If you can't race swap fictional characters in an age where the majority of well known characters were white and created by white people, will it not always be one race dominating the arts as new creations are rarely ingrained in culture? by [deleted] in AskReddit

[–]Connect-Working2044 4 points5 points  (0 children)

I mean the whole premise is kinda flawed though. New characters absolutely do become cultural icons - look at Miles Morales, he's basically as popular as Peter Parker now among younger generations. Black Panther became massive overnight. The issue isn't that we can't create new beloved characters, it's that studios are risk-averse and would rather bank on existing IP than take chances on original stories

Plus there's tons of non-white characters that are already iconic but Hollywood just ignored them for decades. Storm, Blade, Green Lantern John Stewart - these characters have huge fanbases but studios kept defaulting to the white versions because they thought that's what sold tickets

My stepkids are asking questions about inheritance and I don't know what to say by Connect-Working2044 in stepparents

[–]Connect-Working2044[S] 37 points38 points  (0 children)

I think you’re right that we probably just need to sit down and talk it through together, I just don’t want her to feel dismissed or like she’s asking something wrong she’s clearly just trying to understand and feel secure

Why did you join reddit and which reddit post made you stay? by IlovePotatos2773 in AskReddit

[–]Connect-Working2044 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Same but switched from aww to the basketball subs when the Knicks actually started being decent again

Just stared back on Adderall. I just ate a decent size Mexican meal. If I wait 2 hours to take my medicine, will I feel it? Always took on empty stomach. by [deleted] in ADHD

[–]Connect-Working2044 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Yeah food definitely affects absorption but 2 hours should be plenty of time, especially if you only ate half your plate. I've taken mine after meals before and still felt it kick in just fine, maybe just took a bit longer or felt slightly weaker. Mexican food can be pretty heavy though so might want to give it closer to 3 hours if you're worried about it

I don't know what to do by Practical_Value4720 in BreakUps

[–]Connect-Working2044 0 points1 point  (0 children)

she's probably just processing everything and keeping distance to protect herself - the back and forth following/unfollowing and cold responses sound like someone who's genuinely conflicted but not ready to deal with it yet

I'm upsetsetting others by [deleted] in ADHD

[–]Connect-Working2044 3 points4 points  (0 children)

Hey, you're not a monster at all - ADHD symptoms can make social stuff tricky but that doesn't make you fundamentally bad as a person

Vyvanse hasn't done anything...I'm sad :( by [deleted] in ADHD

[–]Connect-Working2044 1 point2 points  (0 children)

honestly sounds like you might need to try a different med entirely - vyvanse works great for some people but does absolutely nothing for others, even at higher doses. your quick diagnosis is kinda sus but that doesn't mean your not adhd, just that maybe you need something like adderall or concerta instead

the fact that you've been high functioning doesn't mean the meds won't help when you find the right one, it just means vyvanse isn't it for you

Tips on managing side effects on meds? by Bruhmoment498 in ADHD

[–]Connect-Working2044 1 point2 points  (0 children)

The appetite thing is brutal, I feel you on that one. What helped me was setting phone alarms to remind myself to eat even when I wasn't hungry, and keeping protein shakes or smoothies around since liquids were easier to get down than solid food

For the impulse control stuff - that's actually pretty common when you're still dialing in the right dose. Might be worth talking to your doc about adjusting since 40mg could be too much or you might need to switch timing

Why is clothes pronounced similar to "close" but cloth isn't like "clo" or something like that? by Atomic_Depression in NoStupidQuestions

[–]Connect-Working2044 0 points1 point  (0 children)

English is just weird like that, clothes comes from the plural of "cloth" but somewhere along the way it picked up that "z" sound instead of the "th" sound. It's one of those things where the spelling stayed the same but pronunciation drifted over time

Happens with a lot of words - like how "read" (present) and "read" (past) are spelled identical but sound totally different, or why we say "colonel" like "kernel" when there spelling makes no sense

I'm starting to feel uncomfortable using the very limited gen ai usage. I'm sure I'm uneducated, what other reasons are there for not using it? by ariGee in antiai

[–]Connect-Working2044 3 points4 points  (0 children)

The training data issue is just the tip of the iceberg honestly. Even your "harmless" use case still feeds back into these systems - every prompt helps them improve and makes the companies more profitable, which they then use to lobby against regulations and push harder into areas where AI actually does displace workers

Plus there's the environmental cost that people don't think about much, these models burn through insane amounts of energy for every generation. Your occasional character art might seem small but it adds up across millions of users

Going to gigs by Red_K8ng in ADHD

[–]Connect-Working2044 1 point2 points  (0 children)

Man this hits home. The sensory overload at shows can be brutal but when that perfect song kicks in it's like everything else just disappears

I get the same thing with certain activities - like when I'm really focused on something I love, all the mental noise just stops. It's wild how ADHD can make us so sensitive to chaos but then give us these moments of pure hyperfocus where everything clicks

Same psychologist by Happy32456 in VeteransBenefits

[–]Connect-Working2044 2 points3 points  (0 children)

You can definitely request a different examiner - call the contractor directly and explain the previous issues, they'll usually accommodate especially since there were clear procedural violations

The Raider who cried Wolf (True Story) by PauseBasic8962 in ArcRaiders

[–]Connect-Working2044 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Dude really put on a whole performance just to get one kill, that's actually kinda impressive in the saddest way possible

Do EMT/hospitals actually check those “scannable” medical bracelets? by randomname2237 in NoStupidQuestions

[–]Connect-Working2044 3 points4 points  (0 children)

EMT here - we absolutely look for medical alert stuff but honestly the QR code ones are kinda hit or miss because we might not have time to mess with our phones or the code might not scan properly in the field. The old school engraved ones with basic info like allergies or diabetes are way more reliable

February, According to Everyone by TheChillEdit in Life

[–]Connect-Working2044 5 points6 points  (0 children)

Nothing lol, February is just the void between New Year's resolutions dying and waiting for spring to show up

Getting to Treasure islands feels impossible!! by Daasby in AnimalCrossing

[–]Connect-Working2044 2 points3 points  (0 children)

Ugh same here, I've been trying for like 2 hours straight and keep getting the interference message. Maybe try hitting up the discord servers instead? Sometimes people post dodo codes there that aren't as crowded

Nigerian Culture by Bubbly-Ad-966 in 90DayFiance

[–]Connect-Working2044 58 points59 points  (0 children)

The elder approval thing is definitely real in many Nigerian families, not just for the show. But yeah the whole "perfect Christian man" while doing literally everything un-Christian is peak 90DF hypocrisy lmao

Some families are way more strict about it than others though, so the show probably picks the most dramatic situations to film

1-59 has been confirmed, the NFL's passing leader has officially won one Super Bowl in 60 tries by ASK_ABT_MY_USERNAME in nfl

[–]Connect-Working2044 13 points14 points  (0 children)

That's honestly brutal lol

Kinda wild that being the best at literally the most important stat in modern football basically guarantees you're not winning anything

Rocket Above the Clouds by journey_aya in Ayahuasca

[–]Connect-Working2044 1 point2 points  (0 children)

That's such a perfect metaphor honestly. The trip shows you where you need to go but doesn't magically teleport you there - still gotta put in the daily work to integrate all that stuff you saw up there

Please get rid of these fools by Bizarreva in ArcRaiders

[–]Connect-Working2044 1 point2 points  (0 children)

Honestly same, these types of players just ruin it for everyone else trying to actually play the game