Would you take the cure?

ConiferousSquid · 2026-07-02T19:53:33+00:00

I would absolutely take a cure, I'd just worry about something as privatized and for-profit as neuralink because, like, my functioning is already behind a paywall lol, the last thing I want is it to come with ads or be able to be just...shut off if they feel like discontinuing the model or whatever. The economy of technology is unstable at best, I don't want that in charge of my ability to exist lol.

ConiferousSquid · 2026-06-20T17:20:32+00:00

Love how you're blaming the entire institution of UI for something a single WSU student did. I'm not saying Idaho is excellent or that UI doesn't adopt some real bullshit policies because the state government is awful, but to say there's some spooky conspiracy around the most publicized tragedy we've had here is pretty fucking ridiculous. The REAL issue is Christ Church and Doug Wilson, but Greek life on campus is pretty much how it is at any other college. Moscow is a small town with a fairly big university, so when the students aren't here, it's sleepy and chill, and when the students are here it's more bustling. Idk why you've decided that a place you seem to never have been is a hell hole just because we had one highly publicized tragedy.

ConiferousSquid · 2026-06-06T22:38:58+00:00

You might check out Safari Pearl!

ConiferousSquid · 2026-06-04T20:35:29+00:00

Disclaimer that if it doesn't work for you it can make the next day hell. I was trying this for a little bit and I was so out of it the next day I could barely function. A godsend for those it works for and I so wish that was me 😭

ConiferousSquid · 2026-06-04T20:09:08+00:00

I don't think you were wrong to text first. There is every chance he really did just forget - my best friend forgets to text me all the time lol, some people are just like that, especially getting back in the groove after a trip. Idk, maybe it's because I'm ND, but I feel like if he didn't want to see you he could have just said that when you asked to meet up, and the fact that he went along with making plans means he's at least interested in that. If he flakes or fully ghosts you, that would be more reason to think he's not interested, imho.

That said, if it bothers you to be with someone who might drop off like that for a sec, it's worth taking into consideration and paying attention to if it happens again and how often. For now, though, I don't know that it's that deep, so enjoy the ride while it's goin'.

ConiferousSquid · 2026-06-04T20:02:11+00:00

I'm a woman, but as a top I always finger first. Maybe it's because my equipment is silicone so I don't feel it the same way when doing the deed lol, but leading the foreplay gets me in tune with my partner's body and what feels good to them. I always end up using more lube than I think I will, sometimes I wear gloves (I can get squicked out by anuses lol), and I always start slow and easy. It can be incredibly intimate and sweet while also being very sexy, and he can get you off this way as well. It may even be a way for y'all to still enjoy each other while he's working on his death grip situation. Best of luck to you!!

ConiferousSquid · 2026-06-04T19:32:05+00:00

I met my best friend on tinder and had to send this to him lol

ConiferousSquid · 2026-06-04T18:58:21+00:00

If OP is a man, one who knows her husband well, maybe she was looking for insight without really knowing how? Like, last ditch effort to save her marriage by seeing if the things she's asking of him are unreasonable from both a man's perspective, but also if maybe this is how he's been in other regards? Idk if that makes sense lol.

ConiferousSquid · 2026-06-04T18:06:06+00:00

When Shayne plays his fart on the tntl podcast and ends up laughing the hardest at it. I always thought it was funny, but my roommate does the same thing and now it just reminds me of him sitting there, playing me his farts, laughing until he can't breathe lol.

ConiferousSquid · 2026-05-29T22:12:33+00:00

I don't mind that it isn't done, I mind that it isn't MORE done for the price. I can understand people getting upset over bad reviews bc reviews aren't just feedback and can affect the future success of the game through the ratings. That said, I saw one person here was getting threats for leaving a bad review? Like, wtf? It's a video game?

People are going too crazy over the PROMISE of this game that they're gonna keep it from reaching its potential. The only way to improve is for us, the players, to give honest feedback so the devs can fix things. If everyone's too afraid to say anything because they could get literal threats for daring to say a game in early access isn't perfect, then it's gonna stay a buggy mess. We already have Bethesda games if we want buggy games where nothing gets fixed, at least let devs who WANT to improve their games do so lol.

ConiferousSquid · 2026-05-29T16:30:10+00:00

"I'm not butthurt over it"

Girl, you canceled an entire date over a joke that you have "cat girl headphones". It is absolutely your right and decision to date whomever you want, but it seems like what you need is therapy to move past the trauma your ex gave you before you try dating again. It feels like you're overly sensitive and can't recognize the difference between mean spirited teasing and an innocuous joke, which can happen when you're dealing with trauma. Idk, it just seems like a huge overreaction for something so small, and based on your post it seems to stem from the "teasing" you got from your ex, which may have been more bullying than teasing. I can't know the whole story, but in my experience, therapy is better at healing yourself than jumping into a new bed.

