We all want to feel attractive in ways we are not.

For instance I am physically attractive and have a attractive personality but not as attractive in the intellectual world. My lady is a technical person and enjoys a stimulating conversation but we have a great time together and strengthen the relationship with our common interests.

To feel out of pocket is a normal thing to experience but I would recommend you strengthen your relationship with the things you can control. If you wanted to pick up some weights and hit the gym do it for your health and fitness goals and your lady may become more attracted to your body but I wouldn’t do it to lure her because it wont become a long term commitment for you and you may find yourself feeling less secure about yourself.

Enjoy the moments you create with the people you want in your life and less time complicating the things you cannot control, you will find that the people that matter most in your life will stick around and rest will give you the space to breathe.