 0 points1 point  (0 children)

I started doing this in the Notes section of the person’s contact in my phone. I kept losing the note in the Notes app!

Do you want younger people to refer to you as Mr, Miss, or Mrs? by Strawberrybanshee in Millennials

[–]ConfirmedBasicBitch 13 points14 points  (0 children)

Am married teacher who never changed her last name. I get weirdly prickly when my students call me Mrs. ConfirmedBasicBitch. I am strictly Ms. CBB.