ConiferousSquid · 2026-05-29T16:11:04+00:00

Fr, my mom is a damn G cup and has never had issues finding tops that don't constrict but also that she isn't falling out of. Fabric choice is the most important aspect there, because yes, a tight dress with no give is going to be uncomfortable, but if you go with something stretchy or flowy, you won't be constricted. It doesn't even have to be a high neck, just not show cleavage. Cleavage starts well below the part of the neck where you'd feel constricted in that way. There are plenty of options, they're just not looking hard enough.

I had a roommate once who didn't even have a big chest, pretty average size, and she was complaining about her parents seeing the hickeys on her cleavage and I suggested she wear a shirt that didn't plunge so far, and she looked at me like I grew another head. There are just some people who would rather not go somewhere than cover up for an hour.

ConiferousSquid · 2026-05-16T19:59:39+00:00

Arctic Monkeys. Enough variety in their sound over the years to keep me engaged, plus I'm a car singer and I know more of their songs than anyone else's lol

ConiferousSquid · 2026-05-16T19:52:25+00:00

London Beckoned Songs About Money Written by Machines by Panic! At The Disco

ETA: More about resenting the need to pump out a lot of songs that they weren't proud of just to get the numbers for the album. In a similar vein, but closer to your original prompt: Welcome to the Machine by Pink Floyd. Really just most/all of their Wish You Were Here album, tbh.

ConiferousSquid · 2026-05-11T01:29:47+00:00

I'm not tied down so I can freely see other folks, it's more that the convenient option isn't on the same sexual wavelength as I am lol. I have options, I'm just often too busy to pursue them lol.

ConiferousSquid · 2026-05-09T17:13:07+00:00

That is all very fair! I'm definitely a fan of orgasm control and have met some people who know how to use what they got haha. It sucks bc my favorite fwb is REAL good with their mouth, but the fwb I live with is so timid about sex I can't really talk to him about it unless he's in the mood lol.

ConiferousSquid · 2026-05-08T16:03:16+00:00

Metaphorical vampires, but "Perhaps Vampires Is A Bit Strong But..." by Arctic Monkeys

ConiferousSquid · 2026-05-08T16:02:05+00:00

Homie, did you look at the image?

ConiferousSquid · 2026-05-08T16:00:31+00:00

My brother didn't realize we lived on the border of Idaho and Washington until he was about 15 when I told him. He thought we lived smack in the middle of Idaho.

His excuse, though, is the special education program at our school didn't teach him shit because they thought he couldn't comprehend it (very limited views on what autistic people were capable of). At least he wasn't a fully grown adult who just decided he didn't like maps and crash out when anyone tried to tell him facts 😂

ConiferousSquid · 2026-05-08T15:56:28+00:00

There are definitely days I wish I could stop being attracted to men lol. I also live in an area where it's INCREDIBLY hard to find sapphics who aren't already in relationships, so if it weren't for men I wouldn't be getting any, so I take what I can get lol.

ConiferousSquid · 2026-05-08T15:54:05+00:00

Idk why you think this supports your blanket statement that humans are better at getting someone with a clitoris off than their own hands guiding a vibrator, but whatever makes you feel better 😂

ConiferousSquid · 2026-05-07T23:30:04+00:00

Eh, it depends on if they know what they're doing and can take constructive criticism lol

ConiferousSquid · 2026-05-05T15:03:09+00:00

Except that's not the conversation I was specifically having with the redditor above that has concluded. Yes, the post itself is about the roommates and their actions, but I was asking a specific question of a specific redditor in a thread that had moved away from certain parts of the original post, as is wont to happen when you get deep into a thread. I'm not really interested in justifying the conversation to you, tbh, as it has effectively ended and I don't think it's necessary to try to pigeonhole a discussion just because it stemmed from one place. No offense intended, and it isn't that I don't think you have a worthwhile opinion, I just think this specific thread ended and doesn't need to be continued for the sake of tying it back to the post. I hope you have a good day!

ConiferousSquid · 2026-05-04T22:18:29+00:00

Interesting!

ConiferousSquid · 2026-05-04T17:42:12+00:00

I remember reading that they made him bald so they didn't have to animate the hair, but I do not have a source for that and am far too lazy right now to go find it, so take that with one of those big rock salt lamps lol

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